@keiimyeh

As much as I see where youare coming from, I don't think that making comments on their appearence is inhenrently bad, at least through compliments.

I can say a girl looks good in someway, hell even 'hot', and it doesn't necessarily mean I'm trying to hit on them, I'd just be stating that they look good, attractive, or whatever.

Obviously, it doesn't mean that some men won't use it in an attempt to hit on a girl, but it really isn't something to be uncomfortable about from the start unless the first 10 words make it clear as day

Otherwise, only thing women need to do (and some men, surprisingly!) is be more observant and analytic of the person, and think about both possibilities and what the one happening is more similar to.

In regards to those acting in those kinds of ways, yeah, that's a whole other story, people doing that kinda stuff should really think about if that's the smartest way to find someone.

And as for telling no, sorry to point this out to you, but that's an extremely bland statement, there's nothing wrong in trying to say no before anything else, is there?

Just because there was one guy like that, doesn't mean that all are like that, I've seen multiple girls do the exactly the same kind of thing to their boyfriends, both in media, and a few of my real life friends.

Speaking off, this is completely unrelated, but it made me recall that, whenever there's been a girl who's been y'know, raped, everyone seems to scream out about it and whatnot and feel bad for her, which is good, of course people should worry and care for rape victims, it must be quite a traumatizing exeperience

However, when the same happens to a man, no one really cares or listens, here on tumblr, they assume the man had done something for it and deserved it, there is obvious evidence online that courts are more biased towards women in general.

hell, did you know it is literally legal for a women to sue a man for child support even after raping them?

This site is full of people who always cry out sexism while always saying that all men are bad and justifying hate towards them, the irony. Where did all of this "equality" go to?

Anyways, I've beaten about the bush for too long, at least you said that not all men are like that, next step up is to recognise and say that the majority of men aren't like that.

Straight men have no idea of how uncomfortable they make women, to a point where women are automatically on guard whenever they meet a new guy. I know this firsthand because every time I meet a girl and she finds out I’m gay, I can visibly watch her guard drop; her body language changes to complete relief. It’s pretty astounding to observe.

Granted, I’m sure if a girl is homophobic it’s a different story, but you get my point.

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