Pissed Me OFF Bad Like Omg How Fucking Stupid You Can Be Talking About Being An Ally For An Industry

i HATE seeing a girl get trampled in conversation by men like LET HER SPEAK

I HATE when my posts reach the “🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🦈🌸🫧🪼🌈🍬🧩🎀💜” side of tumblr bc they ALWAYS misinterpret my posts or just fucking make it about MEN. like it has JUST happened with one of my posts talking about how men keep killing women and they were like “umm… um… false!!!” SHUT THE FUCK UPPPPPP

Lesbianism is the purest form of love. Change my fucking view.

Can you prove that porn is consentual? Can you prove that she's 18+, and that she really really wants it, and that she's completely sober? Can you prove she didn't ask for the video to be deleted, can you prove she knew there was a video in the first place?

You can't prove it all.

I knew about top "nullification" surgery where even the nipples are erased from your body, but today I learned about bottom "nullification" surgery. When you think you've seen all the ways in which patriarchy exerts its power, you find another one. Of course it was someone who's female and identifying as non-binary who did it. I saw the pictures. She's in her early 20s, had the option to get the nerves out (so not being able to feel anything down there) but at the last moment was convinced by her mom to keep them. Still, that surgery consists of sewing everything shut except a small hole to urinate. This is the "modern" FGM, the "everything is a choice" option and they (surgeons and people who support this) will try to draw you as the villain for pointing out the issues before ever questioning the ethic of such surgeries. If you're asexual then your sexual organs won't force you to have sex, you can live without using your vagina for sex or delivering babies for that matter. Your body is not a customisable machine from which you leave out the parts that you don't like at some point in your life. The hegemony of capitalism (which dehumanises humans and try to make robots out of us) coupled with patriarchy is what made this horror possible.

You can have a been a young girl raped by a man and getting deeply traumatised for it to the point you want nothing to do with your body anymore, and greedy surgeons will take advantage of this distress and clear ptsd. I am full of rage. I won't ever stop fighting for women's liberation and having this as my priority when the situation for girls and women regardless of how they identify and everywhere around the world is this terrible.

i have no sympathy for men who whine about the "male loneliness epidemic" and not being able to find girlfriends. there will always be women dumb enough to marry them, reproduce them, and give birth to their sons who will end up even more hateful towards women. men do all this shit towards men and women still pick them. any man who cannot find a girlfriend despite all of that is simply not looking hard enough.

If the notes say ‘op is a terf’ you know the post is a banger

Separate yourself from males in every way you can, but also separate yourself from women who protect and pander to males in every way you can.

This is the only way we will move forward. Many women will never join us, and there’s not point wasting time trying to make them.