here's my cat for your dash btw. if you even care
hey, dear. i would like to enjoy your free reading.
as a child, i considered myself spontaneous and outgoing. however, after certain events, i became the opposite, much more shy (sorry, english is not my first language).
what triggered this change and what do i still need to work on?
my initials are 'efa', i'm 19 years old, aries rising in the house one.
What triggered this change in EFA and what do they still need to work on?
When I did your spread, it caught my attention that everything started with a major arcana (judgment in reversed), which in my opinion is so blocked that it did not catch my attention, i don’t know how to explain it but the card was so… cloudy? Then when I was drawing the last card, another major arcana came out (the emperor); where he was sitting in control and relaxed. The energy of him was so strong that I could not focus on the other cards lmao.
The root of your problem is that you have a huge block on your own introspection. It really clouded my judgment, I can't imagine how hard it must be for you. But as I was saying, you are being so hard on yourself. Like an excessive anguish for the sake of not relying on others again. Maybe in that experience that marked you you were judged excessively to the point that you internalized it too. You were judged by emotionally unstable people, I can feel the heaviness of them from here. I think they drove you to hold back and put out that fire and spontaneity you had, maybe to fit in? No man, I better stop because I'm getting angry at them channeling this (ugh, I'm so sorry that happened to you). What's blocking your return to your spontaneous and outgoing self is your struggle to be clear about cultivating your emotions. To be a more compassionate and big-hearted person. You may overanalyze social situations from a place of emotional sensitivity (which is understandable), but in doing so you extinguish your flame. The negative criticisms and the attempt to turn off your flame was in vain, you have the queen of cups come out and she talks about learning to cultivate what you already have. It is interesting how after all this done to you, you still got the queen of all the suit of cups. This gives me to understand that you don't need to make a radical change lol, you just need to re-cultivate daily routines in order to reconnect with this side of you that went dormant. You must let it flow naturally again. An effective way to make it flow naturally again is to take control of what you allow and what you don't allow. You must develop a solid foundation of self-confidence. Because once you do is when you can be your spontaneous and outgoing self. Avoiding and not being direct is not setting boundaries, EFA. The last letter made me dizzy! lmao your boundaries are confusing. Or maybe this situation that happened to you was deeper than I can imagine. But since it's a free game let's not get off track. Anyway, as I was saying: you should practice saying no, you should trust your intuition more about which people give you a bad feeling and which others do not. In particular, let go of that excessive judgment that you carry in you for not being the same person you were before. Others made you pay for it, don't do it yourself. You are free of it when you decide not to do it to yourself. Don't please anyone. Become like the emperor, sitting in your chair, in control, direct and unafraid to look straight ahead with your head held high. I recommend the sandwich technique, oh and this video to create boundaries is very good. Start at your own pace and remember that you are not selfish in setting boundaries, it is simply self-care.
heyyy, for the feedback: I'm curious about this person, seems like a interesting one. Based on the reading the are a hardworker, dedicated to me and has a lot of passion for sure
Thank you for the reading 💙
Heyyy! I’m glad you liked the reading 💙 Wishing you the best with this connection haha—hope it all goes well. And thank you lots for the feedback!
i love healing i don’t wanna be a miserable fuck
every time i start to feel cringe for being too deep in the hyperfixation i remember the intense depression i have waded through and have to remind myself that enjoyment is fleeting (so grab it with both hands), and life is for loving (so hold that love close), and if anyone thinks i’m cringe they must not be having a very good time (and i hope they can find a good time soon).
ABBOTT ELEMENTARY (2021 - ) I 3.05 Breakup
Hi! I’d love to participate in your game please ❤️
My initials are MB and I’m in my 20s.
My question is what is my FS like/our story?
Thank you 🌹
What is MB's future spouse like/their story?
10 of cups rx, the world
You'll meet them during a phase of self development. When you are figuring yourself out. When you're not actively looking for love, but instead you're working on yourself first. Maybe you'll be focused on following your career and out of nowhere you'll meet them. Your future spouse is a very resilient person. Grounded but cautious. They may have a strong exterior but they’ll make you feel calm and secure. I dare say they will be very successful or established when you meet them. They have a lot of integrity and will be good at their craft (whatever it is they decide to dedicate their lives to), but they can struggle with taking risks. Someone who weighs options heavily because they want to make sure it aligns with their long-term goals. They'll come across as quite passionate and determined. They'll take things slowly with you and be very committed.
heeey, so I’m currently having a creative block and some personal issues so the pac reading for this week will be postponed 🥺 I don’t have a specific time for the reschedule but let’s hope it gets all done by saturday evening!
if you don't like me talking about public issues involving something legal like the UHC case ignore this. you can softblock me too. with that being said, that man facing trial is NOT the culprit.
Hey theeere, name’s C. I’m venus dominant, entp (8w7), so don’t be surprised to see more inclination towards romance tarot readings. English is no my first language! So bare w/ me. I love fashion, tarot and movies. I also enjoy learning about mbti ( tho i’m no expert ). My reading style is straightforward and direct without overly spiritual language. I reserve the right to decline any reading that conflicts with my personal ethics, values or energy. If you bark I bark back.
WHAT I DO:
General, love & personal growth. I encourage open-minded and respectful personal questions that don't overstep ethical or personal boundaries. Basic astrology birth chart questions.
WHAT I DON’T DO:
Medical or legal personal themed readings or advice. Allow minors or obsessive people (I don't answer questions that feel invasive, repetitive or based on unhealthy attachments & since i always do an energy check i tend to find this out). No third-party readings: I won't dive into others thoughts or feelings without their consent. No contact questions (to be more specific, I won't answer questions about reconciling with people who may have explicitly cut ties, blocked or separated from you). Free readings unless it’s a tarot game. No extreme predictive timelines with specific timing questions. Timing in tarot can be too fluid. Yes or no questions now since tarot gives more nuanced answers to provide clarity beyond a simple yes or no. No hexes, curses or spellwork.