Me When It's 1773 And Im Helping My Bro Put His Makeup On (no Homo Of Course):

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Thanks to @ghastlypals for the fun prompt!!!

i had so much fun drawing this one. the hands were a killer, but we persevered chat!!!

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i drew this with the intention of imagining what their first dance would be if they were to go through with the wedding. i pictured At Last the whole time i was drawing. ❤️

pete when he died:

og pic 🔥🔥 (also @ghastlypals suggested this to me :3)

SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME WHAT THIS IS AND WHERE I CAN WATCH IT

cock out and everything, you go girl 🎀

and with your help it can rack up 700k notes on tumblr in 2024

no tumblr this doesnt need tags im releasing it into the wild as god intended

oh god, its you

that i lie with

PoolVerine mini comic !!

I heard ppl talking shit about Turning Red, that it “unlike Encanto, didn’t do a good job of explaining about the family/generational trauma”. Well LET ME EXPLAIN THIS IN ASIAN AMERICAN’S PERSPECTIVE.

As East Asian, I cried like a bitch in this scene. This three images were the perfect representation of how Asian family deals with trauma. If you don’t know, seeking counseling/therapy is basically frown upon in Asian culture. It doesn’t matter what it is, ppl will think you are a looney.

(Btw, in Korea when you go to a therapist THIS SHIT IS NOT PRIVATE. this will be on you PERMANENT RECORD as if you are some kind of fucking criminal. If you seek out therapy, EVEN A BLOODY SCHOOL COUNSELOR DURING MIDDLE SCHOOL, this will jeopardize you getting a jJOB/CAREER. Because no company will hire you!!!). I suffer from Long term stress disorder and my doctors recommended that i see a therapist. on my first therapy session, during ride back home, my mother flat out told me that she didn’t believe in therapy. and told me that EVERYONE HAS A BURDEN TO CARRY AND WE DO IT IN SILENCE AND STEADFASTNESS.

Sounds harsh right? But to the older generation, this is honorable act. to bare, and suffer for the family is something to be honored.

No matter how destructive it can be……

Many older generation Asian/parents carry this. they bare all the weight and don’t tell a soul the suffering they had to endure. 

So what happens WHEN they can’t bare it longer?

chances are, the oldest child of the family plays therapist. 

because the parents (ESPECIALLY THE MOTHER) has no one to lean on regarding such matter. They rather take their trauma to their graves then tell non-family members or a worst a STRANGER (therapist)

I am the oldest child of my family, I was my mother’s supporter, helper, her confidant and listener. I comforted her and listened to all the horrid, heart breaking trauma she suffered. She was also the oldest child of her family and she bared all the weight of the family. the difference between my mother and i, is that i grew up in west. i was told that speaking out my feeling/mental health is critical and important. and i seek out help when i wasn’t okay. meanwhile generations had taught my mother that seeking therapy is shameful.

so, us, the kids, who learned of emotional support and health, leads our parents out from the trauma.

just like how Mei is doing in this scene.

so yeah, this movie doesn’t tell trauma like Encanto. but that’s the point, every nation/generation have different way to deal with trauma. and turning red perfectly represented how west born/raised Asian kids deals with family trauma. 

This movie isn’t encanto, it’s turning Red. And I think that’s beautiful on its own.

Pls I just want them back

The end of loki s2 song is like a feeling this undescribable feeling of odd acceptance of something terrible. It's the acknowledgement that your whole life you had kept yourself first you were fine with others being sacrificed for your own accomplishments because for people to succed one must be sacrificed. It's the acceptance thst you're thst sacrifice now that maybe you deserve to be selfless in this moment even if it'll hurt you and the people you wish to see succeed It's the feeling that comes when you give up your dream job for a friend or rival the feeling of a parent giving up their life for their children accepting thst they now need to devote themselves to raise these humans It's the feeling of sacrificing everything just so you can watch them thrive. It's what you feel when you're selfishly selfless. Even if you were selfish your whole life you have to be selfless .in this moment. You have to be the sacrifice. Because your love for them is much more important then your desperate wants.

That’s bisexuality baby