In Some Ways TRA's Are Right About Radfems

Sometimes I forget I don't really have anyone I can truly rely on. My anti-depressants make it very easy to forget about it, they help me experience natural sorrow as less important, brush it off. The moment I realise it, what my relationships with other people are truly like, I can't help but to feel sad.

Everytime someone bitter points out that "you're not a happy person", I never deny it. Actually, idk what's the word for it in english. In polish I'd say that I'm not "szczęśliwa" which means being content with one's life as it is as a whole as opposed to "wesoła" which describes those moments of happiness or just experiencing positive affect. I am happy sometimes, there are things that make me happy but I'm not "szczęśliwa".

I don't understand why people use it as an insult. It's not something we can always control, the thing is, I want to be happy and I seek happiness but I will never deny who I am in order to get it. I won't sell myself for happiness, I'd rather take it and possess it but sometimes it's just out of reach.

arranged marriage is rape

there is no "it's a different culture" excuse - it's rape. period .

I hate how in my woke uni they're teaching us that there is "different morality" than morality that is against women being raped and treated like objects. Leftism will defend rape of women as long as the rapist isn't white and christian.

Afternoon Silence, 1900, Wilhelm Kotarbinski

I'm a lesbian and that means I WILL see women's bodies as sexual, there is nothing you can do to stop me. Human bodies are sexual by default. You can gauge out my eyes for a crime of sEXUAlisiNG women and I will still imagine their physiques in my mind's eye, get turned on and salivate.

If you use terms like "malebrained", "male typical behaviour", "male socialisation" to refer to women you're not gender critical.

Radfems love to assume I'm a man when I disagree with them. That assumption is based on stereotypes and the idea that women wouldn't be able to think for themselves.

You're not gender critical. You believe in gender woo and DEFINE people by gender stereotypical behaviours.

I think my desire to change is stronger than my desire to fuck.

Don't get me wrong, the second one is really annoying and hard to deal with at times, painful even.... but really not changing for me would be equal to death

Signs of unhealthy masculinity in women:

- hating your natural female traits (breasts, hips)

- hating your voice or height

- irrational fear of being percieved as feminine by other people

- obsessing with gender roles (especially in relationships, metaattraction - being attracted to someone only because this person will affirm your masculinity)

- fear of being vulnerable, being uncomfortable with receiving sexual pleasure from your partner (in fear it will "feminise you", it comes from unhealthy views about womanhood and sexuality)

Signs of healthy masculinity in women:

- wanting to be fit and taking care of your body

- embracing all natural traits of your female body and respecting them

- having strenght that doesn't fear vulnerability with a trusted person (it takes strenght to be vulnerable)

- wisdom to recognise negative/sexist thought patterns

- having sexual boundries but not being afraid of having someone pleasure you because you know you deserve it and it's not degrading

- dressing however you want, make-up/no make-up doesn't matter, just wearing what you think makes you look good

- not caring about gender roles much (doesn't matter if sth you do will be seen as "feminine" or "masculine" by society, do what you want)

- having discipline and determination, facing your fears, focusing on self improvement

- being kind to yourself

I'm highly suspicious of women who say they're lesbians but spend more time hating men instead of lusting after/loving women.

Like yeah I get it, feminism is important but getting triggered at guys ALL DAY long is not it.

I thought those were bots? They spam with furry porn as well lmao. Honestly, pathetic.

anti terf/lgb alliance ppl spamming the tags with pornography is so weird. i just be wanting to read some posts with different opinions. all of a sudden, there’s a picture with a penis 😕