I think many people have a fundamentally wrong idea of how CNC play is supposed to work.
To fit the season we are in I’ll describe CNC as the haunted house of kinky play.
In a haunted house the point is to be surprised and scared. You don’t know what is going to await you in each room and we suspend belief for a bit to pretend that these monsters are real, there is some real danger.
But under that is an agreement we make when we enter the haunted house. The actors won’t hurt us, the gore and monsters aren’t real. The people inside are going to try to scare you but if they see you aren’t having a good time they will back off.
It’s the same with CNC play. It’s something that should be done with someone you know well and who knows you even better.
It’s a blanket of consent that allows the submissive to lose themselves in the experience. To not have to constantly be checked in on over and over by their dom because their dom already knows their limits well, and how hard to push them, and can read very well when they stop having a good time and stop.
It’s a chance to explore scenarios where you wouldn’t actually want to be in. It’s the fun of someone pretending to kidnap you but you know deep down you are safe. It’s the fun of playing with multiple partners like you are being overcome against your will but the whole group is in on your limits and desires and is facilitating that for you.
CNC is never supposed to be to abuse someone. Or have an opportunity to hurt someone without their consent. It’s play, a show, an experience that’s a bit deeper and more involved than your ordinary sexual encounters. But it’s always for the enjoyment of both the dom and sub to fulfill their fantasies in a way that is always safe and consensual.
the link to see you finally destroy that little sports bra isn't working..shame.. i wanted to see you cry
I think you sent this to the wrong person. That or you misunderstood a reboot I made. Im not a detrans afab person. Im a man who was born that way, and I have fucked up kinks. Please go reread the post you thought was mine.
Starting now & going until mid September :3 Spam is welcomed <3 do your worst
sorry if it’s a lil bland I couldn’t think of many things!
•Repeatable•
every 1 notes- day of growing out my hair
every 2 notes- 1 day no “boy” undies
every 5 notes- 1 day no binding
every 10 notes- skip T for a day (I use a daily gel)
•Goalposts•
50 notes- Shave whole body (proof to ppl who ask)
75 notes- Switch no binding to wearing a bra (*5 note challenge)
100 notes- Post gifs of me pumping my tits/lactating
125 notes- Put my dead Real name in my bio
150 notes- Post audio of me moaning
200 notes- Go for a walk wearing a skirt/dress (proof to ppl who ask)
250 notes- Get creampied & show anyone who asks for proof
300 notes- Go for a walk wearing a skirt/dress while letting someone control my Lovense (proof to ppl who ask)
350 notes- Write whatever degrading/humiliating/etc. people tell me to on my body & post pictures
500 notes- I cancel my birth control appointment (beginning of Sep.)
that’s all I can think of right now:3
Feel free to make requests if I actually get over 500 before the start of Sep.
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i always mean it when i say i love you btw
Exactly what I am thinking.
Y'all subs are really out here saying 'you're mean' as if your panties don't get wet when we're mean.