Hey Little One, Yeah You! I Know You’ve Been Putting In A Lot Of Effort Lately, And I’m Proud Of

caregiver with a black little that has internalized racism

always makes sure to put on shows with good black rep and buy books with black characters

does your hair all pretty in cornrows or box braids and adds colourful beads to it

always reassured you you're a good kid no matter what others assume about you

and that your skin and black features are very pretty

loves making your 'non-typical' agere meals that are a bunch of Jamaican foods (/foods from your ethnicity) your mom used to make for you

will do as much as possible to keep you away from the news when regressed

will NOT let anyone tell you that pastels don't look good on you

they're try to reassure you you don't need to worry about racism and stuff cause they'll protect you but sometimes they have to admit they can't protect you from everything and just let you cry in their arms

will teach you about strong black figures

helps you reconnect with parts of your culture your parents didn't share with you like reggae music

if you're African they'll wrap you in a bunch of African prints and celebrate Kwanzaa with you

Age regressor Silco headcannons

⭐A toddler regressor, very quiet too when he's regressed unless he's in a tantrum

⭐Super secretive about it like the only people to ever find out were Vander, Felicia, and Jinx

⭐Regresses from stress which is normally from his workload or drama happening with the chembarons or shipment issues. Used to also be from loud parties and the last drop being too crowded

⭐Has a secret room filled with regressor things that he warns Sevika and his other workers to NEVER go into and to not bother him when he's in there no matter what

⭐Used to be a very well behaved little that just liked to make drawings and play with blocks but after his falling out with Vander he became very fussy and would throw tantrums almost every time he regressed

⭐Masks that he's regressed if he can't get to his safe room which normally means turning his 'crying and hitting the ground' tantrums into a 'beating up and firing the person closest to him' tantrum

⭐The others have learned how to pick up that he's about to throw a tantrum and leave as soon as there are warning signs

⭐This scene was one of his tantrums (s01e06, 'guns for hire' scene)

⭐Most of Jinx caregiving for him is her teaching him how to play as a kid and not just cry and hit stuff

⭐They doodle over stuff together, Silco is always a lot more shy with drawing over random things but Jinx gets him to open up

⭐By the end his art style is almost the same as hers. his drawings start out super scratchy, only using greys and stuff but they turn really colourful

⭐he loves having all his plushies and bottles covered in Jinx's drawings

⭐At first she tries to avoid drawing on his stuff to give him space when he's regressed but she finds he clings onto anything she's drawn on and she starts decorating more of his stuff

⭐If he's feeling really little she'll blow stuff up cause he likes the pretty colours but he always gets mad at her when he's big again

⭐ Jinx also regresses and she started suspecting he might when he first saw her regressed and immediately knew what was going on

⭐one day she heard him sobbing in his safe room and went in

⭐he was super upset and told her to get out but eventually she was able to get him to open up about it and she promised to care for him whenever he needs it

⭐sometimes Sevika will find their agere things around and Jinx will always take responsibility for it

Past Vander and Felica Stuff:

⭐Vander first found out when Silco went into a backroom of the last drop when it got too loud. Vander followed to check up on him and Silco quickly put away his notebook and crayons he was drawing with and tried to do his best impression of being big. Vander wasn't convinced Silco was okay and kept checking in on him.

⭐Later Vander followed up with Silco, asking him if he was actually okay back then and Silco admitted to him he regresses. he was really worried Vander would find him weird or think it was for weird reasons but Vander just asked him more about it and how he can help

⭐Vander then got Silco a bunch of stuff, markers, bottles, stickers, anything he could find

⭐Silco loved being held by Vander, it made him feel so small, being in Vander's big arms

⭐Felica found out when she walked in on Vander taking care of Silco. Vander tried really hard to cover for Silco but Silco decided he trusted her enough to tell her his secret

⭐She would occasionally take care of Silco if Vander was busy but he never liked her style of cging as much

⭐but when Vi was on the way he starting letting her be his cg a lot more so she could get some practice in and feel more sure of herself

⭐he would always be sure to tell her how good of a mama she is

I so sick and need dis so badly :'(

sick little and caregiver...

cg who runs their fingers through their babys hair and notices their fever

cg who helps their kiddo bathe when theyre so sick and small they cant do it on their own

cg who fetches EVERYTHING for little. drinks, stuffies, soup, little doesn't have to lift a finger.

cg who shushes a feverish, tossing and turning little back to sleep.

Your caregiver supporting of you after people were harassing/bullying you online:

⭐ After it first happens they immediately delete whatever app you're being harassed on off your phone

⭐If you're done with that app they'll delete your account

⭐If you want to keep your account they'll make sure to take off any personal information or pictures of you you put up on that account so you can feel safe knowing no one can track you down and hurt you more

⭐They come up with a bunch of other activities for you to do instead of using that app

⭐They'd show you a bunch of episodes about bullying from kids shows to make you feel less alone

⭐They'd reassure you that your feelings are valid and that online bullying is real bullying

⭐They make sure to tell you it wasn't your fault and that you didn't deserve that

⭐"but-but what if I was being a bad kid", "bubba, nothing you could do online would ever justify people threatening to hurt you"

⭐Would promise you that if anyone ever tried to follow through on a threat that they'd protect you

⭐They'd talk to you about what it would mean for you to get justice against the people harassing you

⭐If it would be a good idea to take evidence of people who sent you death threats and try to have their account banned or try to track down their school/job and show them the evidence

⭐Together you decided that it would be best for your mental health if you just deleted any messages and blocked them

⭐After a while if you wanted to go back to using that app they'd go through the notifications and block anyone who was harassing you and show you all the messages people sent saying they were sorry you were being treated that way

⭐You'd have your head in their lap, holding onto your favourite stuffie for comfort and they'd be scrolling on your phone

⭐"Are there a lot of them?", "That doesn't matter Bubba. You're safe and you have me here to protect you", "...okay"

⭐Every so often they'd stop and show you a kind message from someone and each time you'd feel just a little bit safer

⭐They'd respond to those messages for you

⭐If you weren't out as a regressor on that account they'd translate your little-talk about how you had big feelings but their messages were like kisses on your boo-boos to more adult sounding thank-yous

black regressor moodboard !!! 🛁🫧<3

we don't get enough representation in the agere community and it can feel really discouraging sometimes !!! especially when you have different nostalgic regression when it comes to getting your hair done, the music you grew up listening to, and rarely seeing other black characters in your favorite media >< but we are here and we are just as valid as everyone else !!! you are loved and seen !!! <3 sincerely a fellow black regressor <3 ^_____^🐛

Just a reminder: You aren't weird or gross for having accidents while regressed! That's what diaps and such are there for, silly!

let’s lay flat on our ovoidal mama

TW// vent about sexualization of agere

can we please stop pointing fingers at regressors who wear diapers and going “EWW AN ABDL!! NSFW DNI!!!!” because that is disgusting behavior. you are ACTIVELY sexualizing another persons regression if you look at sfw regressors and immediately accuse them of being kinksters.

there are several reasons why a regressor would want to (or even need) to wear diapers. some regressors struggle with incontinence and literally need to wear them. some littles lose the ability to go potty like a big kid/adult when they enter littlespace. some littles use them in place of pads/tampons while menstruating (adults use them for the same reason if they have heavy flows!!). and lastly, some just enjoy doing it.

it’s unfair to be okay with pacifiers, bottles, sippies, onesies, etc. but then flip your lid at diapers. all forms of little gear are valid and diapers are included in that.

next time you call a padded little a “gross abdl” think about how you’re sexualizing their regression, something YOU wouldn’t want done to YOURSELF.

Dippin dots!!!!!

Zoo pics from yesterday!!

・・・・・ fictional story about my imaginary cg・・・・・

︶︶︶ ⊹ ︶︶ ୨ ♡♡♡ Morning Wid Me n My Mama ♡♡♡ ୧ ︶︶︶ ⊹ ︶︶

Deaw diawy...

I had da best da ever wid ma mama. Iz waz sooo gud (˶˃ ᵕ ˂˶) .ᐟ.ᐟ

I gotted to eep over wid her yesterday n iz was so nice n she hewped me wid da buttons on m onzie n i gotta snuggle up so close to her (˶˘ ³˘(´͈ ᵕ `͈˶) so i was tinking i would wake up next to her bu when i woke she was gone ( ˶°ㅁ°) !!

iz was so weird n i was so sad, where did she go? (๑﹏๑//) I awmost started cwying bu den i called out to her n she came in cause she was just in da kitchen ( ˶ˆᗜˆ˵ ). She said she twied to wake me to teww me she was going bu dat i was eeping too hawd

Anyways i was no sad anymoar cause she gave me pancakes!!! (っˆڡˆς) Dey had smiwey faces on dem wid chocowate chips 🍫 n stwawbewwies 🍓 N!!! She let me has ice cweam wid dem. Iz waz soo yummy 🥞🥞🥞

me waz sooo happy, waz pwetty messy so gotta cwean ma onzie (,,>﹏<,,) bu was defwnitwy wort it

hello! this is kinda different from what I normally post but I write a lot of stories about imaginary caregivers so I'm trying to form a more solid imaginary caregiver I can use for comfort

feel free to insert your own imaginary or fictional caregiver here :3