The Selfship Community Has To Get More Comfortable With The Fact That Women, Lesbians, Sapphics And Feminine-presenting/aligned

the selfship community has to get more comfortable with the fact that women, lesbians, sapphics and feminine-presenting/aligned people exist in this community and i'm really tired of people pretending like i'm crazy for stating this, actually. like we in this community are way too comfortable throwing women & sapphics under the bus whenever something doesn't go our way, like rants about people not properly tagging female reader x readers immediately devolving into aggressive misogyny just because it's easier to do that than to criticize something people are doing that makes you uncomfortable. it's also easy to ignore posts like these because they make you uncomfortable. stop pretending like women and sapphics are responsible for your oppression.

do not tag this as "discourse" lmao tag it as "tw misogyny" or "tw lesbiphobia". this isn't discourse, i'm talking about something that actually affects my life and existence in a community i'm supposed to feel safe in, not some small internet discourse. i'm not discourse. this isn't discourse. stop trivializing my existence.