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Turning your life around? Coming out of a funk? Getting over a breakup? Need to reignite your spark for life? Need to feel in control? Want a boost of confidence? Dealing with low self esteem?
Where to start:
Exercise every day
Skincare + makeup of personal preference (yes this includes not wearing makeup at all if that is your personal preference)
Hair done
Showered and moisturized
At least one hobby you engage with on a daily/frequent basis
At least one skill you are developing on a daily/frequent basis
If you haven’t gotten a 7 day workout streak and completed the other bullet points on this list yet, stop moaning, get to work, and kill your distractions.
This is level 0.
hi bambi! your time to SHINEEEEEE <3
ok so please give me some scenarios where i will meet my dream boyfriend because i want it to be as special as i cann
MY ANGEL HI <33 omfg i love how u said that, u are SOO CUTE
i need more info if that’s okay so i can help you out better!! like what type of person are you like? and what’s your dream boyfriend like? is he an introvert, extrovert? is he outgoing or nonchalant? or you don’t have the perfect vision? you don’t have to answer all LOL i’ll try to put a few things together with what you give me.
if he’s:
an introvert/nonchalant: he’ll gain courage to talk to you and ask a polite question like if he can sit next to you or shyly give you a compliment
scene 2: he can be introduced to you by a friend while you’re hanging out with your circle and he’ll just be enchanted with you from first sight; always looking at you while he’s talking, holds eye contact longer, a gentleman holding doors, pulling out chairs, makes sure you’re safe and not alone, walks on the outside of the sidewalk, slows down when y’all are walking so he’s beside you, it very careful and cautious around you because he doesn’t want to make a wrong move and scare you off, compliments, has nickname set, etc. but JUST YOUU.
outgoing and confident: he’ll come up to you and give you a nickname on the spot depending on what you look like. (something cute that corresponds to ur fit, if ur dressed all cute, he’ll call u angel or something u like. friends that i’ve met in the city have called me red/rockstar (my red hair lmao)
if you’re a big city person, you can manifest meeting him out and about with your friend, you see him and notice he was already looking at you first 😫😫😫😫
either way y’all will have the best convo of your LIFEEE and instantly click with how genuine he is.
this next one is something that’s going to happen to me later in the summer so wink wink, steal this if you like it.
you can be at a family/invited event at a 5 star hotel, wearing ur BEST fit, you both catch each other’s eyes, a string of events happen that make u both walk up to eachother, start a convo, ask him if he knew ur family or something and he says no i’m the owner 😫😫🫶 LMFAO
or if you tend to stay to yourself, you can be sitting at a cafe reading a book, he can buy u a coffee, sit at your table. ??? do u like these ideas 😫
A sunset will color your dreams
Photos by Mauro Scalabroni
a post on getting through the summer flawlessly as a dream girl <3
getting through summer looks like… basking & glowing in the beautiful sun, traveling, going out with ease, having fun, being messy and more. so let’s begin.
what does your ideal summer for this year look like? ideas, moodboards
physical: summer essentials, what to wear, makeup looks, luxuries, summer reads and bucket lists.
mental: mindset, wellness, reads and bucket list ideas
you create the definition of dream girl and it can always change. so decide what your mind and body needs. is this a time for healing? or is this a time to be adventurous?
do you see yourself in nature, enjoying the silence after a chaotic winter and spring? or going to parties, hanging out with friends, meeting new people and trying so many new things?
or why not both? 💋
some bucket list ideas:
spend more time outside than on your phone
have a morning routine. don’t lose structure in the day. switch it up for summer and make it fun.
make a list of nice restaurants in the city to try out
plan out picnic dates
buy disposable cameras and have them developed at the end of summer!
go skydiving
go to a fancy hotel bar and leave the place with someone’s number (or many)
go on late night drives!
explore a random city
try out new foods
most important of all: follow your gut. keep your safety your #1 priority.
sunscreen duhh, is a must no matter the season, especially for summer.
⤷ apply sunscreen before you go out and reapply ever 2 hours. look for products that are: lightweight & nonsticky, don’t leave a white cast, spf 50++
anything from sol de janeiro ugh <3
waterproof jewelry
sunglasses
sea salt spray
shimmer body oil
after sun care
your signature scent for summer (scent recommendations below)
pack light and smart with makeup if you’re one to touch up: lipstick (can be used for your eyes and cheeks also), eyeliner, etc.
hair clips/ties
qtips for makeup smudges
mini fan to cool down
small wallet
have fun and unplug but if it’s a must, carry a portable charger if you didn’t charge it in the car or before you left the house.
tissues (for sweat, blotches)
sundresses
mini !! skirts !!
mules
bikini tops as regular tops
gold hoop earrings
silk scarves
flowy bottoms, skirts, dresses
a cute cover up
patterns
mini bag
backless tops
the sun is out so it’s only natural for me to want to glow when the sun is hitting my face and body ♡ i love to really highlight my highest points.
applying subtle gold shimmer on your eyelids
lipgloss!
preferably one that is hydrating, slightly pigmented to bring out the colors in your lips & glowy. not sticky. my recommendation is the dior lip glow stick.
highlighter
my favorite is mac’s strobe highlighter in peachlite. it honestly gives my skin such a beautiful and subtle pink glow to my face!! i love applying it before my makeup.
⤷ don’t forget your collarbones and shoulders.
there is nothing else that makes me feel like a radiating goddess walking down the street when i put highlighter on my body.
⤷ also, layering powder products on top of wet/creamy products make them more pigmented! this is why you see some people wet their eyeshadow brushes before dipping them into the product ♡
blushed & flushed or nothing!
who doesn’t love a good blushed face during the summer? just because your blush is visible doesnt mean you’re wearing too much!!!! own it!!
have fun with subtle pops of color 💋
it doesn’t have to be too crazy. keep it simple.
ideas can be:
- two toned eyeshadows
- colorful winged eyeliners
- a bold lip
nails ♡
- fun & bright colors like orange & blue
- if you want to keep it simple: french tips, nudes!
marc jacobs perfect
delina - de marly
le labo thé noir 29
chanel chance
replica beachwalk & bubble bath
tom ford soleil blanc, lost cherry, neroli portofino, bitter peach
good chemistry coco blush
victoria secret bombshell beach
ariana grande - sweet like candy
solinotes cherry blossom
nothing better than a good summer read. here are some recommendations!
my year of rest and relaxation - ottessa moshfegh
it happened one summer - tessa bailey
hook, line, and sinker - tessa bailey
beach read by emily henry
people we meet on vacation by emily henry
book lovers by emily henry
one hot italian summer - karina halle
malibu rising - taylor jenkins reid
every summer after by carley fortune
the wedding crasher by mia sosa
twisted series - ana huang (twisted love, twisted games, twisted hate, twisted lies)
birthday girl - penelope douglas
love & gelato - jenna evans welch
one italian summer - rebecca serle
hands down - mariana zapata
better than the movies - lynn painter
- have fun. kisses from blushydior ♡
@bebejungkook started following me
OMFGinwekihawi
I didnt realise that I flirted with my friends until I started talking to guys bc the way i msg guys is the same way i msg my girlfriends
and if i msg guys the way i msg my friends, i realise its flirting woops