Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

Spontaneous Restraint

One of the first things I did to establish control over my husband and turn him into my helpless pet was to buy good quality restraints that locked on and was inescapable without the key. My control of him wouldn’t seem as real to us if he could just remove them anytime he pleased. I would grab him when he least expected it and restrain him.

I told him that I expected him to submit to me instantly, without question, and he was to accept my restraints on his body without resisting whatsoever. I explained to him that his body was now my property and I would do with it whatever I pleased and he had no choice anymore. Just saying those words to him got us both excited and him erect.

I was now a predator and he was my helpless prey. I stalked him and pounced on him when he wasn’t paying enough attention to me. I would grab his arms quickly and lock them behind his back. He never struggled at all, just accepting my control. I would push him backwards into a corner pinning him there with one hand on his throat, the other hand roaming around feeling him up, pinching his nipples while forcefully kissing his lips. It was great fun for both of us giving him an instant erection every time as I got quite aroused myself.

But most importantly, it established our new roles. I was learning to take control whenever I wanted to and he submitted instantly to me. At first I would leave him handcuffed like that for 15 to 20 minutes and then release him. As I really started to enjoy controlling him, instead of doing it only for his pleasure, I purchased high quality locking leather restraints.

I didn’t leave the handcuffs on for longer periods because they would hurt his wrists. The leather wrist cuffs are much more comfortable while remaining secure and I often keep his wrists locked behind his back for 2 hours or more as I really enjoy the look of a helpless male now and seeing him like this is a real turn on.

All the restraints I use on him now are high quality and designed to be comfortable to wear long term while being impossible to escape. My domination over him isn’t about causing him undue pain and suffering. It is based on control and I want him to feel comfortable and safe while I control him. It is worth it to purchase more expensive professional equipment than buying cheap and having to replace it. I don’t use the handcuffs much anymore. The leather is so much better.

Training her bitch!

the idea of being told to sit still on a strap.

it could be attached to a chair, or it could (should) be attached to a bossy top. and they'd tell you to stay still, all the way down at the base of it. don't move, don't grind, just sit there and feel how deep it is. how full you feel. and their hands would wander all over you, and their nails would dig into your thighs. and you can do is whine and wait for permission.

are you desperate enough yet? good.

beg.

Pro-tip: When he's locked in chastity but fucking you real good with the strap on, say something like... "feels so good I'm never letting you out again!" for the absolute best fuck of your life. Drives all his desperation straight into your orgasms.