Me Making My Oc A Worse Person

genuinely so tired of the male love interest in every m/f romance being the most hugelarge tallman to ever growth spurt. I need to see some women swooning over little five foot five rat dudes who need to be tucked in their gf's pocket lest they blow away like a napkin in the wind.

every writer has That One Scene that lives in their head rent-free but they can’t write it yet because “the vibes aren’t ripe”

My average writing experience:

"Alright I think I'm almost done actually-"

*Google doc grows second health bar and a choir starts singing in latin*

this is one of my favorite reddit posts of all time

how it feels being a Plotter having Pantser friends only

verbally stripping me naked in front of everybody

at this point let Cadence have their village vacation. Let them be free.

I’m relieved to know I’m not the only writer experiencing this. Because somehow you would think „I’m the writer, I’m in control“ but then this kinda stuff happens and suddenly you’re questioning how that is even possible

chasing that character that never follows the outline and ends up doing random shit that adds nothing to the plot for 5 extra chapters you hadn’t even planned

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And the other thing I did yesterday.

I finally hit the launch button on GoFundMe for my surgery fund.

gofundme.com

Dee's Gender Confirmation Surgery Fund, organized by Dee Arbacauskas

Hi, I'm Dee. I'm an artist, a leatherworker, a writer, a mom, and a few other … Dee Arbacauskas needs your support for Dee's Gender Confirm

I... if you can donate, that's awesome, but really, the operations are in November (yeah, I have GCS and FFS just a week apart from each other and that recovery is going to suck). The biggest thing I'm asking for and need is help sharing right now. I don't do reddit, or twitch, or streams, or twitter anymore, or any of the media where a lot of folks manage to get their funds magically filled by big donors. If you do, mind putting the word out about mine over there? I just want to be able to make sure I can recover in peace without the rest of my family struggling to make up for what I can't do during that time.

very very ill little guy that is soooo nervous, „passion made me crazy“, angry person that is actually just trying to hide how soft they are, the idiots to lovers, unsatisfying/apathetic ‚they will never be the same’ type of open endings

Alright lads, here's one for any and all writers: what are the top five things readers can basically always expect to see in your work?

every day I wake up and realize I am surrounded by pantsers. Where are all the plotters? Am I the only one? Sometimes I feel like it, you guys are so messy,,, (I love you)