In rope negotiations, talk about how long it will take to untie and make sure you’re both aware of how you’ll communicate when you want to untie! A red/yellow/green stoplight checkin system can be great. A nonverbal method of communicating this is an important backup.
Your safety shears should always be nearby too. Being in rope for any longer than you want can be scary and dangerous. Untie as soon as the limit is approaching, and never be scared to cut rope if you need to!
Riggers, make sure your bunny knows they can indicate when they’re wearing out, instead of waiting until they reach a limit.
Rope bunnies, get comfortable identifying that feeling and communicating it! A trustworthy rope top will never pressure you to stay in rope for more time than you are comfortable. (Even if they can’t finish the tie. Even if they’re taking pictures and are interrupted. Even if you’re in a scene). You deserve to have pleasant experiences in rope!
Play safely :-)
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Also, spending taxpayer money to provide food is "extremist" but spending taxpayer money to hire cops to guard dumpsters to prevent homeless people from eating for free is "the way we do things".
fun fact: the best way to get a top to completely fucking obliterate you is by clearly expressing what you want and what your boundaries are. get your back blown out with this one weird trick
yknow I really don't understand why monster dicks are allowed to be weird and animalistic and fucked up looking but god forbid pussy look like anything other than a small hairless smooth hole justice for weird pussy shapes
man it’s gonna be so bleak when trump wins, enacts his dumbass tariff plan, and everything costs way more after the last decade of people acting like republicans have magic economy juice
It recently came to my attention that a lot of people, even those who frequently use condoms, don't know that you need to pinch the tip when you put one on or don't know why!
Leaving air in the tip will cause it to expand (and maybe break) when ejaculation happens. Also, air in the condom makes it more likely for the ejaculation to push the air down the condom and make it slip off.
Share to save someone from a condom breakage!
pokemon unite scares me but the holowear is awesome