Im a fempath it’s like empath but i only care about women
Separate yourself from males in every way you can, but also separate yourself from women who protect and pander to males in every way you can.
This is the only way we will move forward. Many women will never join us, and there’s not point wasting time trying to make them.
It's funny how lesbianism, the one sexuality that completely excludes men, is the one that's most deconstructed, discussed, attacked, and met with unwanted attempts to forcibly alter it's meaning.
The ONE sexuality that excludes men.
I knew about top "nullification" surgery where even the nipples are erased from your body, but today I learned about bottom "nullification" surgery. When you think you've seen all the ways in which patriarchy exerts its power, you find another one. Of course it was someone who's female and identifying as non-binary who did it. I saw the pictures. She's in her early 20s, had the option to get the nerves out (so not being able to feel anything down there) but at the last moment was convinced by her mom to keep them. Still, that surgery consists of sewing everything shut except a small hole to urinate. This is the "modern" FGM, the "everything is a choice" option and they (surgeons and people who support this) will try to draw you as the villain for pointing out the issues before ever questioning the ethic of such surgeries. If you're asexual then your sexual organs won't force you to have sex, you can live without using your vagina for sex or delivering babies for that matter. Your body is not a customisable machine from which you leave out the parts that you don't like at some point in your life. The hegemony of capitalism (which dehumanises humans and try to make robots out of us) coupled with patriarchy is what made this horror possible.
You can have a been a young girl raped by a man and getting deeply traumatised for it to the point you want nothing to do with your body anymore, and greedy surgeons will take advantage of this distress and clear ptsd. I am full of rage. I won't ever stop fighting for women's liberation and having this as my priority when the situation for girls and women regardless of how they identify and everywhere around the world is this terrible.
I want women to collectively start gaslighting men, in the way they gaslight us. If you see Reddit posts / IG posts say things like this.
I want women to undermine any men’s issues with saying:
“Ahhh it’s not that deep”
“Chill, you’re being emotional”
“You should focus on being a dad, none of your passions will matter”
“Are you sure your fit to do this job?”
“I mean will your education even matter, your degree doesn’t have much value lol”
“Ahh Men☕️”
“I can’t take you seriously”
“You sure”
“I think you’re being dramatic”
“You’re being irrational”
“Men live life on easy mode” (which they do)
“Are you sure, you didn’t imagine it?”
“Nahh we don’t care about your passions and hobbies, how much money do you make?”
“I want a traditional husband that pays for everything but who also does all the domestic labour”
“Have you gained weight?”
“I’m a visual creature so i need a really handsome man”
“Why am I not allowed to have preferences”
“Are you sure it’s not your fault”
“I need to hear her side of the story”
“#notallwomen”
“I mean if men don’t go to war what’s the point of them? Lol”
“You should give her a chance”
“You’re standards are too high”
“Are you sure you didn’t imagine it?”
“I think you’re being hysterical”
“Ahh he’s a 4” (Rating a man on his posts)
“He’s mid”
“Not that funny” - to a male comedian
“Who told him he was funny?”
“Learn to take a joke”
“why should someone have you if they could have someone younger?”
“Why would she go for you, if she could have someone with more money lol”
“You should focus on raising children”
"hun dont be insecure about that, theres way more things you should be insecure about, that receeding hairline for example"
“You’re gonna die alone”
Even if a Man is right about ANYTHING still proceed to gaslight him. IDGAF. Lmao. They have been doing this to women for most of history. Gaslight him, make him feel unworthy and shitty. I genuinely don’t give a shit.
Let me know what more I should add to the list, in the comments.
Women: hey, so like it would be great if you could research endometriosis
Scientists: sure!
oh cool! 'girl math' is trending, I'm sure it's a celebration of the wonderful mathematical discoveries made by wom.. oh
oh wait
ok no nevermind
women are made by women - not by plastic surgeons and pharmacists.
On International Women's Day, I'd like to share a reminder:
A reminder of all the ways woman have been silenced and punished for speaking their minds throughout the ages, and still are today. Save this image and use it to remind yourself that it is your DUTY to yourself, your female ancestors and all the women around the world who are not allowed to have a voice to keep using yours loudly and unapologetically. Every time I worry about whether I should share some controversial thought, I look at this, the anger rises up, and I think, "I have a right to speak my mind and I'm going to use that right for the sake of all women like her."