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why are poly people so hated

and people say they’re “cheating”

no, cheating is the act of lying to your partner to get with another person. polyamorous people do not lie.

i think, if someone is having a HAPPY RELATIONSHIP and CONSENTING FOR THEIR PARTNER TO HAVE ANOTHER, it’s fine and you shouldn’t intrude

Happy Pride month y'all!!! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈✨🌈

It's pride month!!!

Featuring my headcannon identities +ships of the stick figures from AVA!

Have a great pride month, I'm proud of y'all

okay. so i’m polyamorous, right, i’m open to having multiple partners and whatnot

but!

so far everyone i’ve told has been.. kinda a jerk about it. AND I DONT UNDERSTAND IT

why? what’s wrong with being poly???

it’s not cheating. like, if i had a partner then i started crushing on someone else and that other person liked me as well, id go to my partner and talk about it and if they’re chill with it- and if the other person is chill with it- then i’ll date the other person while continuing to date my partner

i had a bf once who, when i explained that i’m poly to him, told me that he doesn’t want me dating other ppl cuz that’s cheating. but it’s not. AND!!! dude fucking cheated on me

and i just genuinely don’t understand what’s so wrong with having a crush while you have a partner. it happened to me years ago, where i had a lovely partner but i developed a small crush on another guy. i wasn’t going to do anything about that crush of mine, but my partner found out and he was upset and i felt bad cuz of that but i also didn’t understand. and i still don’t

i’ve just been ridiculed every time i mention that i’m polyamorous and i don’t get it. why can’t i love multiple people? everyone does it all the time- i have a plethora of friends who i love, and when i last had a partner i loved him too. so why is it wrong for me to love multiple people in a romantic way?

i’m not going to cheat. i’m not going to say that i’m poly as an excuse to be a jerk

i’ve found that oftentimes i love so deeply that it aches. i can’t help the fact that sometimes i get flustered due to various people, i can’t help that sometimes i have a longing to be with someone; but that doesn’t mean i wouldn’t want my partner anymore

sorry for my little ramble, it’s just gotten annoying to be shamed for this :/

hi! can I request Jonathan with the bi/polyam flags and Speedwagon with the gay flag please?

Of course! I wasn’t sure which of the polyamorous flags you wanted, so I just did them both (sorry abt the lack of symbols, but I couldn’t figure out how to add them).