ancien tumblr cocu avec sa femme en couple avec un autre homme et adore ça
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Latest Posts by emotioncandau - Page 5
It may have started as “innocent fun”, but things have changed.
@myheartinherhands
@myheartinherhands
I saw a caption I liked by @bistag77 . I just needed to tweak it in my head for my kink and here is my version. It is true, it seems since the ultimate cuckolding of my wife falling and love and emotionally cuckolding me, this is what I masturbate over and over and think about. She seems to like to rub it in my face too. Just the other night, I licked her ass after she got home from getting fucked by him there. I asked if he told her I love you. "Of course," she said, "he always does." "When?" I asked. "When I arrived at his place, when he kissed me, when he fucked me in the ass, when we cuddled after and when I left." She giggled. I'm licking her ass and rubbing my dick. I feel it build from the arousal. I feel it building in her too so I rub her clit with my other hand. "Did you say it back?" I ask. "Say that I love him?" she teases. "Of course I did, I love him and I also love his big cock in my ass that your is now gaping and you are licking. I love him." She orgasms and so do I. She then giggles that I have shot my sperm in the air and all over the bed sheet. "I love that it makes you cum in your hand knowing I love him." She giggles more and teases.
Caption that inspired mine: https://www.tumblr.com/bistag77/776308953594331136/queued?source=share
It started as traditional cuckolding for us. A way to spice things up, a way to address the undeniable truth that my wife needed and wanted more sexually. We both knew it. In the past, she’d cheated on every man she’d been with, and that knowledge was a huge turn-on for me. I didn’t mind. I found it exciting. She had her share of toxic relationships, drawn to the intense, raw sex with the "Alpha Type" guy. But when we found each other, she was ready for someone different. A nice guy, someone who put her first. I was that guy. We both desired for her to cuckold me, to find men who were more physically dominant, guys who could give her that mind-blowing fucking I can’t.
It worked. It still works. I’m what many women would call sexually inadequate. Yes, far below average in length and girth. But I make up for what I can’t give her with my feminine touch, with the way I worship her body and her sexuality. I take care of her in ways that go beyond the bedroom. Keeping our home running smoothly, doing most of the laundry, cooking, and cleaning. I take care of the kids, allowing her the freedom to relax and enjoy herself with other men.
There’s always been a push and pull inside me. A constant tug of war between my desire to be cuckolded and my internal struggle to be the man I think I should be. It’s hard to let go of the masculinity society says I should embody, but when I do, it’s liberating. It’s an incredible rush watching my wife be sexually free, hearing her stories, seeing her pictures, and even sharing some of her experiences with me. When we’re together, I know I can’t compare to the other men she’s with. There’s no comparison. I’m a cuckold for a reason. I can’t reclaim her, I can reconnect with her. But it boils over into fear, shame, humiliation, and inadequacy. All the things you see in cuckold porn. But this isn’t fantasy, it’s my real life.
I didn’t ask for it. I didn’t ask for my wife to fall in love with another man. It’s something I thought I didn’t want. But deep down, looking at the progression of my cuckolding journey over a decade, I think it’s fair to say I did ask for it. As much as I didn’t want it, I wanted it enough to encourage her. I wanted it enough to keep encouraging her, even today.
When she met him, there was an instant connection. A spark of new relationship energy, an excitement neither of us had expected. It scared the hell out of me. Over the years that followed, it tore my heart apart, shattered my confidence, and tested every ounce of my mental strength. Yet, despite the pain, it brought me the greatest sexual pleasure, the kind of excitement and release I had never known of felt before. The very thing that broke me also awakened something inside me, something deeper, darker, and more exhilarating than I ever could have imagined.
They call it emotional cuckolding, a dance of power, love, and vulnerability. It’s not just about watching your wife fuck someone else. It’s witnessing her emotional connection with another man, feeling your place in her life shift as she falls in love with someone else, and realizing how much you want to be part of that dynamic, even if it hurts.
As a cuckold, the thought of my wife falling in love with another man wasn’t a turn-on. I didn’t think it would happen. But then it did, and it aroused me in a way I never imagined. There’s a thrill that rises from seeing your wife form a deeper emotional bond with someone else. The rawness of watching her fall in love, to see her laugh, share secrets, and create memories with him. It’s not just about physical attraction. It’s the intimacy, the connection, the feeling of knowing that someone else has touched her heart in a way I haven’t in some time. It’s almost a release, a surrender to the fact that now not just her sexual needs but also her emotional needs might be fulfilled by someone else, and yet, I remain on the periphery, watching, feeling both pain and pleasure.
The arousal that comes from emotional cuckolding is unlike any other. It’s hard to explain. It’s not just jealousy. It’s a twisted form of love. Seeing your wife with another man may bring a surge of insecurity and fear, but it also evokes a deep desire for her. The fact that she’s willing to explore her emotions with him while still sharing love and connection with me makes me feel both excluded and included in ways I can’t fully describe. You love her enough to let her be free, to let her explore another part of herself, and that in itself is a deeply satisfying feeling.
It’s the paradox of it all. The pleasure that comes from seeing her fulfilled in ways I can’t provide. That’s the rush. Knowing that her happiness, even if it comes from someone else, fuels my arousal. The way she smiles when she talks about him, the tenderness in her voice when she mentions his name, the first time she tells me she loves him. These are the moments that make the cuckold’s heart race and dick drip. It’s not just about watching sex unfold. It’s about understanding that I’m part of a bigger emotional puzzle, a love story that’s larger than just physical attraction. Then, I encourage it. I encourage her to fall deeper in love, to spend nights, weekends, and vacations with him.
As a cuckold, there’s an element of deep self-awareness that adds to the thrill. You understand your own vulnerability, your own inadequacy, and that knowledge becomes a strange source of empowerment. You know that, despite your fears and insecurities, you can still be an integral part of her life. The fact that she still loves you, still values your friendship, while falling for someone else, creates an intoxicating dynamic. It’s about navigating the balance between pain and pleasure, between knowing you’re not enough for her in some ways, but still being the one she turns to when she needs comfort, support, or emotional stability.
The beauty of emotional cuckolding is that it forces you to confront your deepest fears and desires. It’s not just about the humiliation or voyeuristic thrill. It’s about the challenge of accepting that your wife can find someone who touches her heart in a way you haven’t in a while, and yet, still choosing to stand by her. You understand that emotional fulfillment doesn’t diminish your connection. It enhances it. It’s about watching her grow, not just sexually, but emotionally, and realizing that your own journey as a cuckold is one of self-discovery, too. It’s a blend of polyamory and cuckolding, with cuckolding as part of the kink, the fact that you’re not polyamorous yourself, and you're not dating others, makes the dynamic even more powerful.
In emotional cuckolding, every glance, every touch, every whispered conversation between her and her boyfriend sends a jolt of pain and pleasure through your body. But what makes it more arousing is the understanding that you don’t just crave to watch her be loved by another man. You crave to witness her love him. To feel her heart race when she’s with him, and to know you were the one who helped her find that love. It’s a delicate balance of love, pain, and desire, and in that complexity lies the true thrill of emotional cuckolding.
fun for her; blissfully painful for you. @myheartinherhands
After saying no for years, we finally had our first threesome with an old friend last night. I couldn't believe how much my wife loved having two guys last night-but if I'm being honest, especially with him!
I know she wants more of that and I am definitely going to make it happen for her.
@myheartinherhands
"I still love you, honey. I just love him too. You had to know this could happen."
Strong, handsome with a thick hard cock. After years of being with you it was natural for her to drop to her knees, wrap her small hands around the thickness of his shaft and suck it. To crave it, realizing what she gave up when she married you. She crawls for him, smiles and giggles up at him as he smacks her ass and fucks her holes like the hot sexy slut she it. Giving her sexual pleasure like you never have been able too. As natural as it was for her to submit, to cuckold you, and to enjoy the pleasure of a man who truly satisfies her. It was just as natural for emotions to follow.
When he held her face in his hands and kissed her deeply, the words slipped out effortlessly from her lips "I love you."
And when he asked, "What about your husband?" She simply said, "I don’t care. It’s you I want. You’re the one I desire, the one I need."
To be honest I already knew she was falling in love with him. When she asked if it was okay if she loves him, what was I supposed to say? I can’t tell someone they cannot love another person. At that point even though it caused a lot of angst and confusion it caused just as much arousal too! I couldn’t hide that from her either. Even today when she tells me she loves him, I almost instantly cum!
It is interesting watching new relationship energy as an observer. Something you didn’t watch her experience when she fell in love with you. The excitement of getting ready to see him, the smiles of incoming texts, the energy and happiness flowing through her during every day tasks. Of course she may have felt these same things with you, It is just something you didn’t see when you weren’t there, when she was at home. Now to witness her having him on her mind all day, craving him in every way. Him dominating the topics of every conversation. As you try your best to support her as her best friend also fearing the day she leaves you for him.
You encouraged her to cuckold you. You helped her find the perfect man. Not only one that she connects with passionately but also emotionally. He has a lot of the same qualities of you. Of course like you he has his flaws too but she is an able to over look those. The same way she did when she fell in love with you even though you have a sexual inadequacy. A small dick, shame you feel because of it that makes you submissive. You have learned through experience your little dick inside women does not pleasure them the way they need. Something you can see in their eyes, how they respond to you when you are inside. So you learned how to pleasure them other ways. With your tongue, toys, and fingers. So good she could overlook that flaw, fall in love and marry you. At least for a while. You knew she would cheat, at least you expected it. After all you have a history with women that cheat on you, all of them, why would your wife be different. That fear, that feeling inadequacy, humiliation. With your wife it was different, the thought of her cheating was not painful, it was arousing. Because you love her so much, worship her, want the best for her and want to make her happy. So you encouraged her to cuckold you. Eroticizing your feeling of inadequacy, getting off on the humiliation. You witnessed with your own eyes other men fucking her. How they use her body for their pleasure. The way they pull her hair, slap her ass, push their thick cocks into her mouth, so thick, longer than your small dick causing her eyes to water and her to choke. Something you have never experienced giving a girl. She can suck your dick with ease, it doesn't even hit the back of her throat. Then watching a cock that is not below average penetrate her. How it splits her pussy lips open and makes her gasp. How quickly she orgasms and her body trembles. The first time you saw it, it was too much to handle, you thought then you lost her to another man. It made you even cry. Yet today you still masturbate about that experience. Today you are emasculated and feminized, a sissy cuckold husband who would suck the same cocks of the men that fuck your wife. You didn't lose her that first time you watched. Yes you got into a fight. Her pissed, it was your idea after all. You made up, you licking her used fucked pussy. Enjoying the cuckolding you encouraged her to continue to fuck better men. You never can reclaim her so you reconnect by licking her sore, used cum filled holes. Even licking another mans cum out of her ass. She knows she owns you. So of course she is excited that she has found a guy that she has fallen in love with. A man she wants has her primary partner. Not only does she desire him emotionally and physically, she trust him and now confides in him. With him she gets everything you give her but she also gets sexual fulfillment. You helped her find the perfect man for her. You always knew that couldn't be fully you.
She still loves you, but as her bond with her boyfriend deepens, that love is shifting. It’s not just the incredible sex they share, but the time, connection, and emotional intimacy they’re building together.
As a cuckold, you were raised with monogamous values, yet you've given her permission, and even encouragement to be with other men sexually. Enjoyed her being the slut you fantasize about and love. In doing so, you’ve remained monogamous while inviting her into a non-monogamous life. That contrast creates a unique dynamic, one that challenges the very foundation of traditional love and partnership.
It can be hard at first to understand how your wife could fall in love with another man. How she can still love you and be in love with him. The angst, humiliation, feelings of insecurity and fear of her leaving you cloud your thinking. Even more the arousal you feel, how you jack off thinking about her with him. The way it makes you feel even more inadequate knowing he is fucking her better than you ever could and it is him she is desiring to fulfill that need while at the same time he is fulfilling other needs you used to. There are many kinds of love. Unconditional love we have for our children. Platonic love we have for friends who are there for you for support and encouragement the same way you are for them. There is compassionate love, being kind to people as a whole. And of course self love. The type of love and confidence a wife gains when she cuckolds her husband and learns she has her own freedom. Freedom to dress how she wants, flirt, have fun, see and do what ever she desires.
The way we love our primary partner. That romantic and passionate love where you desire just being with someone. That person you have a strong physical attraction to and chemistry that gives you that sexual fulfillment. For you this is your wife. Even as she cuckolds you, gets fucked better by another man, it increases your own sexual fulfillment. Then all the kinky things. Licking her pussy after she has been fucked, cleaning cum out of it. Submitting to her and the men she fucks. Maybe even pleasuring other men yourself, being feminized and encouraged now by your wife. For your wife in love with her boyfriend this type of love may be shifting towards him. Then there is deep, enduring love. The love for a long-term partner. This is the love she may feel for you right now. Rooted in stability, a life built together, having children. A history of loyalty and encouragement. A comfortable place from a shared life and memories that are irreplaceable. She still loves you, but she desires you inside her pussy less and less and you fantasize about her pussy now only being available for other men. You are now having some of your best orgasms only being able to lick her, or rubbing your dick on her skin as she tells you about the amazing sex and weekend she had with her boyfriend. You are becoming more like to best girlfriends. Talking about men and how good they fuck, about their cock size, red flags that can be overlooked, about the next trip they will take and when. Then of course there is residual love. Our first girlfriend or boyfriend we fell in love with and had sex with. You never fully lose your love for them. An ex-husband or past partner. You can appreciate the time you had together, the shared history and memories. She may no longer be in love with you, but sill wants the best for you. When you step back and look at the full picture you can start to understand it. Be happy for her as you are aroused by it. The angst fades away. In the traditional sense, with the monogamous values you were brought up to believe it is hard to make sense of how she can love two people, how she can love another man the same way she loves or loved you. Share those intimate movements with him that used to be exclusively yours. Remember you encouraged it, and when you look at it with a clear view, it makes sense. You were part of making her happy both with you, then with another man as she cuckolded you, then with him she has fallen in love with.
Are you ready to watch your wife fall in love with another man. Be careful with your fantasies they may turn out a bit different than your mind imagined. Hope instead of breaking you, it arouses you.
Isn’t that part of the emotional thrill for the cuckold? The feelings of inadequacy, the quiet humiliation, the deep awareness that his wife needs more. Sexually, emotionally, even romantically. He knows she finds greater fulfillment with another man, and as painful as that truth is, it’s also what arouses him most. Gives him his best orgasms.
Maybe he’s confident, successful, even admired in many areas of life. In the bedroom though, he knows he’ll never measure up. That’s the part of life he can’t compete in. And it’s that emotional sting, the ache of not being enough, the surrender to her pleasure and freedom, that fuels his deepest arousal. The pain isn’t just accepted. It’s craved. The overwhelming need to submit and the inner battle that rages in his submissive cuckold mind.
