Friendly Reminder That If You Label Yourself As Proship But You Harass Others For Having Squicks/limits/triggers,

daily reminder that:

𖹭 you are not evil for being a proshipper

𖹭 you do not deserve harm for being a proshipper

𖹭 your thoughts are not your actions

𖹭 you did not "enjoy" your traumas because you are a proshipper

𖹭 what you enjoy in fiction does not dictate what you enjoy in reality

𖹭 you do not have to change your content because others do not like it

𖹭 you are not evil for being a proshipper

𖹭 you are not evil for being a proshipper

if you're an adult and you're still afraid of being proshit on main, sTOP

you're only feeding into the idea that it's the abnormal view to have. the gross side of the "debate" that should only be spoken about in whispers of shame. it's not. you know what's gross? harassment. censorship. doxxing.

block buttons exist for a reason. muting tags is a real thing you can do. there's always someone somewhere who likes that one specific niche thing you do and is just waiting for someone else to notice its potential.

it's 2025, ditch the toxic fan-policing circle jerk and be free

i feel like antis are using the same tactics as homophobes to get more people to dislike proshippers

i've been seeing a lot of them saying that proshippers are groomers and that any attempt we make to be kind to them is just some sort of grooming tactic

and to me it just sounds exactly like hearing homophobes and transphobes saying that all trans people are going to groom your kids into being trans or all gay people are going to groom your children into being gay

its scary, and so stupid.

i understand that a lot of antis have this fear because they were groomed by a proshipper or they know someone who was, but it really frustrates me because there are going to be groomers everywhere on the internet, its like their hunting grounds.

yes some trans people are groomers, that does not make all trans people groomers.

yes some gay people are groomers, that does not make all gay people groomers.

and, yes some proshippers are groomers

that does not make all proshippers groomers.

Did you know...?

...if you're disgusted or triggered by incest, rape, age gaps, and etc.

...but you filter/block so you can ignore those things whenever possible

...and you do not harass, bully, dox, or threaten anybody over what they post, like, ship, read, or write

...and you generally mind your own business

...and believe others should do the same

....you are a pro-shipper.

Congratulations.

"Art is mean to comfort the disturbed and disturb the comforted"

Antis: so true!! Of course!!

"I use triggering and explicit topics in my fiction"

Antis: EW KYS PEDO TAKE A SHOWER EWW WTF

If you think about it those “fixing proshit art” videos people make on tiktok and yt shorts are just todays version of the gacha heat police videos in 2020 who’d “fix” peoples stuff (and expose nsfw to minors)

Reminder: Pixels, lines on paper, or words on a page about fictional people do NOT equate to CSAM/CSEM.

For that, an actual, real child must be taken advantage of.

Stop watering down the terms even more.

my ass when I accepted that I was proship

wtf man ugh....

the unblured person is me btw.

These "normal people" commented this on someone who made a gore art of Ochako a while back.

They recently made a post explaining why they had been gone. A family member was ill and they were helping taking care of them.

Of course here comes these people saying shit that proves antis will never be in the right.

Antis are sick individuals who will use the horrible situation of real people to try to sound in the right.

proship culture is being TERRIFIED for anti communities. nevermind the weirdo stalkers, even just the casual antis. they don't really know what "proship" means and yet they are so terrified of being associated with the term, they ask other people for PERMISSION to ship two ADULTS together. i am actually so concerned for these people, who are clearly teens or even children. that is not a good way to live!!! be free!! you don't have to put your energy into ships you otherwise wouldn't care about! block the tags, you are clearly too young to be looking at that.

seriously, i feel like this whole thing is a loud minority of people terrorizing a bunch of kids into thinking their fun needs to be a beacon of morality and perfection and that not rejecting and dehumanizing a group of people for an often misused INTERNET LABEL is their moral failing.

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