NOT SETTLING In Manifestation

embody the version of yourself who already has your desire - aka assume the state of wish fulfilled

for example with an sp if you find yourself asking something like “why haven’t they messaged me yet”, simply remind yourself “oh well they’re my partner so i am not worried” and simply go upon your day. If you feel like you are going to spiral, take a moment to focus on your breathing, and remind yourself of WHO you are.

rewire those dominant thoughts and reactions. The 3D is never final babes.

love you guys <3

mwah

you can't want something you already have.

think about it. if you already had everything you ever wanted, would you still be thinking about "how" or "when" you're gonna get it? or worse, "am i going to get it?" it doesn't make sense at all.

that's also why so many loa bloggers have been repeatedly saying that if you are in the state of the wish fulfilled, you would literally NOT be concerned about the 3d or anything else. you focus entirely ONLY on your imagination and fulfil yourself there. regardless of what you see in the 3d, you won't be fazed at all because you KNOW that imagination is the only reality, so the 3d has to INEVITABLY morph and reshuffle to reflect your imagination.

if you already have your desires, you WOULDN'T be:

asking if you're gonna get it

asking where is it

asking when and how you're gonna get it

constantly dwelling upon the LACK of your desires

accepting the 3d as final

The 3D is NEUTRAL

Hi lovelies,

I have talked a lot about reacting to the 3D but not this pivotal point! SO if you read this before my other 3D/ Circumstances related posts - good.

What does the 3D being Neutral mean?

The 3D means quite literally nothing. No, not just in the “ignore unwanted circumstances way”, the 3D itself and everything that happens in it is entirely ‘neutral’ it has no actual consequence on or causes from itself (the 3D). Because of this, anything that happens in the 3D only matters if you give value to it - not by interacting with it, but with what meanings you attach to events, people, ‘circumstances’ or whatever else in your inner world. Everything that happens in the 3D is inherently neutral, and what comes out of it is entirely dependent on how you perceive the event and if/how you continue to think about it.

After all it is the law of assumption, your assumptions - dominant thoughts are reflected into the 3D.

This is why it is easier than you might think to change the 3D - by for example ignoring a circumstance - and where the idea of “where your focus lies will manifest” comes from.

How is the 3D neutral if it stems from our Dominant Thoughts?

Yes, the 3D is a reflection of your dominant thoughts - assumptions - however it is only a reflection and an experience. The 3D’s position as a reflection is where its neutrality comes from: if you look in the mirror and don’t like your hair, you don’t blame the reflection, you change self.

Your reflection can not do anything to you to change it - thus it is neutral. The only way you create changes in your reflection is by changing self , perhaps because the reflection makes you feel a certain way, however, as creator you can decide how you let the reflection impact you.

(this is like the simplest way i can describe it)

Anything that happens in the 3D has no impact until you give it meaning. The reason most actions and events in the 3D continue or unfold in certain ways , is because you unconsciously and automatically assign meaning to things you perceive and experience. This is normal, humans are habitual creatures that act and react based on stimuli and repetition. Additionally if you live by assumptions like “everything happens for a reason” you will take 3D events much more seriously, so the 3D will not feel neutral - but it is.

When you take the time to consciously decide if an event, person or circumstance aligns with you as the version of yourself who has your desire, you are able to remove the meaning / impact or, conversely ,emphasize the meaning of it: This is when you’ll typically see the true neutrality of the 3D, because you really do get to pick and choose what stays and goes with no consequences.

Even if the 3D has, let’s say, an ongoing ‘plot’ where your SP doesn’t want a relationship with you, this literally can change in an instant as soon as you change your dominant thoughts.

The 3D is a reflection, it can not and will not argue facts and logic with you to keep a circumstance ongoing. If you look in the mirror and then put on a hat, your reflection is not going to refuse to put on a hat. like it does not have that power! The only way you give the 3d that power is by looking in the mirror and going “oh i don’t have a hat :(“ and then not putting on a hat.

Validating the 3D by letting it impact you is just validating pre-existing dominant thoughts, if they don’t serve you, don’t let them thrive!

The irrelevance of taking action

You can not change your reflection by breaking your mirror

I believe that is a quote from Neville and it explains this principle quite well. Since the 3D is a reflection of your dominant thoughts, you can only really change it with your dominant thoughts again (to change your reflection you do not do anything to the mirror you see it through, you change self). As such nothing you see in the reflection matters, only how you choose to perceive it and there from react to it (internally) does.

This is the choice between: “i don’t have a hat” versus going to put on a hat - just to clarify the hat is a metaphor for changes to your assumptions lol.

Don’t get me wrong, if you have a strong ass - i am talking netherite armour level - self concept, you likely can do whatever you want in the 3D and get what you want - but that also starts from within, with that self concept and denying all the times you took action in the 3D and didn’t get what you wanted. I also don’t like meddling with unfavourable 3D because i don’t want to give the circumstances my validation, time and attention.

This doesn’t mean that every action in the 3D is what i’m talking about, if i am hungry i eat, i am talking specifically about not needing to take action in regard to your desires.

How do we attach meaning to the 3D?

We do this unconsciously like over 95% of the time (i am using this value to give you an idea, this is not a scientifically confirmed statistic lol.) Most of the time this is done due to previous experiences.

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example:

Someone messages you saying they don’t want to talk.

Since your associations to good relationships means people want to communicate and enjoy each other’s presence, you create the assumption they don’t like you, or will continue not to want to talk to you.

This is someone who you value highly and are desperate to have a good relationship with so you also find it easier to believe that you messed up to make this happen // that they wouldn’t want to talk to you - because of you.

This then develops an assumption of your relationship with that person that they do not like you and as such the relationship diminishes.

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Since we are so used to deriving our understanding of the world from 3D experiences, we automatically apply meaning to new experiences based on old ones. Now just because most of the meaning we have attached to the 3D up until this point has been unconscious using logic and pattern recognition does NOT mean it has to stay that way. Since anything that happens in the 3D is inherently neutral, you don’t have to associate - in your inner world - with anything you don’t like.

Logically being told someone doesn’t want talk to you may follow the neural pathway of “if A (doesn’t want to talk to me) then b (doesn’t value or like me)” of course you can add in all the assumption that that lead up to that like “Event A (does not want to talk to me) was based off of D (assumption that i am not valued or worth being appreciated in relationships) and E (SP is amazing and deserves good relationships)” but like we could keep going like that all day…

However, who gives a fuck about ‘logical thinking’ (nerd ass emoji). On a more serious note, since your inner world (or as neville often put it your imagination) is what the 3D reflects, and you can imagine anything, you have no reason to follow or feed “logical” assumptions that make you feel bad. You do not have to internally validate any 3D circumstance or dominant thought that does not serve you. If you are able to avoid such in the 3D as well, great! if not, it doesn’t matter.

Actions like doing your job to pay your bills while changing your internal beliefs and knowing you have the better fun job internally, does not mean you are validating the belief that you are stuck at the job that sucks, cause 3D action doesn’t matter. Your internal will be reflected and you will be at the fun job in the 3D in no time, as long as you persist and don’t give in.

Only if you actively continue to think that you are stuck there and how much you hate it (and basically deeping your situation) then you are validating those beliefs.

An Important Note about the 3D and Law of Assumption

Just because the 3D is a reflection of your assumptions does not mean it isn’t real. I totally understand why some LoAss followers say it isn’t real, i personally don’t really know how i feel about that but my point is: Don’t just be a dick to people because of the lack of impact the 3D has. If you enjoy being a dick to people you likely have the assumption that they are affected by it - so yes, you are hurting people. REAL PEOPLE.

I get that the law is personal and you can do whatever you want, but if you decide to use any of the Law to hurt people etc honestly just get off of my page, my content isn’t for you. I believe people deserve to know about the law to live good lives, and no ethically good life requires the suffering of others. You have the choice on how to live your life, make the right one.

A Little Hack to Help You Live in the End :)

Hi lovelies <3

Sometimes, if our manifestation is something that is often mentioned or relevant in our lives - or rather the opposite to our manifestation - it can be a bit hard to remain disciplined and faithful to imagination / your new identity. Here’s a little hack that helps me.

Btw i did get this off of a tiktok ages ago and i have no clue where from i’m so sorry.

Imagine you are in some kind of competition, before the final results the judges call you up privately and inform you that you have won. The finale has not aired yet so nobody except you and the judges know you have won.

So now, if someone comes up to you and says “omg person B is totally gonna win” are you gonna go cry? No, because you already know you won. Are you gonna sit there and try to convince them that you’ve won, even though they love person B and are convinced they are gonna win? No, you KNOW the finale is going to air, so they’ll find out themselves without you having to go through them berating you like “why do you think you are going to win? it’s obviously person B, you’re delusional.” What people are saying right now isn’t going to change the fact you know you are going to win and that the finale reveal is going to happen.

Remain disciplined to yourself, and let it unfold.

Consciousness creates 3D reality, not the other way around.

love,

Saph

Inner vs Outer in Manifestation

hi lovelies!

Today i want to explain the inner versus the outer, this is more a post for people new to LOAss but everyone’s journey is different so this may help you too!

Inner

Your inner in manifestation is your mind. 95% of manifestation takes place in your mind. this is because, as Neville says, creation comes from imagination.

Your brain, as you learn and grow, creates neural pathways - your dominant thoughts and what your subconscious works off of. Your subconscious/ dominant thoughts are in turn what manifests into your 3D!

Thus all methods you do - even techniques like scripting that you do in the 3D - all work to change your inner, to rewire your dominant thoughts, to create new neural pathways, however you want to think of it!

This is why no circumstance actually matters, because your entire 3D is a reflection of your dominant thoughts. As long as you can imagine a world/ reality where you have your desire, you can have your desire.

You must simply choose to be the version of yourself who has your desire - whatever it might be - and persist in that internally. The 3D will simply reflect that, as long as you are focused on your inner and not allowing the irrelevant, old story 3D to throw you off track.

If unfavourable 3D events occur, simply reject that outcome in your mind. SP says they don’t want you? simply be like Okay, and in your mind know that this is not relevant to you and that you know you and SP are together. Bank account states you have 12 cents? Nah, you are rich as fuck, you always have at least 4 figures in the bank. Continuing to be the new version of yourself, in the state of wish fulfilled, will help your dominant thoughts rewire to believe that is what your life is!

Outer

Your outer world is the 3D. The world around you that you perceive with your senses :). The 3D honestly has very little to do with manifestation!

You do not have to take any 3D action to receive any desire, because as long as you decide and persist in the version of yourself that has your desire the 3d will reflect this. The 3D is a mirror to your inner world and dominant thoughts. it cannot reject anything you decide you have internally.

To make it very clear, choosing to be the version of yourself that has their desires is internal - if you choose to be the version of yourself that has your SP, you do NOT need to go around saying SP is your boyfriend if the 3D hasn’t reflected that yet. In turn however do not take actions like complaining about SP not reaching out to you etc - because these actions are going to reaffirm dominant thoughts that you have that SP does not want you/ isn’t giving you their all and is not gonna help you manifest. Thus also, looking around constantly for your desire and not seeing it because you are so focused on looking for it is also going to reinforce your dominant thought that you do not have this desire! SO just leave the 3D out of it.

Hope this helps you stars <3

love,

Saph

My University Success Story

Hi lovelies,

Here is my university success story which isn’t just “i manifested it and i got in” (which is still super great btw but i think this success story is a good reminder of how irrelevant the 3D and logic is). I initially got rejected!

Well my university system is different so i didn’t get rejected but rather i performed so badly that i got an extremely high ranking number (700+ high). (lowest ranking numbers get in)

At the time my manifestation journey was um.. not great. I was especially dealing with an sp manifestation that i kept spiraling over and over and i basically was losing all hope in my manifestations in general. (i kept successfully manifesting contact and then driving myself crazy) I was SO absorbed in the 3D and let it control everything. i treated the 3d as my only validation, i wavered constantly, i went in and out of believing despite the fact that i had consciously manifested SO MANY THINGS, i am talking an ipad pro 4th gen and apple pen, my iphone 13 green (the one from my ‘don’t settle’ post.) Like i was making everything SO difficult for myself.

When i got rejected from this university, i was honestly a little gobsmacked and just done with everything. I was preparing my stuff for my back up uni that i was dreading to go to, i was doing room viewings & everything. I was so done with it i just decided i was going to get into my uni because i internally REFUSED to go to my back up uni or not go to uni at all. At the time i didn’t know manifestation was as could be as easy as deciding. But by deciding and refusing to budge internally, as well as having one of the uni’s lecture hall (that i actually have every single one of my lectures in now!) pictured on my vision board, the 3D moved for me what it had to move to reflect my internal shift. And two weeks later, about a month after rejecting me, they accepted me.

Everyone was surprised because with my ranking there was absolutely 0 reason for me to be accepted, even if other students dropped out for their other options. The course is too small and selective for my ranking number to ever come close to letting me fill a spot. I performed badly on my mocks and even worse on my final exams - the predicted grades they had rejected me with were significantly higher. I have no connections to the university, nothing. Despite every logical reason for me not to get into my course - including literally being rejected - here i am. I am currently at the start of my second semester at the uni :)

With this success story i wish to remind you how logic and the 3D/ circumstances have no part in manifestation. I internally refused to accept the outcome the 3D was showing me and stayed faithful to my outcome - i didn’t even know this was manifesting at the time, i was just being stubborn - and as a result it manifested.

My 3D kept showing me a different outcome, every weekend i was visiting rooms on the other side of the country for my back up uni choice, my mom was constantly talking to me about the back up university, other people were constantly bringing it up - and still here i am.

You don’t need to know why and how it is going to work out, just stay faithful to your outcome. In some cases it’ll come naturally, some manifestations just come out of thin air like this one.

I believe in you, now choose to believe in yourself too.

Choose to remain disciplined and faithful to yourself.

Love,

Saph

SO real, if you don’t like your reflection you go internally, make the shift and it changes to reflect that. cause it is a REFLECTION. That is its job. Like i said in my last post, if you look in the mirror and aren’t wearing a hat you don’t pout at your reflection going “why don’t i have a hat? i want to wear a hat :( i guess no hat for me“ you go put on the hat and the reflection REFLECTS that.

Your mirror does not get to say “um no i am not going to reflect that” it is a MIRROR, a REFLECTION, not an operative power. You don’t like your reflection (the 3D)? You go internally, decide how it actually is, and the 3D will reflect this decision.

Be God.

We sometimes fall victim to the 3d/mirror, which makes us waver and accept circumstances that we don’t want to accept. But it feels too real so you end up feeling hopeless, like you can’t do anything about it. You end up feeling like you can’t manifesting and find yourself in the constant cycle of WAITING. WAITING for something to happen and for YOU to be shown proof of what you want.

Let me tell you something; IT DOESN’T WORK LIKE THAT. The 3d is a MIRROR. YOU validate IT. The mirror cannot show you what you aren’t showing IT. It will always reflect YOU/imagination. You’re seeing your mental creations being made physical. But where was it created first? IMAGINATION. The mirror can only make things physical when YOU accept them as already so/they’re already done/you are that person.

You’re literally GOD. You can create and be anything you can imagine. But the problem comes in when you bring in the MIRROR.

Do you really need to be validated by the MIRROR? So much so that you rely on it to be happy? To prove to you that you have your desire? Are you that weak? Can you really not accept it as done and be satisfied by YOUR WORD? By Gods (your) word?

Realise who you are. Realise that you create what you are currently seeing and feeling. Realise there is no other source that affects your life/manifestations but yourself.

It’s always going to be:

Want something —> accept that you have it in imagination/ it is done —> continue to be that person who has what they want bc you literally do. It’s in imagination, the reality that creates everything, so therefore it is true/manifested.

You don’t need a mirror to prove that you have what you want. It will show you that you have what you want when you show IT that you have what you want.

Don’t wait. Don’t wish. Don’t cry. Don’t stress.

ACCEPT THAT ITS ALREADY DONE.

I insist that you work on manifesting things through a god mindset. This doesn’t mean having a god complex where you think you’re better than everyone and that everyone should worship you, it means that you know you create and can manifest anything. The feeling is not a power trip, it’s a realisation of who you are. It’s not 3d based. Having a god mindset just means you only care about your word and not what the mirror is showing you. You trust yourself and have faith in yourself, in your abilities and don’t contradict yourself and always live in imagination/the 4d while still operating in the 3d knowing it’s done.

It’s an inner validation (from yourself), not an outer one.

Now practice it. Pick whatever you want and accept that it’s already done bc it truly is. Don’t go looking for it in the 3d or assume it in the 3d, just know it’s done in imagination/within. And when you falter because of the mirror, remind yourself who matters. You, as god of your reality, or the mirror, your creation?

Be god.

The path ahead is only uncertain because you are.

You have probably read it a million times, you control the 3D, you've also probably doubted it a million times. Why do you keep giving in to the 3D? Why do you continuously search for validation? Why do you keep asking yourself where it is?

The answer is simple, you still believe the 3D to be the true reality. You refuse to even entertain the idea that it can be wrong. "Ok but I don't have it" Says who? The 3D? The 3D is only saying it because you are.

If you never listen to another word I say listen to me now:

The reason you're struggling is because you see the physical world as immovable and final. The 3d is MALLEABLE and CANNOT exist if you do not validate it.

The SECOND you decide something is yours IT IS. STOP looking for validation from the 3D when the ONLY real validation comes from you.

Be honest with yourself is the 3D really "resisting" you or are you resisting the idea that your desire is FACT. So many people get stuck on this because they don't realize that yes, deciding you have it IS ENOUGH.

And because I get the same comment every time I tell people they already have it:

before you comment "where is it then", it isn't here because you do not hold the assumption that it is.

"Oh but I do" No. If you did truly believe you have it you would never argue with me to say that you don't.

Your subconscious will believe anything you tell it and produce proof of what you're telling it into your reality. So stop telling it you're struggling to manifest, if you say you're successful you are.

YOUR WORD IS LAW. YOUR WORD IS LAW. YOUR WORD IS LAW. YOUR WORD IS LAW YOUR WORDISLAWYOURWORDIS (I am shaking you by your shoulders.)

consistency is not repeating 10k affirmations a day or sleeping every single night with an aff tape on.

consistency isn't overconsuming loass content.

consistency isn't waking up every morning forcing yourself to be positive (I'm looking at you, law of attraction.)

consistency is choosing to think in your favor for every moment, every minute of the day, in the face of anything the 3D shows.

thinking in your favor does not = repressing/toxic positivity

do not assign bad meanings to things.

example of what an inner dialogue may look like when you think in your favor

Damn, SP blocked me? Haha, I know I get what I want. But I can still acknowledge that I feel hurt and rejected and I feel that way because (here it comes - flipping the thought) I know I deserve better than this. I know that my dream self never faces rejection so let me be patient and reorder what I want from the universe. Let me recalibrate. I'm gonna just focus on reassuring myself, doing things I like - because the version of him that deserves me is on the way.

Do you see the nuance there? The difference between thinking in your favor vs not just having toxic positivity?

Guideline to example

Not repressing the emotions of hurt and rejection

Understanding that you give meaning to those feelings - do you believe them to be true or are you mature enough to understand that feelings are temporary and you must remain solid on what you believe despite what you feel?

Focusing on action YOU must take bc the only job is to change SELF

PERSISTENCE

xx, gigi

Responding / Reacting to the 3D

hi lovelies!

today i want to talk about reacting to the 3D.

The first thing to say is that if you reacted to an unfavourable 3D it’s fine, as long as you pick yourself up and re-embody the REAL you, the version of yourself who has their desires. That being said, if you are constantly reacting to an unfavourable 3D, it’s causing you to spiral repeatedly e.t.c, you need to do some work on your self concept and really become internally the version of self who has your desires. Take it back to square 1 - the 3D does not matter.

So how do i react to unfavourable 3D?

i don’t. Well i wish i could say that but i am still working on it. However i have two main reactions:

1. Your assumptions are the only meaning anything has.

i remind myself that the only meaning anything has is the meaning I attach to it. As the creator, the perceiver, source - however you wish to identify yourself - you are the one who defines what anything means. Let me give an example

SP is not responding for multiple days - a reaction to this unfavourable 3D might be assuming they don’t like me and/or they don’t want to talk to me.

but as the creator YOU DECIDE it’s meaning. For this i usually go into the second part of my reaction

2. Who am i?

if i know that SP and i are, in imagination, in a committed relationship, then I know that this action means nothing. I know that my imagination is inevitable, that what i assume as true is reflected by the 3D.

therefore, who am i?

SP’s partner

I know that i am loved, i know SP loves me. SO i am not going to assume anything silly like that they don’t like me or don’t want to talk to me. I simply am not fazed by it at all.

If you like, you can also assign your own deeper explanation to it, like that SP is busy trying to plan a date for you guys etc. i personally don’t like to do this because i don’t want to too heavily attach myself to the 3D.

Is every interaction with the 3D a ‘reaction’?

No. One thing i see newer manifesters worry about is whether engaging in regular life counts as reacting.

for example if the 3D isn’t yet reflecting back the loving relationship and SP reaches out for a science project you are partnered in. You do not have to tell them you love them and act like you’re in a relationship - the 3D doesn’t matter. Responding ‘normally’ is fine, just enjoy talking to them and do not take anything to heart, because your assumptions are inevitable. Internally is where the change happens, you don’t need to do anything in the 3D.

When i talk about a reaction, i mean either internally or in the 3D properly reacting to unfavourable circumstances. whether it is attaching negative meaning to something that happened, or complaining about SP to friends. You KNOW the real story, so do not saturate your mind with unnecessary meanings and justifications for your manifestation being inevitable.

i don’t care if your SP says they hate you and never want to speak to you again, block you on everything or hell even hire a bodyguard to keep you away from them.

I had a person come crawling back repeatedly after saying they never want to speak to me again etc. Nami (namisw0rld on tiktok) also has amazing success stories like this that show that circumstances don’t matter (she tried to square up with his grandma, like bro).

The point is, to me, a reaction in this context is only when you allow yourself to slip back into the old version of yourself and accept any unfavourable behaviour as true or final. A reaction can be internal or external.

Sometimes, when things are unfavourable - especially at the start of your manifesting journey, negative things in the 3D can make everything feel pointless. But when you accept that you and your internal is all that matters, the 3D will no longer affect you, pinky promise.

Stay Consistent or Face the Consequences

Right, yes, mean title. But the truth is the law is always working perfectly. So to keep you in check here’s my lil story time of me falling off and facing the consequences (and how i’ve picked myself back up).

I have been talking to my SP for months. Now I won’t lie SP and I have a long history from before I knew the law, and I have greatly had to work on mental arguments etc as well as negative expectations. After 2-3 months we began talking properly, not just as friends, but still taking it slow. Two weeks ago he finally verbalised how he felt about me and it was AMAZING. But over the course of the last 3 months I have also been PARANOID. going through his followers/following, feeling insecure, “confronting” him about it all while also expecting him to react negatively.

And how do you think that went? negatively. And the more I allowed myself to get up all in the 3D, get mad etc, the law was working and he reflected my behaviours, he now did start interacting with the girls i was scared of. Finally a bomb dropped that in the last couple days he had started talking to another girl, one of the ones i kept looking up in my own time.

Of course I spiralled, and of course he was straight up mean, because all of this, were fears and paranoia that I was letting run rampant. The man who wants me and wants to do everything with me was gone because i fed and fed and fed myself this horrible version of him. So what else could the law do? my affirmations of him loving me did not outweigh the sheer amount of fear and overthinking i did about him.

It worked well enough that he told me he really did mean how he felt about me, yet that wasn’t stopping him from talking to another girl.

The simple fact is it’s all there. The reason he started acting different, the reason things didn’t go right or fast or blah blah, and guess what the reason was? Ding ding ding…. me. The constant fear about if he really liked me, about these other girls. And it hurt so bad - and worst of all I ruined my favourite day, valentine’s day!!

After spiralling, crying, complaining to all my friends (ughhh), swearing off of him… I did have to realise that it wasn’t his fault. He does love me, but the law is the law. I gave him no choice on how to act, i let my fears run rampant in my daily life every single day. I let myself go from being priority to being an insecure mess who didn’t feel good enough.

This story has a good end though, because the law is the law. Picking myself up and dusting myself off, at least i now have a very clear area to target with my affirmations and my story with him. Simply revise the situation, be true to how much he loves me, how all he does is tell this other girl how much he loves me ;). It really is that simple (I have manifested a LOT, I promise it really is).

Hold that mental diet up because you deserve to thrive, not be a side dish. Manifestation is easy, it’s up to you to hold yourself accountable.

PSA: do not now be terrified of every little negative thought you have, those don’t matter. I let my insecurities become my new story, 90% of my thoughts when i thought about us. You’re doing fine, just do right by yourself. <3