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CRISTIN MILIOTI as SOFIA GIGANTE The Penguin (2024) dir. Craig Nobel

Many of you forgot to add your age, but since it was my oopsie doopsie not to add it on the forms I'm going to let it slide just this once~

hey, dear. i would like to enjoy your free reading.

as a child, i considered myself spontaneous and outgoing. however, after certain events, i became the opposite, much more shy (sorry, english is not my first language).

what triggered this change and what do i still need to work on?

my initials are 'efa', i'm 19 years old, aries rising in the house one.

What triggered this change in EFA and what do they still need to work on?

When I did your spread, it caught my attention that everything started with a major arcana (judgment in reversed), which in my opinion is so blocked that it did not catch my attention, i don’t know how to explain it but the card was so… cloudy? Then when I was drawing the last card, another major arcana came out (the emperor); where he was sitting in control and relaxed. The energy of him was so strong that I could not focus on the other cards lmao.

The root of your problem is that you have a huge block on your own introspection. It really clouded my judgment, I can't imagine how hard it must be for you. But as I was saying, you are being so hard on yourself. Like an excessive anguish for the sake of not relying on others again. Maybe in that experience that marked you you were judged excessively to the point that you internalized it too. You were judged by emotionally unstable people, I can feel the heaviness of them from here. I think they drove you to hold back and put out that fire and spontaneity you had, maybe to fit in? No man, I better stop because I'm getting angry at them channeling this (ugh, I'm so sorry that happened to you). What's blocking your return to your spontaneous and outgoing self is your struggle to be clear about cultivating your emotions. To be a more compassionate and big-hearted person. You may overanalyze social situations from a place of emotional sensitivity (which is understandable), but in doing so you extinguish your flame. The negative criticisms and the attempt to turn off your flame was in vain, you have the queen of cups come out and she talks about learning to cultivate what you already have. It is interesting how after all this done to you, you still got the queen of all the suit of cups. This gives me to understand that you don't need to make a radical change lol, you just need to re-cultivate daily routines in order to reconnect with this side of you that went dormant. You must let it flow naturally again. An effective way to make it flow naturally again is to take control of what you allow and what you don't allow. You must develop a solid foundation of self-confidence. Because once you do is when you can be your spontaneous and outgoing self. Avoiding and not being direct is not setting boundaries, EFA. The last letter made me dizzy! lmao your boundaries are confusing. Or maybe this situation that happened to you was deeper than I can imagine. But since it's a free game let's not get off track. Anyway, as I was saying: you should practice saying no, you should trust your intuition more about which people give you a bad feeling and which others do not. In particular, let go of that excessive judgment that you carry in you for not being the same person you were before. Others made you pay for it, don't do it yourself. You are free of it when you decide not to do it to yourself. Don't please anyone. Become like the emperor, sitting in your chair, in control, direct and unafraid to look straight ahead with your head held high. I recommend the sandwich technique, oh and this video to create boundaries is very good. Start at your own pace and remember that you are not selfish in setting boundaries, it is simply self-care.

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i have 2 more asks left to finally reach 15!

Hi, I just wanted to say that your aesthetic and the style for your readings are absolutely gorgeous. Very pleasing to the eyes.

Oh thank you! You're so nice. I'm glad you like it

Zuhair Murad Fall-Winter 2024/2025

hi, followed all your rules and found your blog beautiful. Can I ask from which country my future spouse comes from?

Thanks a lot, from M 23 🖤🥀

What country is M's future spouse from?

tower rx, 7 of wands 

Your future spouse could be from a latin country, or you could be. One of you moved abroad or just wants to move abroad from that country. The cards talk about a third world country. I think this would be better with astro cartography; tarot is not so much my best choice for this. The country could be from regions like Latin America (Venezuela, Argentina, and a small chance that it could be Colombia) or parts of Eastern Europe (Ukraine or even Serbia), where significant changes have taken place—whether political, economic, or even social—causing a period of struggle. Or just all of them together (phew). The country might still be dealing with the aftermath of these shifts, so its people are feeling uncertain about the future. There’s disillusionment or a loss of hope in the country’s direction, like challenges in fully regaining stability. The country is currently going through systemic changes. 

Feedback.

Thank you for the answer and the game. I give everyone same vibe when i meet them this is so true ...😭😭😭✨️ and Thank you for the tips i will sure i practice more to make a note of them in my head...💓💓💓💓

thank you! I would have written more if I had realized in time that you wanted tips, my bad. but i'm glad it could be helpful either way! and good luck with your practices. if you ever have a question i hope i can be of help.

hi 🤗

My reading was so cute, loved their reaction! It resonated with other readings that said they will be more in love with me after this, and this makes me so happy. Thank you a lot 💚🍋🍫🧁

Hi there! I’m so glad to hear that you loved the reading and that it resonated with you! It’s wonderful to know that it connected with what you’ve been feeling. Thank you for your kind words! ❣️