Hi! I’m P.p 18 Pisces Rising! I Have No Placements In Aries. My Question Is Why Am I Struggling To

hi! i’m p.p 18 pisces rising! i have no placements in aries. my question is why am I struggling to find love? i have never dated anyone before but i have had crushes and heartbreaks. the ppl i catch feelings for often take advantage of that fact and i have reached a point where i am incredibly jaded about love due to the unhealthy disappointing and unlucky experiences i have had,, ty lots 💓

Why is PP struggling to find love?

What stops you is that you are very guarded. It's as if you shut yourself off and remain quite distrustful of others. You may also have high standards. Which I understand, because I do the same thing lmao (twin where have you been~ /jk). Never lower your standards though! And as I was saying, that distrust forms an emotional distance from others. The high priestess appeared reversed, and based on the context of your reading, maybe that distrust comes as a defense mechanism from bad experiences and is blocking your intuition. You need to learn how to stop them from having an influence in you to the point they no longer block you from connecting with others in a more healthy way. You may have inadvertently built a wall without realizing it. The reversed star in your spread seemed very saddening to me, the disappointments have been difficult for you. It is not bad to have high standards or to be careful with others, in your case it seems that your disappointments have tinted something that may be innocent, and instead of having standards and just being careful, you turned distant and distrustful. You need to open up without lowering your expectations. Imagine yourself as if you were someone using a brush to dust off a painting—it is not a bad thing! You're just removing the dust to take advantage of the use that beautiful paint can have in a room. The best way to do this would be if you become more emotionally independent and learn to be more compassionate with yourself and also with others (but this comes second lmao). Without lowering your standards. Just between us, your cards have a lot of color so there’s a hopeful future for you, there was just one gray card and it was a good one. You have a really softer side deep inside, don't let it get all dust up!

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6 months ago
Hey  Theeere,  Name’s  C.  I’m  Venus  Dominant,  Entp  (8w7),  So  Don’t  Be  Surprised 

Hey  theeere,  name’s  C.  I’m  venus  dominant,  entp  (8w7),  so  don’t  be  surprised  to  see  more  inclination  towards  romance  tarot  readings.  English  is  no  my  first  language!  So  bare  w/  me.  I  love  fashion,  tarot  and  movies.  I  also  enjoy  learning  about  mbti  (  tho  i’m  no  expert  ). My reading style is straightforward and direct without overly spiritual language. I reserve the right to decline any reading that conflicts with my personal ethics, values or energy. 

WHAT  I  DO:

General,  love & personal  growth.  I encourage open-minded and respectful questions that don't overstep ethical or personal boundaries. Basic  astrology  birth  chart  questions.

WHAT  I  DON’T  DO:

Medical  or  legal  themed readings or advice.  Allow  minors or  obsessive  people (I don't answer questions that feel invasive, repetitive or based on unhealthy attachments & since i always do an energy check i tend to find this out). No third-party readings: I won't dive into others thoughts or feelings without their consent. No contact questions (to be more specific, I won't answer questions about reconciling with people who may have explicitly cut ties, blocked or separated from you). Free readings unless it’s a tarot game. No extreme predictive timelines with specific timing questions. Timing in tarot can be too fluid. Yes or no questions now since tarot gives more nuanced answers to provide clarity beyond a simple yes or no. No hexes, curses or spellwork.


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7 months ago

I adore your page! Your latest PAC is shockingly similar to a situation I’m currently experiencing and just wanted to tell you—spot on. Pile 3❤️ thank you!

Aw, thank you babes! Glad it resonated


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5 days ago

I just want to say how much I appreciate the time and energy you put into your readings. Thank you! It has always resonated with me and my journey. 💐✨♾️

I’m so glad it did and I’m happy for you 🥺💞 thank you lots, I’m sending you my best wishes! <3


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6 months ago

hello! im here for the tarot game!

FMH

18

cancer rising

aries mc 4°

question: why am i struggling to score in my exams despite my efforts?

why is FMH struggling to score in their exams despite their efforts?

Your main obstacle is that you lack clarity about your ability to organize yourself well. Being strategic is your Achilles heel. There is a disconnect between your actions and intentions. To the point that it makes you feel like you are carrying the weight of the world because of this. Try not to be too encompassing and too unorganized. You need to plan better in the long term. There is energy you are wasting specifically because of the external expectations you have placed on yourself. They are not even your own expectations. You may even feel constantly evaluated because of that. Wanting to impress others before yourself, and it leads you to want to be all encompassing and not have a more structured plan of what you should be doing and what you should be working on. And then: Bam! You're left with that weight of the world on top of you. The reality is that this is not something that you value internally. You value the expectations of others so much that you haven't taken the time to know what you really value. Your method of study is quite unique and non-traditional, and you are stifling and suppressing it in a rigid method. The best approach you can have right now is one where you are not so rigid. You're not doing things for the love of it, or what you learn. You're doing it so rigidly trying to meet the expectations of others that it rightly makes you feel unhappy, stuck, and even causes you to procrastinate. You should look for a more flexible approach, something personalized to you that will help you reconnect with that inner motivation that will make you feel more creative and motivated to get things done. 

In other words: Stop fighting your nature (in this case, your study style) and work with it. I also recommend using the "Emotional Anchoring" method. If your exams left you stressed out it is a technique that connects you emotionally and gives you motivation in your studies. You can check it here!


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6 months ago

Casually dropping his hyper fixation into the convo so he’s forced to talk to me for another hour


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7 months ago

Hi ,

I would like to participate in your game as i am also start tarot but not to much good it. I would like to know about my future spouse first impression on me. Initals- R.A ♊️ (✨️💁‍♀️)

And please give me some tips of tarot ...

Thank you and have a nice day 😊

RA's future spouse first impression of them

empress rx, 10 of swords

You will seem detached or distant at first and that will catch their attention. They will see you zoning out during conversations. Like you're uninterested. Maybe your body language shows hesitation—crossed arms or avoiding eye contact—making them feel like you’re holding yourself back. They’ll pick up on a bit of uncertainty from you. It'll make them intrigued. They’ll sense that you’ve been through tough times; they might notice subtle signs like tired eyes or droopy eyes, a serious expression, or maybe a moment where you seem deep in thought or even guarded during a conversation. You won’t appear as someone who’s fully in their normal energy at that moment, but rather like you’re in the process of bouncing back. They’ll feel that you’re strong but not at your best, almost as if you’re still healing from a tough period in your life. It could be because you were exhausted after a stressful day and not feeling at the top of your game. Because they will notice it and connect it to you not being at your best that day. But still finding you intriguing!

Now for some tarot tips: what has helped me has been to find a shuffling technique that best suits me. to have a document where i put the key words that symbolize or relate to each card (from minor arcana to major arcana). oh, and not to pull too many cards. i remember when i started i used to draw 8 cards and looked for tarot spreads with a lot of spreads because i didn't know which one to use and thought the more the merrier (big mistake, huge). it was insaaane. i got exhausted easily. then i realized that with three or two cards, and one card to clarify the one i don't understand is more than enough sometimes! 


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7 months ago

hii! i'm mimi she/her! could i pls have a tarot reading from u on who my first/ future girlfriend is? just like anything about her, when we may meet or how our relationship may be. i have never dated anyone before for context but i have had crushes and heartbreak and things never seem to really go my way romantically.. so i'm really just wanting smth to look forward to :3 tysm in advance 🫶

Mimi's future girlfriend

4 of cups rx (the sun), 8 of swords

Maybe you are one of those people who get stuck emotionally, because your future girlfriend will give you that push to get out of that state. She’ll have a bright, uplifting energy that will help you feel free. Like telling you to go for it when you are overthinking it too much. But she’ll also have her own control issues. Like you two may disagree on power dynamics (e.g., possessiveness, jealousy) and/or practical difficulties (she may take over travel/date trips and make you feel controlled), but she will make up for it by being emotionally in tune with you. She’ll be mature and supportive, but also expect you to deal with the insecurities mentioned above haha. She’ll challenge and ground you.


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7 months ago

hi 🤗

I'm S, 18 years old. My tarot request is about how will be my future spouse reaction after our first time in bed

I'm curious and worried about it because i'm a virgin, and i want them to feel good. But If you don't do these type of readings you can change the question to "after our first kiss"

Thank you in advance 💚🍋🍫🧁

What will be S's future spouse reaction after your first time in bed?

Strength rx, knight of cups

Before getting intimate with you, your future spouse may initially feel vulnerable or a little insecure, but it will go away quickly. They were worried if you also liked them and if you were on the same page (how sweet). But upon realizing that you were both satisfied, they will become more affectionate, pull you close for a kiss or hug you tightly, run their fingers through your hair and even peppering kisses on your neck. Emotionally, they will feel a warm feeling after being with you that they will express it physically. Their main goal is to show you how much that moment meant to them. In the end, they'll be more engaged, like lying next to you with a calm and satisfied expression. There is nothing to worry about!


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6 months ago

Hiii, I hope I make it in time! :)

Initials: A.F. Age: 18 Rising sign: Leo Aries placements on earliest degree: None! (Although I have Aries MC at 13°, no other Aries placements apart from that) My question: What personal flaws of mine are blocking any potential romance from taking place? 🥲

Thank you, have a nice day :)

What personal flaws of AF are blocking any potential romance from taking place?

Your cards were very direct, I like that. Or maybe I just liked your energy cuz is more inviting haha. Anyways: You are an overthinker! That’s it. Now getting more into it… For starters I realize that your biggest obstacle is that you have all this energy and encouragement to get started but, all of a sudden you stop. It's like you're stuck in the doldrums thinking in the least optimistic way about the possibility of something without even taking the necessary steps to get into it. You don't even get to explore it, and I got a card that talks about potential in reversed. What does it mean? It's a cup, and it speaks of emotions. Your heart probably has a hard time opening up at first. You end up blocking the natural flow of things yourself. I do believe you tend to intellectualize things so much. Maybe this is why I got so much sadness from a card and if you do that be careful! I know this is a defense mechanism from you. But it is not a healthy one. You prefer what you know and dislike uncertainty. Now this means that you don't know how to manage, let alone take the initiative on your emotional connections. You get stuck in doubt and fail to balance your emotions with your anxiety. You are likely to analyze everything and become impulsive about that anxiety, and therefore cut off certain connections before they start or don't even bother to enter into them because you notice a particular detail of something you didn't like. You get stuck in that inner struggle that you don't end up doing much, really. Things don't take the initiative. So to get out of this stagnation you need to look for some stability in yourself. Learn how to stop overthinking and intellectualizing everything. Just breathe. Know that not everything needs to be perfect and sometimes hurt happens even if we try our best to avoid it. It’s inevitable. Like the Little Prince said: “Of course I’ll hurt you. Of course you’ll hurt me. Of course we will hurt each other. But this is the very condition of existence. To become spring, means accepting the risk of winter. To become presence, means accepting the risk of absence.” You must learn to balance that stability with some action and initiative without letting those anxieties take over. Asking yourself a simple "Is it really that bad?" or "Is this my anxiety/fear or am I over analyzing it?" or even more simple “Am I living?” to yourself would serve you well. Letting your mind take over your heart is not letting it beat freely. And the heart saddens. Question that anxiety, challenge it to find out if it is really true what it makes you believe. It is good to discern and use logic, but in your case you need to learn to balance heart and mind. Because your mind doesn’t play for you, it plays against you. It puts locks in your heart. I can’t stop quoting books and authors but this will (not) be the last and it goes:

“So we shall let the reader answer this question for himself: who is the happier man, he who has braved the storm of life and lived or he who has stayed securely on shore and merely existed?”

Learn how to manage it to the point it is not your enemy anymore, but your best friend. Bell Hooks said the practice of love offers no place of safety. We risk loss, hurt, pain. We risk being acted upon by forces outside our control. So stop waiting and thinking about it too much and as nike says: just do it. Enjoy and feel. Don't waste your heart in fear.


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