Latest Posts by rikisgal - Page 2
pissed me OFF bad like omg how fucking stupid you can be talking about being an ally for an industry which is plagued with child exploitation and human trafficking? an industry where women are getting paid to get raped, an industry which exploits women and children sure fucking sure liberal feminism has done irreversible damage oh my goodness
Prostitution happens when one person wants to have sex, and the other person does not. If both people wanted to have sex, no money would need to be exchanged. Men use money to override your no. They have total and complete control of the dynamic.
Most prostitution is drug addiction and trafficking. I don't seen anyone empowered there.
the unfortunate truth is people do not care about women at all. “well, no shit girl-“ no i mean i knew it was bad but idk it just really fucking hit me. the loopholes people go through to keep women comfortable with their oppression. the way people keep treating women as if they aren’t human beings. abortion is murder, but if a woman is killed it’s just another unfortunate event.
i dont get how people don’t take misogyny and sexism as the big deals they are. i don’t understand how you can hear how pretty much every fucking day, a woman is killed at the hands of her own damn husband and go “well maybe she should’ve done xyz” and move on.
the way women aren’t allowed to go to school, be seen in public, be heard in public and then go “well that’s their culture”.
women are called bitches, cunts, and whores, beaten and abused, and everyone just… looks away??
and speaking of them being called “bitches”, when you tell people that that word is degrading and people should honestly consider it a slur, you’re looked at like you’re stupid.
it just makes me so ? i don’t even have a word for it.
the one thing i can say though is i’m happy a lot of women are starting to realize this. the amount of girls my age who recognize how absurd it is. idk, it brings me some peace.
Funny how words change. I was thinking about the phrase "gentleman's club," and what I'd IMAGINE that would mean (based on the definition of "gentleman") is a place for well-bred, intelligent, likely educated, civilized men to talk, drink and smoke cigars with other men of the same mindset. I picture Mr. Darcy sitting there with Mr. Bingley. Instead, it's come to mean "The lowest, dumbest, most perverted dirt bags you can imagine throwing filthy dollar bills at women who they're paying to take their clothes off." The men who visit these places are the furthest thing from gentlemen.
The funny thing is, if there were a "Lady's Club" it would probably still resemble exactly what we'd imagine: well-dressed, elegant women having a beautiful luncheon with their female friends, behaving totally appropriately. The most they might do that was "out of character" for ladies (supposedly) is laugh uproariously after a few glasses of wine.
Since I'm on the subject, Tea Rooms (which were very popular in America in the 1910's-20's and were generally owned by women) were very close to what I described as a Lady's Club, and I'd love to see them brought back. Getting dressed up to go to a fancy tea with a lot of female friends sounds like so much fun!
ECGENDER
A GENDER THAT IS STEMMED FROM/EXTREMELY CONNECTED TO THE DEPENDENCE OF / ADDICTION TO THE PSYCHEDELIC KNOWN AS ECSTASY OR MDMA
OLOGENDER
A GENDER THAT IS STEMMED FROM/EXTREMELY CONNECTED TO THE DEPENDENCE OF / ADDICTION TO THE PSYCHEDELIC KNOWN AS OLOLIUQUI OR MORNING GLORY SEEDS
MARIGENDER
A GENDER THAT IS STEMMED FROM/EXTREMELY CONNECTED TO THE DEPENDENCE OF / ADDICTION TO THE DRUG KNOWN AS MARIJUANA OR WEED/MARY JANE
DIMETGENDER
A GENDER THAT IS STEMMED FROM/EXTREMELY CONNECTED TO THE DEPENDENCE OF / ADDICTION TO THE PSYCHEDELIC KNOWN AS DIMETHYLTRYPTAMINE OR DMT
ACIGENDER
A GENDER THAT IS STEMMED FROM/EXTREMELY CONNECTED TO THE DEPENDENCE OF / ADDICTION TO THE PSYCHEDELIC KNOWN AS ACID OR LSD
SHROOMGENDER
A GENDER THAT IS STEMMED FROM/EXTREMELY CONNECTED TO THE DEPENDENCE OF / ADDICTION TO THE PSYCHEDELIC KNOWN AS SHROOMS
PSYCHGENDER
A GENDER THAT IS STEMMED FROM/EXTREMELY CONNECTED TO THE DEPENDENCE OF / ADDICTION TO PSYCHEDELICS
ADIGENDER
A GENDER THAT IS STEMMED FROM/EXTREMELY CONNECTED TO ADDICTION
i believe you MIGHT just be 5ish years late !! lmk if im wrong tho :)
I’m giving up on men because
1. The fact that they all assume they’re experts in everything
2. The fact that they all assume they’re smarter than me immediately
3. The fact that they allow and use slurs to divide women like Karen, Pick Me, Terf, The Main Character, SWERF, prude, slut bitch
4. The only slur they have is incel which relies on the premise that they’re entitled to sex
5. Moms are expected to be perfect and if she makes a mistake she’s a bad mom. Dads are considered perfect despite their mistakes and even being a poor parent
6. They think sex is a service
7. They cannot have a magic sexual moral barrier that divides children from teens from women. I refuse to believe it. And the media sexualizes kids and infantilizes female sexuality… so what now?
8. That porn is so normalized and teen is a category and yet we can’t check a man’s porn viewing history before allowing them to coach, treat, or be alone with vulnerable people.
9. That some will and can and do have sex with corpses. That deadness is sexualized in fashion photography as arousing
10. That choking has become normalized in porn
11. That we know porn becomes increasingly more extreme through algorithm and capitalism
12. That they hide behind plausible deniability and think we are too stupid to see it - like the devils advocate position
13. That they convince themselves their plausible deniability is a moral standard
14. That even the normal married ones with little girls for kids are shitty
15. That they think their pleasure overrides the civil rights of a person
16. That they believe consent magically changes abuse into kink
17. That they don’t even know what misogyny is
18. That they think misandry is somehow comparable
19. That they think my hurting their feelings or making them feel uncomfortable is a violent act. That pointing out violence makes me the violent one.
20. That they defend Johnny Depp
21. That they’re afraid of false accusations
22. That they defend the reputations of men they haven’t met more than the reality of the women who report them lmao
23. They don’t take care of themselves physically
24. They can choose to be civilized but use animal evo psychology to defend subhuman actions
25. They believe that women’s sexuality is an economy for them
26. They created religion to usurp creative power from women
27. They convinced other men that humans came from a man’s rib, from a patriarchal god, when literally no man has NOT come through and from a woman.
28. They have sexualized every aspect of women’s existence including pain and crying
29. They’ve convinced women that empowerment is a feeling and not a change in power position
30. They blame their antisocial loneliness epidemic on us
31. The tried to use the Love Languages on us
32. They created psychiatry as a way to at least in part control women just as they created medicine to control and destroy midwives
33. They place the locus of responsibility outside themselves which makes them perpetual victims
34. They created purity culture
35. They created porn culture
36. They buy and use and masturbate to trafficked and vulnerable women and it doesn’t matter to them
37. They corner me in the workplace
38. They are always looking at us - I want to not be perceived sexually at all
39. They use women for all of their emotional dumping and we aren’t certified to handle it
40. They resent our happiness (shaming it)
41. We had to create laws to keep them from marrying and having sex with kids. Like, everywhere. We haven’t even succeeded globally
42. They hold women in power to an entirely separate standard than men
43. They’re lazy
44. They can solve complex problems and be incentive and self-improving at work, but are seemingly really incapable of doing this for relationships
45. They won’t see something unless it directly impacts them personally
46. They are emotionally unintelligent
47. They are violent
48. They are wilfully ignorant of the constant threat of sexual violence women face
49. They are making and using technology to get past consent
50. They believe women have a use value
51. They’re lying when they say they can’t show emotions : art, culture, music, etc belie this. And this is aside from the fact that we acknowledge their pride, nationalism, anger, boorishness, sulkishness, entitlement, jealousy, etc. these are emotions too.
52. They use power to get or pressure or coerce sex
53. They don’t mentor women professionally unless they’re sexually attracted to them physically
54. They’re bad and aggressive drivers
55. They’re predatory and some don’t know it ???????
56. They play dumb
57. They owe us reparations and refuse to even consider this - we were left out of Das Kapital
58. They try to turn their wives into their mothers
59. They moderate men and women differently in social media spaces
60. We can’t trust them as soldiers or peace corps
61. We can’t trust them alone with kids period - who do we tell kids to go to if they’re lost?!!
62. That they’ve turned violence into sex “body count” “fuck the shit out of you”
63. We can’t be honest with them - we have to tiptoe around them
64. I’m pissed more men aren’t speaking out about the obvious loss of civil rights of women globally - what the hell! It makes me believe that they kinda want it to happen (plausible deniability of course) because like it’s not gonna hurt them right?
65. At any given time I could pull up incidents where instead of intervening while a woman is being assaulted, the assault is filmed by other men. The reverse simply doesn’t happen.
66. They love borrowed authority
67. I hate them because when they ask “what do you want me to do about it?” And you say the most slacktivist thing, they won’t even do that. They’ll do NOTHING.
68. Because the most unsafe place for a woman in the world is the home
69. Because a woman is killed by an intimate partner globally every 11 minutes
70. Because the number one cause of death for pregnant women in the states is murder
71. Because they believe their morals are their best intentions. It’s like they all think they’re brave but he’s anyone done anything brave ?
72. They use weaponized incompetence to control people and be lazy
73. They believe sexism is benevolence
74. Because someone taught them that it’s the thought that counts and it almost never is the thought that counts
75. That gang rape is a thing
76. Because only a handful of men have most of the global wealth
77. They move goalposts: you can say what your experience is but they’ll discount it as one. You can say it’s others that have experienced the same thing and they’ll discount it as over represented.
78. There’s no acceptable way to be really angry with them, and express that, as a woman
79. They feel comfortable making comments about women’s physical appearance, touching us without our consent and bank on us not rocking the boat.
80. They refuse to believe in the wage gap
81. We could have child care as being mandated but because women are primary childcare givers, we don’t have this.
82. Medicine was only tested on both genders recently because it was too difficult to do apparently
83. Our medical issues aren’t taken seriously
84. Mass shooters are almost exclusively men
85. Because they moan about suicide rates and forget to mention all the women and kids and sometimes strangers that suicidal men take with them
86. They believe they’re entitled to sex - through payment guilt or force
87. They rarely care about what girls think unless they have a daughter
88. Cultures abort girl babies and before they just exposed them to the elements. As a result there’s India and China and the Middle East Hong Kong, South Korea, Taiwan Vietnam etc there are more men than women
89. They don’t stop female genital mutilation. And they could if they wanted to.
90. More than 100 million women are missing - the shortfall of the number of women in the world we would expect in the absence of sex discrimination
91. They desire us to be dependent on them. Independence terrifies them.
92. They let women leave the workforce during the pandemic.
93. They see male history, male writing, male law as standard and they aren’t. They’d freak out if the USA had 9 woman Supreme Court justices
94. They are more sexist than even racist
95. Male over female Domination is the first and most primal form of oppression
96. Prostitution is the first form of trafficking not the worlds oldest profession
97. They can compartmentalize the pain of others - especially if it doesn’t impact them or their family (their own private kingdom)
98. Every man assumes he’s the king and grows up taught that they deserve to own things, people and property
99. They see women as girls all as potential sexual objects. Especially if they’re mad.
100. They treat sex workers as a different class
101. Women don’t keep men as sex slaves
102. They’ve made the law such that women cannot logistically perform murder in self defence
103. They say porn is free speech and that it’s not real when it’s convenient
104. Despite all of this: all of the proof and every experience logged and litigated… that they don’t believe that women still are being oppressed under male supremacy.
105. Because someone has said it’s okay for drag queens to use “bitch serving cunt” as an expression of femininity- and claim it’s not misogynistic
106. Because of the so-called “husband stitch”
#misandry #misogyny #feminism #feminist
We need a feminist movement that encourages women to get their carry permit. Like I mean it. So many men thinks it’s okay to say weird things to women and girls, we need to start carrying a gun. Something to scare men.
men saying "happy womens day" is the most shallow shit ever because that's all they'll ever do to acknowledge that we're even human
International women's day is coming up soon....and I'm so fucking angry about it.
It's a farce of a day.
Men take the day to post photos of their wives/sisters/mothers/daughters before going straight back to watching videos of trafficked women and girls being raped online (pornhub).
Before going back to toxic chat groups and sharing their most normalised and vile thoughts on women with one another, or asking for tips on how to sedate and rape them (telegram).
Before going back to their jobs where women are usually paid less than them for the same work, and talking about how difficult and bossy 'Karen' is for having the backbone to set her own boundaries and not laugh at their unfunny jokes.
Unless you're posting a receipt of money you've donated to a women's organisation, I don't want to fucking hear it.
I don't want to see your pictures of your exhausted wife who does all the house work after coming home from her job, I don't want to see photos of your daughter that you're already talking over and down to in comparison to your sons.
Hold your gross fucking friends accountable for the vitriol they spread or sit down and shut up.
Kink culture isn’t liberation. It’s the pornified, capitalist, patriarchal repackaging of male violence, sold back as liberation. Whats up with u eroticising ur subjugation and calling him daddy while he chokes you like a victim in a femicide case? Strangulation is the first predictor of domestic homicide, but sure, slap a safe word on it and call it empowerment
sure have your neoliberal “choice” bullshit but consent under patriarchy is coerced by default… conditioned from birth to submit, to please, to accept pain as sexy
its pumped into every aspect of mainstream media, normalizing it so thoroughly and, no, im not about trying to policing your sex life it’s about recognizing that if your pleasure depends on the ritualized humiliation of women, then your pleasure is political, and your politics are shit
idk interrogate ur desires
When we criticize hypersexualization of women in media there's always someone to say shit like "ohhh so you're not comfortable with women having sex?" or "so you don't think that women should be able to discuss sex just like men are?" And it's all so tonedeaf?! It's like they can't even understand the problem. Men do not have to be naked and being sexually suggestive to convince anyone to buy their music, to acknowledge their talent. Everyone's allowed to do whatever they want to do in their private lives, women wanting to have sex is not taboo (?)
But this is a systemic problem. Ask yourself WHY there's an imbalance, why do female performers' only chance in the industry of pop culture is to sell a hypersexual image. That's objectification. And yes, that objectification has everything to do with patriarchy and porn industry and prostitution. Are female performers being free if they're only succeeding when naked, exposed, objectified? I don't think so. This is a very specific kind of "freedom", there's very real consequences to those who do not fit to a rigorous standard. Open your eyes.
one day wont do anything. if u really wanna make a difference, dont buy anything you dont need for as long as possible. clothes, snacks and candy, decorations, books, etc
Thinking back on my childhood when I thought racism was over, Nazis no longer existed, cops were good, and America was the land of the free.
Yo, correct me if I am wrong please, but didn't Hitler rise to power because he promised to fix the German economy and people really liked that so they looked past everything else he was doing??? Like exactly what's happening in America right now???
So many people said they voted for Trump, put a truly evil person in power, because he said he'd fix the economy, and a little voice in my head is going, "Isn't that what happened with fucking Hitler??"
But I've seen no one point that out so maybe I'm miss remembering???????
many would argue you can't be religious and a radical feminist 🫶
you can't be a christian and a radical feminist🫶🏻
AND/OR they would do some sort of harm to you. emotionally, physically, mentally, etc
Of course you feel disconnected from your gender it’s quite literally a made up set of rules based on stereotypes
Conservatives cosplaying as Christians when faced with someone who actually follows the teachings of Jesus Christ:
I'm making flyers to give out and posters to put up around my community. I'm trying to create a community of woymn to educate, and so that other womyn in my area will have other womyns support. After that, I'd like to expand outside my area, and grow.
Here's a draft of the flyer design.
Any advice on the design or how to organise this community is greatly appreciated!
it feels like everyone i speak to has some internalized misogyny
once you start noticing how casually misogyny is incorporated into society theres literally NO going back. look at our insults! theres so many words to degrade womyn just existing the same as men.
bitch, slut, whore, cunt are just used to insult us for being confident/sexually active.
even passive terms like crazy cat lady and calling confident young girls 'bossy' ARE contributing to this!
the first step to unlearning internalized misogyny is learning to stop using terms like these.
going to say something stupid but
with the way things are going now, i think killing people who ruin and oppress the lives of millions is morally right
”i’m just a girl.”
No, actually, you’re an adult woman who’s intelligent, capable, powerful and has a fully functioning brain that is way too old to be likening itsself to a child. Grow the fuck up. You make mistakes because you’re human and not an innocent child.
'Makeup is an art form', yes. If you use it to create funky, vibrant eyeshadows, tradgoth makeup or add spirals and designs to your face, this is a form of 'self expression', as people like to refer to it. It's abnormal and indicates you're doing it for yourself rather than to adhere to the standards of beauty.
However, doing makeup which looks ‘natural’, trying to hide the fact you’re wearing it, using it to cover blemishes, hyperpigmentation etc that is not self expression if anything it’s self concealment. Hiding your natural self to appear more attractive to society is not an art form it’s a form of subordination which reinforces the idea that women must perform and that there’s something inherently flawed about our bodies. But libfems aren’t ready for that conversation.
men dont be hypocrites challenge GO!
male “feminists” don’t exist
so im not the only one who really wants to do this and just see how random people live
