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tysm for the reading! it was honestly so so on point.. i am def v guarded and that is a result of my past experiences. me having feelings for someone was something that was a very innocent and hopeful thing that now just makes me sad. i worry about letting someone close to me out of fear but i am also never approached romantically so it just keeps me in this bubble. i also have quite high standards after those experiences!! and i am definitely going to bring them down loll. thank u so much for the kind words and guidance 🫶🫶

thanks for sharing your thoughts! ❣️ i am so happy it resonated with you, yay! 🥳 and i get it. it is understandable to feel guarded after what you’ve been through but remember: it’s not your standards that need adjusting—it's those walls. you gotta reconnect with that inner child again. high standards are a reflection of your self worth. if you are never approach romantically don’t let that take a toll on your ego at all. don't think that's a reflection of your worth. i'm often told that i'm conventionally attractive, but do i get approached by many people? not a single one. just stares LMAO. the number of people (men in my case) who pull the classic "i don't want anything serious rn" while wanting to act like a couple or "let's get to know each other first" while having you to the side is immeasurable this days. so DO NOT lower them please. since I raised my standards a few years ago, the same thing happens to me. the minute you lower them men come to you like flies.

true & honest love is haaaard to come by. I've come to enjoy my own company a lot; it's not something that bothers me at all haha. the moment i started to enjoy my solitude i haven’t been able to look back. personally, I know my own qualities and what I bring to a relationship, as well as what I’m looking for. relationships take time and energy, so I’m very selective about who I share that with. It’s not about lowering your standards, but about being intentional with who you let in. after so many bad experiences i am not going to waste my life on connections that don't add up for me, really. anyways take your time and trust that the right person will match you!

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GENERAL:

★  this  is  the  general  quarters,  please  be  mindful.  remember  you  have  the  control  of  your  actions  and  your  mindset  and  this  is  a  general  reading,  it  is  only  predicting  your  most  possible  outcome!

Your Academic Strengths

PERSONAL  GROWTH:

★  this  is  the  personal  growth  quarters,  please  be  mindful.  if  you  want  to  be  the  best  version  of  yourself  you  should  remember  perfection  does  not  exist,  but  you  can  always  improve!

ROMANCE:

★  this  is  the  romance  quarters,  please  be  mindful.  you  should  not  question  if  your  partner  loves  you,  they  should  make  you  feel  secure!

I.  CRUSH:

Are they talking about you to their friends? What are they saying?

What does your person of interest thinks of you?

II.  CURRENT/FUTURE  PARTNER:

Who will be your first romantic partner?

III.  FUTURE  SPOUSE:

Who is your Future Spouse?

IV.  EX:

Megan’s Instagram Update (November 9, 2024)

Hello! I would like to take this opportunity to inform you all that I've had personal difficulties that force me to delay the poll winning tarot reading :(

Next PAC

For the people who were not able to participate, I will be taking the repeated questions that were sent to me to do my next pac readings based on them. Here are 6 possible themes for the readings, but only the 2 most voted will be the future readings on this blog! 

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Hiii, I hope I make it in time! :)

Initials: A.F. Age: 18 Rising sign: Leo Aries placements on earliest degree: None! (Although I have Aries MC at 13°, no other Aries placements apart from that) My question: What personal flaws of mine are blocking any potential romance from taking place? 🥲

Thank you, have a nice day :)

What personal flaws of AF are blocking any potential romance from taking place?

Your cards were very direct, I like that. Or maybe I just liked your energy cuz is more inviting haha. Anyways: You are an overthinker! That’s it. Now getting more into it… For starters I realize that your biggest obstacle is that you have all this energy and encouragement to get started but, all of a sudden you stop. It's like you're stuck in the doldrums thinking in the least optimistic way about the possibility of something without even taking the necessary steps to get into it. You don't even get to explore it, and I got a card that talks about potential in reversed. What does it mean? It's a cup, and it speaks of emotions. Your heart probably has a hard time opening up at first. You end up blocking the natural flow of things yourself. I do believe you tend to intellectualize things so much. Maybe this is why I got so much sadness from a card and if you do that be careful! I know this is a defense mechanism from you. But it is not a healthy one. You prefer what you know and dislike uncertainty. Now this means that you don't know how to manage, let alone take the initiative on your emotional connections. You get stuck in doubt and fail to balance your emotions with your anxiety. You are likely to analyze everything and become impulsive about that anxiety, and therefore cut off certain connections before they start or don't even bother to enter into them because you notice a particular detail of something you didn't like. You get stuck in that inner struggle that you don't end up doing much, really. Things don't take the initiative. So to get out of this stagnation you need to look for some stability in yourself. Learn how to stop overthinking and intellectualizing everything. Just breathe. Know that not everything needs to be perfect and sometimes hurt happens even if we try our best to avoid it. It’s inevitable. Like the Little Prince said: “Of course I’ll hurt you. Of course you’ll hurt me. Of course we will hurt each other. But this is the very condition of existence. To become spring, means accepting the risk of winter. To become presence, means accepting the risk of absence.” You must learn to balance that stability with some action and initiative without letting those anxieties take over. Asking yourself a simple "Is it really that bad?" or "Is this my anxiety/fear or am I over analyzing it?" or even more simple “Am I living?” to yourself would serve you well. Letting your mind take over your heart is not letting it beat freely. And the heart saddens. Question that anxiety, challenge it to find out if it is really true what it makes you believe. It is good to discern and use logic, but in your case you need to learn to balance heart and mind. Because your mind doesn’t play for you, it plays against you. It puts locks in your heart. I can’t stop quoting books and authors but this will (not) be the last and it goes:

“So we shall let the reader answer this question for himself: who is the happier man, he who has braved the storm of life and lived or he who has stayed securely on shore and merely existed?”

Learn how to manage it to the point it is not your enemy anymore, but your best friend. Bell Hooks said the practice of love offers no place of safety. We risk loss, hurt, pain. We risk being acted upon by forces outside our control. So stop waiting and thinking about it too much and as nike says: just do it. Enjoy and feel. Don't waste your heart in fear.

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