03.27.19 - Most of Who visit here “AGREE” ….
RIGHT ……
I have asked some of the women who have read my website and used my tracker to share the results with me. Below are some of the results of my Chastity Survey (as of February 2022), with so far 148 participating couples.
71% of couples have started their chastity journey with a long initial lock-up period as recommended. The most commonly chosen inital lock-up periods were
three months (48%)
six months (31%), and one year (15%). 25% of the women extended the initial lock-up period because he misbehaved.
Longest ever periods without male orgasm:
on average 6.5 months, ranging from one month to 18 months (wow!).
94% of men at some point had to go at least two months without release.
Male orgasm frequency: on average 18 times per year (that’s about once every three weeks), ranging from less than once to 50 times per year
Female orgasm frequency: on average 110 times per year (that’s about once every three days), ranging from 42 to 315 times per year)
Most popular ways to bring him to orgasm:
Handjobs (48%)
Blowjob (22%)
Ruined Orgasm / edging (19%)
PIV sex (6%)
Pegging (2%)
Most common teasing methods (in order):
Edging
Ballbusting
Nipple play
Joint showers
Spanking
Most popular ways to bring her to orgasm:
Cunnilingus (48%)
“Normal” PIV sex (29%)
Vibrator (13%)
Sex with him using a strap-on while locked (7%)
Masturbation
90% of women have experimented with giving him “ruined” orgasms, but only 29% ruin more than half of his orgasms.
Most popular places to keep the key:
On a necklace (63%)
On a bracelet or anklet (13%)
In her phone case (10%)
Hidden somewhere at home (8%)
At her place of work (6%)
Type of cage used:
52% are using a steel cage
83% are using or are planning to get a custom-sized cage
29% of keyholders have got their male a chastity piercing, and another 50% are considering it
Here is an example of a chastity tracker shared by a young couple in their early 30s, this being their 2nd year of chastity play:
Link here
1. Tease your husband with sex and sexual ideas.
2. Comment on how good other men look to you.
3. Tell your husband you like men with big cocks.
4. Tell your husband his dick is not really big enough for you.
5. Tell your husband your lover is much better at sex.
9. Tell your husband you can’t wait to have sex with someone else.
10. Tell your husband you’re horny because you have been thinking of some other man.
11. Make your husband watch as you prepare to go out to look for other men.
12. Make your husband watch as you prepare to go out on a date.
13. Take a lot of care when you get ready to go out. Do your self up really good, a long bubble bath, shave your legs, shave your pussy, paint your nails, wear perfume and jewelry, do your hair, everything, the whole nine yards.
15. Make your husband bathe you, shave your legs and pussy, pick out clothes, jewellery and perfume to get you ready for your to go out.
16. Get a tattoo of a suggestive nature, like a a Queen of Spades tattoo for attracting black men.
17. Wear ankle bracelets. They’re a sign that you’re available to fuck.
18. Wear ultra sexy, revealing slutty clothing, especially high heels.
19. Don’t wear underwear.
20. If you do, wear the skimpiest, sexiest thongs.
21. Flirt with other men at all times, especially in front of your husband. Let them know that you’re available for sex.
25. Make your husband go out and get a hotel room for you and your lover to use and bring you the key.
26. Make your husband go with you and watch from across the bar/club as you meet, flirt and pick up men.
27. Make your husband drive you and your lover around while you and him make out, suck and fuck in the back seat.
28. Make your husband drive you and your lover to the motel and make your husband sit in the car and wait until your done, whenever that is.
31. Suck off men under the table in a bar/club.
32. Suck off men in the parking lot.
33. Let men feel you up in public, out on the dance floor, etc.
35. Let your husband see, feel and eat your lover’s cum that has been deposited in your face, mouth, pussy and ass.
36. Make your husband watch.
37. Deny your husband the privilege of watching.
38. Fuck another man in your bed.
39. Fuck another man while your husband is at work
40. Fuck another man while your husband is in the next room.
41. Fuck another man, film it and make your husband watch it later .
42. Place your husband in a chastity device.
44. Fuck your husband with a strap-on.
43. Tie up or otherwise restrain your husband and make him watch while you fuck other men.
45. While your husband watches, always verbally express how good it feels.
46. Do things with other men you wouldn’t or haven’t done with your husband.
47. Tell your husband all the details of your fucking.
48. Deny your husband the details of your fucking, but let him know you’re fucking other men.
50. Fuck your husband’s boss or rival at work.
51. Fuck one of your husband’s friends.
52. Fuck black men.
53. Fuck older men.
54. Fuck younger men.
55. Fuck rich men.
56. Fuck a tough looking biker.
57. Fuck a cop. In his car.
59. Suck off a man in front of your husband and share the cum with your husband by kissing him.
60. Fuck your husband with your strap-on in front of your lover.
61. Make your husband suck your lovers cock.
63. Make your husband offer his ass to your lover.
64. Make your husband wear panties.
65. Make your husband clean the house while you’re out fucking other men.
83. Deny your husband sex for extended periods of time while his penis is locked up in chastity.
87. Walk around your house naked but deny your husband sex.
89. Masturbate in front of your husband while you tell him the details of your sex with other men.
90. Bring home a used condom and make your husband wear it. Tie it around his nuts.
94. Leave a note for your husband telling him you’re out on a date and for him to clean the house, wash the car, do chores etc.
95. Call your lovers in front of your husband just to flirt, chat and make dates.
96. Make your husband buy all of your condoms and lube.
97. Make your husband pay for all items and services related to your fucking other men.
98. Make your husband lick out cum from your pussy and ass.
99. Make your husband lick off any pussy juice and cum from your lover’s cock.
100. Make your husband suck your lover’s cock hard so your lover can fuck your again.
101. Make your husband guide your lover’s cock into your pussy and ass.
102. Make your husband lick your pussy while another man is fucking you.
103. Tell your one of your girlfriends your husband is a cuckold and you like to fuck other men. That you make him lick you out afterwards. Make sure he knows you told her.
102. Tell your one of your girlfriends that you like to fuck your husband up the ass with a strap-on. Make sure he knows you told her.
107. Make your husband buy you sex toys.
114. Flirt and kiss other men when you’re out.
115. Always let other men pay for your drinks when you are out.
122. Whenever you go away on a trip alone have your husband pack condoms and lube in your suitcase. Wonder aloud whether or not there are enough condoms. Then ask your husband if he thinks he should go to the store and buy more or risk having you run out.
123. When your lover is over, send your husband to bed early so you can have some privacy with your lover.
124. Give your husband a bare bottom spanking in front of your lover.
127. Make your husband suck your lover off when you’re out of town.
128. Go with your husband to the drug store to buy condoms. Make him ask the girl behind the counter if they have the small ones.
This is for a non-cheating “Hotwife”. These dares involve flirting and risqué behavior only which are designed to increase trust, confidence, desire, appreciation, lust, intimacy and FUN in the marriage. NO ACTUAL CHEATING TAKES PLACE!! Make up your own “rewards” for achieving certain point levels.
#1 – Suck a lollipop seductively in public.
#2 - Play naughty ‘truth or dare.’
#3 – Send your hubby a kinky pic of you while shopping.
#4 - Let your hubby take sexy pics of you flashing in public.
#5 - Talk to someone on the phone whilst you use a dildo or a vibrator. Bonus point if it’s one of your husband’s friends or a male family member.
#6 - Go out in public in a short skirt with no panties. Bonus point if you bend over with people around!
#7 - Wear a skirt and remove your panties in public not far from people.
#8- Get your hubby a cock cage and lock him up while you dress provocatively all week.
#9 – Role-play that your hubby is a stranger and you’re a horny, cheating wife.
#10 - Flash your boobs to a stranger. Bonus point if it’s “accidentally” to a male acquaintance!
#11 – Eye fuck a guy. Bonus point if it’s in front of your husband!
#12 – “Forget” to wear your bra in public when it’s somewhat noticeable.
#13 – Wear a loose fitting top in public. Bend over in front of attractive people. Bonus point if no bra!
#14 - Have your hubby make his dick bigger with a penis extender and role-play that he’s a big-dicked stranger.
#15 – Tell your hubby he can cum only at the thought of you with another man.
#16 - Go out without a bra on while wearing a sexy shirt with your hubby.
#17 - Hubby picks out a revealing outfit for you for the day. Whenever you catch someone looking, smile. At the end of the day, tell your hubby about it while he strokes himself.
#18 - Flirt with another man while you’re seated. Cross your legs slowly as you talk and see his reaction. Bonus point if you’re wearing a skirt/dress. 5 bonus points if wearing a skirt/dress and no panties!
#19 – Flirt strongly with a girl. Tell your husband all about it if he’s not there. Bonus point if your hubby is present!
#20 – Go to dinner with a low cut top and your tits out. Put your tits on display every time the server comes to your table. Bonus point if the server gets caught obviously looking!
#21 – In front of people (strangers or acquaintances), say slutty things.
#22 - Get a lap dance at a strip club with your husband watching.
#23 – “Accidently” show someone a hot pic of you while showing them something on your phone.
#24 - Get hit on and picked up by a hot guy. Your hubby can “rescue” you at the right time.
#25 - Go to dinner with your husband. After the meal, slip your panties off and sit at the bar and flirt with other men as he watches.
#26 - Go out without a bra on while wearing a sexy shirt without your hubby.
#27 - Go out in public with a remote vibrator in you and talk to attractive guys. Your hubby watches and controls it.
#28 - Dress revealing. Look at an attractive guy until he looks away. Bonus point if he approaches you!
#29 - Make up a story about getting it on with another girl while you give your hubby a handjob until he cums.
#30 - Have an anonymous dirty conversation with a stranger online.
#31 – Time how quickly your hubby cums when you talk about:
a. Fucking another man
b. Sucking another man
c. Him and a stranger (guy or girl) sharing you
#32 - At a party, leave at least one extra button unbuttoned.
#33 – Make up a story about fucking or sucking another guy while you give your hubby a handjob until he cums.
#34- Wear a button-up top. Hubby dictates how much cleavage is shown. Smile and flirt with every person that looks. At the end of the day, tell your hubby about it while you blow him.
#35 – Next girls’ night out, wear a dress or skirt with no panties.
#36 – Hubby gives you money to buy new shoes. Wear a skirt with no panties while trying them on while someone assists you.
#37 - Wear a short skirt, dress or revealing top with no wedding ring. Have fun and see how much attention you get. Share it with your husband as you stroke him.
#38 - Have your hubby fuck you slowly while you tell him a made-up fantasy about fucking someone else.
#39 - Use a vibrator while watching porn (any genre - your choice) while describing how hot the guy is or how big his cock is while your husband is forced to masturbate.
#40 – Fuck in the bathroom of a club or bar after flirting with strangers.
#41 – Tell your hubby a made up story about having sex with someone else while he fingers you. Bonus point if it’s a true story from your past and you let him know!
#42 - “Accidentally” rub against a guy’s dick through his pants with your hand or ass.
#43 - Wear a short skirt. Do things like crossing your legs, adjusting your shoes, etc. to see if any strangers try and look up the skirt. If you catch them, smile. Bonus point if no panties!
#44 - Dress sexy and sit at a bar by yourself. Smile, flirt, bend over, etc. as your hubby watches. Then go home with your hubby and fuck!
#45 – Hubby dresses you as he sees fit. Go out and do whatever he asks.
#46 - On a girls’ night out, send your husband pictures of you flirting and having fun with other men.
#47 - Get 3 guys to buy you a drink at the bar. Do whatever it takes to make it happen!
#48 - Go to a club and dance with another man while your husband watches.
#49- Go out without your hubby, flirt with strangers, and keep texting your husband giving him updates about it.
#50 - Wear sexy, tight, short or revealing clothes when his friends are over. Do things like bending over, etc. to show it off! See how often you both catch them sneaking peeks.