Uns3tt1ing-d0g - Vepperoni

Having a sexuality and shit is so weird because I want to date boys as a boy but also as a girl and I want to date girls as a girl but also as a boy and it's like what?? What does that even mean?? Am I trans, am I genderfluid, am I gay or straight or bi, WHAT IS EVEN GOING ON.

And then certain labels don't feel right and others do, so idk if I'm nonbinary or genderqueer or Gendervoid OR abrogender because they all feel right (some more than others) but genderfluid and genderflux don't feel right so WHAT IS GOING ON BRO. And it's the same for my sexuality ToT

(sorry this was a rant it's just so confusing and idk who to talk to about this other than the amazing and very gay individuals of Tumblr)

Reblog if you grew out your armpit hair, would date someone who was growing theirs out, have a partner with arm pit hair or think anyone can have and grow armpit hair regardless of gender and they can still be cute :)

Just got back from a pain specialist and I'm vibrating with happiness because they actually listened and gave me a diagnosis that actually describes what I'm experiencing. It feels so amazing to be listened to by doctors knowing that they could have easily blown me off.

It makes me think of all the people who still struggle with getting the right diagnosis, or even a diagnosis at all. I know it seems like a never ending battle with assholes who won't listen but please don't back down. Don't let them ruin your quality of life just because they think they know better and have a fancy degree. It does get better, and eventually you will find peace in a diagnosis with medication or accommodations. Just know you'll always have lil ole me in your corner rooting for you!

do not separate them…..

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arthritis haver flags

flags specifically/exclusively for folks with these conditions, general arthritis flag found on an older post

made because i recently found out not only does it run in the family (both osteo and rheumatoid) but i am highly suspected to have it myself.

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Osteoarthritis/OA + Rheumatoid/RA

Osteoarthritis(left) <- a flag for those with osteoarthritis, a form of arthritis where the cartilage in joints begins to break down causing mobility issues, pain and so on.

Rheumatoid(right) <- a flag for those with Rheumatoid Arthritis, a form of arthritis where the body's immune system attacks healthy cells in the joints causing pain, inflammation, mobility issues and so on.

Psoriatic/PsA + Fibromyalgia

Psoriatic(left) <- a flag for those with psoriatic arthritis, a form of arthritis where the skin develops rashes. this effects the skin and nails, causing large red rashes and pitted nails.

Fibromyalgia(right) <- a flag for those with fibromyalgia, where the body has pain, soreness and tiredness all throughout, causing sleep issues and heightened sensitivity.

Gout

a flag for those with gout, when urate builds up as needle-shaped crystals in the joints, leading to swelling, pain and more.

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I don’t WANT to use dating apps I WANT a monster to decide I’m the perfect mate and court me appropriately!!! And then fuck me stupid sloppy!!

ever since i was a young hydrogen particle 14 billion years ago i knew i wanted to be wasting all the hot water in the shower

(kinda a vent? Idk I'm in pain and no one believes me so this kinda a rant, TLDR at the bottom)

Some of the worst things about being disabled with like arthritis at a young age, is when you tell your parents or just any old person in general and they don't believe that you're in pain. I'll tell my mom my back hurts so bad that it's spreading to my legs, and she'll just roll her eyes and say sorry in a condescending voice. Her and my stepdad think just cause I'm young that equals no pain. My mom was there when I got my diagnosis! She knows that I got my arthritis from my dad and how bad it was when he was my age! But noooooo since I'm not up and working for 40+ years I can't have back pain. I mean gods, I've even thought about buying a cane/wheelchair with my own fuckin money! But just cause I'm young means I can't have pain.

TLDR: If there's a young person in your life with a disability please believe them when they say they're in pain. Age does NOT equal no pain.