Today I discovered this writerâs tactic to face her fear of rejection and failure, and itâs honestly very inspiring?! This kinda rewired my brain and I feel everyone should read and think about it.
Read her short article here
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âAs you read a book word by word and page by page, you participate in its creation, just as a cellist playing a Bach suite participates, note by note, in the creation, the coming-to-be, the existence, of the music. And, as you read and re-read, the book of course participates in the creation of you, your thoughts and feelings, the size and temper of your soul.â
â Ursula K. Le Guin (via excessivebookshelf)
What Dr. King actually said about car commercials.
There are clubs people can join to hang out and make their own coffins. New Zealand is home to at least a dozen coffin clubs, where elderly folks gather to build and decorate their own caskets. Participants say that, aside from saving money, the club also serves as a support group that brings people together and helps them face the inevitable. Source
The Triumph of Time by John Elliott
iâve only been playing dnd for a relatively short while but hereâs what iâve learnt so far:
splitting the party will always always result in something ridiculous happening, even if itâs for something as simple as a shopping trip
when in doubt just let the bard loose
if the DM raises their eyebrows itâs either the best idea or the worst idea
sometimes a box is just a boxÂ
sometimes the box that you think is just a box is not, in fact, a box
you will inevitably save magical items/potions for âwhen you really need themâ and end up with 53729 forgotten, powerful objects in the bag of holding, begging to be used
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004) Â
Sometimes you just need to go off the grid and get your soul right.
(via aquietcottagelife)
If you're a pagan of any sort, and you are fortunate enough to be celebrating today with loved ones around you, hold them close through the darkest night. Â Never stop welcoming them with laughter, libations, and kindred love. Â Don't take what you have for granted, and if you can help it, don't be shy, ok? Â Please also open your arms to others today in whatever way you can, even if you're uncertain whether your beliefs are welcome. Â Somebody near you is awesome, accidentally solitary, and looking for a little light tonight.
Detail of my new print The Empress available in my shop Jeremyhush.com or follow the link in my profile. Holidays are closing in so get your orders in soon. #jeremyhush #theempress (at The Convent Philly)
Golden Gate Bridge, San Francisco
Back in 2003, Druyan reflected on her nearly 20-year relationship with Sagan for The Skeptical Inquirer. The couple met at screenwriter Nora Ephronâs home in New York City in 1974, and were married from 1981 until his death from pneumonia 15 years later.
No matter what you do â or donât â believe about the afterlife, Druyanâs note is irrefutably one of the most poignant letters ever written about the special peculiarity of love. Hereâs an excerpt via Goodreads â but fair warning, get the tissues ready:
âWhen my husband died, because he was so famous and known for not being a believer, many people would come up to me â it still sometimes happens â and ask me if Carl changed at the end and converted to a belief in an afterlife. They also frequently ask me if I think I will see him again.
Carl faced his death with unflagging courage and never sought refuge in illusions. The tragedy was that we knew we would never see each other again. I donât ever expect to be reunited with Carl. But, the great thing is that when we were together, for nearly twenty years, we lived with a vivid appreciation of how brief and precious life is. We never trivialized the meaning of death by pretending it was anything other than a final parting.
Every single moment that we were alive and we were together was miraculous-not miraculous in the sense of inexplicable or supernatural. We knew we were beneficiaries of chance⌠. That pure chance could be so generous and so kind⌠. That we could find each other, as Carl wrote so beautifully in Cosmos, you know, in the vastness of space and the immensity of time⌠. That we could be together for twenty years. That is something which sustains me and itâs much more meaningfulâŚ
The way he treated me and the way I treated him, the way we took care of each other and our family, while he lived. That is so much more important than the idea I will see him someday. I donât think Iâll ever see Carl again. But I saw him. We saw each other. We found each other in the cosmos, and that was wonderful.â
In writing this moving tribute for her husband, Druyanâs words perfectly captures why Sagan remains so beloved to this day.
âThere is something in his delivery that communicates his genuine enthusiasm and awe for the universe and for science, and that just cuts straight to my heart,â Columbia University astrophysicist Summer Ash tells Inverse. âThat letter is something I always try to keep in mind when interacting with students and kids. I want to do everything in my power to fan the flames for future thinkers behind me.â
Happy 83rd, Carl Sagan. From all of us here on the Pale Blue Dot, ad astra.
Source: Inverse
without spite my heart may actually stop
Jean-Michel Basquiat painting untitled (Fallen Angel), 1981.
Rebecca Lindenberg | Interview in The Believer |Â March 27 2012Â
Holy crap.
Extremely handy if you follow a lot of people and hate missing anything good.Â
Best Stuff First moves the best stuff on your dashboardâmhm!âright up to the top.Â
Itâs rolling out this week on iOS and Android, and comes with this Help Center article. Â
Thanks! âď¸
My My My. Â Collage for Octavia Butler by Alexis Pauline Gumbs, @blackfeministbreathing
âWriting is difficult. You do it all alone without encouragement and without any certainty that youâll ever be published or paid or even that youâll be able to finish the particular work youâve begun. It isnât easy to persist amid all that. [âŚ] Sometimes when Iâm interviewed, the interviewer either compliments me on my âtalentâ, my âgiftâ or asks me how I discovered it. [âŚ] I used to struggle to answer this politely, to explain that I didnât believe much in writing talent. People who want to write either do it or they donât. At last I began to say that my most important talent - or habit - was persistence. Without it, I would have given up writing long before I finished my first novel. Itâs amazing what we can do if we simply refuse to give up.â  Octavia E. Butler (via @merigreenleaf )
So This is happeningâŚ.
If anyone else is doing it and wants to be buddies or accountability partners let me know.Â