The Concept Of Failure ₊˚⊹♡₊˚

the concept of failure ₊˚⊹♡₊˚

there is no such thing as failure. everything that seems to go wrong, every little inconvenience, whatever makes you grit your teeth and stress out and beat yourself up for; none of it means you've failed at whatever you're trying to do, because failure simply does not exist.

failure literally means lack of success. and that word is allowed into your vocabulary? you're allowed to describe anything you do as a failure? as "i've failed?"

no matter what you're trying to be, where you are, how you're trying to live, what your current life looks like, the way you live, the way you talk, where you come from, what you do, what you say, none of it can possibly fail, even if it seems that way. because everything in your life made for you, by you.

everything is the way it is because everything is always aligning in your best interests, whether it seems like it or not. whatever seems like its "failing" now is to show you there is so much more coming in the future.

think about it for a sec. everything you've classed as a failure in your life has taught you something. say there was somebody in your life, close to you or not, that changed you not for the better. you wouldn't be reading this if you hadn't learnt anything from that. it wasn't time wasted, you shouldn't have been wiser, none of these things people tell themselves when things like this happen. it was meant to happen regardless because it was supposed to teach you and evolve you into what you are and where you're headed now.

no matter what you do, you cannot fail, because no matter what you do it is always going to aid you in the future in some way or another, whether it be to teach you a lesson, help somebody in a similar situation, use your experience in a future scenario, anything you can think of, whether said action is bad or good.

your internal reality reflects onto your external reality. even when you have such a belief that everything you do is bound to fail, even then it's still impossible because you are succeeding in making everything fail for yourself. that is still success. that is still not failing.

please stop being so concerned over this. whatever you're trying to do, whatever you're trying to pursue, whatever you're trying to achieve, please stop stressing over failure. no matter what happens, you can not fail. you got this.

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