I just saw a fantastic post by @whumpingcrow and it got me thinking about when an *almost* recovered, escaped whumpee is found by whumper again. So here's a list of ways for Whumper to say 'found you'.
Whumpee walks into their home, takes off their shoes, hangs up the keys, and goes to flop on the couch. But they see someone is already there. Whumper gives them a big smile, “I was wondering when you’d be back. Let’s go, I already packed up your things.”
Whumpee getting a text from an unknown number: “Tag! You’re it.”
Whumpee picking up their office phone at work and freezing when they hear Whumper’s voice. “Ah, there’s that lovely voice. No, don’t you dare hang up on me. We have some things to discuss.”
Whumpee working tech support and getting randomly connected to Whumper. Freezing up as they recognize their voice, trying to change their own. Not knowing if Whumper knows it’s them and trying to find a way to end the conversation as quickly as possible. Then they hear, “You know, I don’t think I’m going to be able to get this on my own. Maybe I should give you my address and you can come help me. Better yet, give me yours and I’ll come get you.”
Whumper getting a letter and opening it at the mailbox. “I didn’t think I’d find you in a real house, especially not one with such a well-stocked fridge. Congratulations. Really, you’ve outdone yourself. I’m so proud.”
A note on their desk at work in all too-familiar handwriting: “See you soon! <3”
Whumpee coming home to find a bouquet of their favorite flowers on their table. Flowers only Whumper ever got for them.
Getting random text that says, “I can’t say I like the new name. It doesn’t suit you. However, I AM a huge fan of your outfit today. You know red’s my favorite color on you.”
Whumpee having coffee alone at a busy cafe when Whumper slides into the seat across from them. “It’s been so long! You’re looking great.” Whumpee can’t manage to do anything but stare as they hands start shaking.
An exhausted Whumpee driving home from work. They flinch and swerve as they feel a knife at their throat. “Take a deeeeep breath. Just keep driving and do what I say, and you’ll be fine.”
Whumpee just walking down the sidewalk as an arm tugs around their waist. They look up to see Whumper pressed close. They try to stop walking, but Whumper tugs at their hip and they are too afraid to pull away. “Don’t fight me. Just keep walking and this will turn out much better for you.”
Whumpee waking up in the middle of the night to Whumper standing over them. This still happens several times a week, but it’s always just a dream. They take a deep breath, blink hard, and flip on their lamp, trying to make the image fade, but it’s real this time. “You look surprised to see me. Didn’t I tell you I’d always find you? Now get dressed. We’re leaving.”
Whumpee answers to door and freezes when they see Whumper’s smile. “I was in the neighborhood and thought I’d stop by. Aren’t you going to invite me in?”
Whumpee sees Whumper leaning against their car when they get to it in the parking garage. “Shhh shhh. Don’t talk. Don’t move. Don’t scream. I’m already very angry with you. You don’t want to make it worse, do you?” Whumpee just shakes their head in small jerky motions.
Whumpee taking out the trash to the dumpster in the alley after work. Whumper appearing out of nowhere and backing them into a corner. “You can walk to my car and get in the trunk, or I’ll use this and carry you. Your choice.”
The good ol' branding! Never fails! Extra fun if you have to remove the previous whumper's brand first!
The Artistic Whumper™'s Tattooing! Is it somewhere easily visible or is it somewhere slightly hidden? Did whumper have to remove whumpee's previous tattoos?
Collars! Yes!! Can never get enough! Do they have bells in them so that whumpee can't sneak around? Of course we have the excellent shock collars! Do they have a tracking chip that whumper may or may not let whumpee know about? Is it so tight that it reminds whumpee of its existence with their every breath? Or is it loosely hung around their neck as a casual reminder?
Changing whumpee's name? How quickly does whumpee accept it? What does whumper have to do to make them accept it? By the end of their conditioning, does whumpee remember their original name or not? Does whumper give whumpee their surname? Do they get a human name Or do they simply get a set of numbers and/or letters?
Changing whumpee's appearance? Whumpee with dyed hair watching their hair grow so much in captivity that the dye is only on the ends now? Or does whumper dye their hair a different colour? Or does whumper simply cut most of it off? Alternatively, whumper having short haired whumpee grow long hair because they love pulling it around? Defiant short haired whumpee cutting their hair off to rebel? And that's just hair! Clothing? Whumpee who loves fashion being forced to wear bland clothes or clothes they don't like? Whumpee who loves simplicity being forced to be decorated by whumper or forced to decorate themself according to whumper's standards? So! Much! More!
Feel free to add more!
Aplatonic (apl for short) flags part 2 :3 ⭐️ (This set uses yellow, there's another set that uses green+blue+purple for apl instead.) (Due to the image limit, this is split into 4 posts.)
I noticed some a-spec flags were missing tertiary counterparts, so I made some. Some of these flags have already been made before, so they're not all original (I still wanted to have all the flags together in a set, and all in the same res).
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loveless apl | lovequeer apl | heartless apl
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aplvague | caedplatonic | autiapl
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I'll also note that some of these terms can have multiple names, with the "platonic", "aplatonic", & "apl" part being interchangeable. This isn't applicable to every term though. I also chose not to list everything to try to keep it brief. So for example, loveless apl can also be called loveless aplatonic.
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[A-spec flag sets masterpost]
hey friend! do you have anything wildly fucked up for sensory deprivation and / or sensory overload? Maybe a prompt list...? i'm writing and looking for some brainpower. fyi kiddo is already tied up + in a stress position + has barely eaten in four days + obviously having a great time. and in any case pls have a beautiful weekend :)
Ofc!!
Only the restraints and cold air breaking the silence. Painful when they shouldn’t be because it’s so enhanced by the nothingness.
Hearing ringing in their ears or their own heartbeat, even little things like breath or swallowing driving them insane.
“..is anyone there..? c-can anyone hear me…?”
When Whumpee’s been limp for so long that no one can tell if they’re awake or sleeping.
The blindfold and/or headphones aching, burning even, against their skin they’ve been there so long.
Hands falling numb, and pins and needles in their feet or legs from lack of movement and circulation.
Whumpee no longer able to remember what position they’re restrained in. Nothing makes sense. Are their arms up or down? Which way was the door again?
Ultra-sensitive hearing. When Whumper taps on their headphones or earplugs, it’s so loud it’s like lightning cracking through their skull.
That lovely moment when the blindfold finally comes away and Whumpee covers their eyes back up, crinkling against the sky because it’s so bright.
Whumpee only gets Whumper’s touch. That’s it. Whether it comforts or hurts them, they’re grateful for it.
And of course, that moment when a whip slashes across them, and they gasp a scream at the sudden invasion of their nothingness, almost overwhelmed by the shock of something so intense after the muted empty.
Hot and cold at the same time. Alternating so quickly the body can’t even tell which is which.
Not just loud music - a variety. All kinds of ever changing sound and volume.
Are the lights getting darker or is it just me? No…no they’re g- …no they seem lighter now….i swear they were more orange a second ag- no no they’re definitely changing-
Multiple types of pain at once. Stab, then superheat the blade. Then twist.
“You can take another, right?”
Hurt Whumpee while suffocating them. They’re so desperate for air that they don’t care about the pain as much, yet the pain sends them into a frenzy which makes the suffocation work which makes then thrash which makes them hurt more wh-
Forcing Whumpee to solve random puzzles, answer questions, do math, etc while in a stress position. Pain mixed with the balance mixed with the brain games. Keep them overloaded in every area you can. They’ll get exhausted all that much faster.
“Ss-s-stop- ple-ease jus-just make it st-st–..jus for a minute-please-”
Shock collar that keeps Whumpee awake. Zap every time they dip below 80 bpm or so.
That being said, low-level electricity around the clock?? It’s pain but they can allllllmost block it out. Almost. Sometimes.
Platoweird
A term for when one experiences platonic attraction, but in a non normative way. May or may not be considered aplspec.
Romoweird
A term for when one experiences romantic attraction, but in a non normative way. May or may not be considered arospec.
Erosweird
A term for when one experiences sexual attraction, but in a non normative way. May or may not be considered acespec.
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The yellow/green/purple are taken from the apl/aro/ace flags respectively, and are more pastel to resemble the unlabeled flag, as these terms are purposely vague.
The off white represents how the individual who identifies with this terms attraction is considered "off".
The pink represents attraction, because I've seen pink be used to represent sexual, romantic, and platonic attraction.
CONTENT WARNING: torture, nsfw/non-con, branding, non-con body modification, abuse, intense degradation, dehumanization, non-con drugging, amputation, nudity, mocking
Have them wear a diaper (there isn’t any toilets in the dungeon and buckets are overrated)
Have them beg to be hurt/used/tormented
Have them become helpless and unable to care for themselves without Whumper (drugging, amputation, etc)
Tattoo/Brand them with ugly and vile words in places they can’t avoid seeing (hands, face, legs, etc)
Put pictures of them in their most vulnerable moments all around the house
Have them wear revealing clothes or clothes with degrading words on them
Whump them in front of an audience
Spit on them/ Have others spit on them
Force them to degrade themself
Mock them for having basic needs and being unable to function without them (“I can’t believe you’re still hungry”, “see how stupid you look when you need to go to the bathroom?”, etc)
Comment constantly on their body and what’s ‘wrong’ with it
Make them forget how to read and then mock them for it
Force them to dance when you know they can’t
Give them a ridiculous haircut
Use them as a carpet
Make them lick Whumper’s boots
Mock them for being dirty/bloody/stinky when you know they can’t shower whenever they want
Mock them for flinching/saying no/moving away/etc
Force them to make animal sounds instead of talking
Put them on display in front of multiple people
Give them a humiliating name or nicknames/pet names
Force them to say they love Whumper and adore being their pet/slave/toy/etc
Have them say ‘thank you’ every time they’re insulted/hurt/degraded/punished
Sell merchandise with pictures of them in their most vulnerable moments (shirts with them naked and bloody, bags with a big print of their face when they have a spider gag, etc)
Force them to seduce someone and make fun of them for looking stupid
Blindfold them and look at them trying to navigate around the house
Let them think they can escape and then shatter any hope they had left by letting them realize it was a trap
Send videos of them getting tortured/used to their loved ones or just post them online for anyone to see
Force them to sing when you know they can’t
Force them to admit shameful things
Have them crawl in mud
Have them be the only person naked in the room
Have them be the only person dirty in the room
Don’t be shy to add more!!
I love it when a whumpee is so weak that they:
are bedridden, much to their discomfort. They long to leave the bed, but cannot because they are too weak, and their legs shake at the thought of taking even a single step.
can't keep their eyes open. Their eyelids flutter but due to tiredness and too much light, they always close again. However, the whumpee has learned to rely on other senses, and is able to recognize the caretaker's voice or touch among a thousand others.
have to always lie down. They try to sit up, perhaps to eat something, but after a few minutes their head starts spinning and their body starts screaming because of the effort. Much to their chagrin, they have to force themselves back down or else they will likely pass out.
are not hungry. Their body can't handle even plain broth, making them queasy and dizzy. So they continue to refuse food, their only source of livelihood, and this obviously worsens their condition.
are too sensitive to touch. Their skin that seems to boil with fever, the bedsheets that rub down their limbs like sandpaper, the hair that sticks to their sweaty forehead, even the simple touch of the caretaker, a touch that is supposed to comfort them. They start to hate all these little things.
Please, feel free to add more.
Legs shaking, refusing to hold still while Whumpee hides. The shaking getting more and more uncontrollable as Whumper’s footsteps click closer.
Whumper trailing their fingers up Whumpee’s thighs while they whisper calm, quiet threats in their ear. Bonus points if they’re pressed up against a wall.
Kneecaps cracking against stone as Whumper forces them to kneel with a firm hand on their shoulder. Or pulling them down, fingers knotted in their hair.
Whumpee hugging their knees to their chest, rocking themselves to sleep on the cold hard ground.
“I love how your muscles twitch when I run the knife behind your knees. Are you ticklish, dalrling? Let’s hope not. You’ll have to stay very still for this.”
Legs giving out when Whumpee stands too fast. Bonus points if Whumper catches them, holding them close as their vision goes black.
Whumper slowly and delicately carving patterns into Whumpee’s thighs as they pant and struggle to hold still.
The warm tickle of blood dripping down the whole length of Whumpee’s leg.
“You have such beautiful legs. So soft and smooth. But…don’t you think that gets a little boring? Let’s give them a little character.”
Wumpee running through a wooded area at top speed only to crumple to the ground as their ankle snaps on the uneaven terrain.
Then, Whumpee trying not to scream as they pull their broken ankle close, trying desperately to manage the pain as they scoot or crawl off the path before Whumper catches up.
I’m a big fan of boots cracking femurs. Especially if Whumper is standing so tall above them, ever so slowly increasing pressure until the crack and scream.
“Your back is still healing, but the whip leaves such lovely patterns. Let’s try your thighs instead.”
Whumper sitting on Whumpee’s legs to keep them down they writhe and squirm.
Whumper removing legs so the Whumpee can’t run anymore. (Amputation is a whole category on its own, I’ll leave it there for this post)
Whumpee’s feet going numb when their ankles are bound too tightly. Trying to wriggle and stomp to get the blood flowing.
Then, the prickling pain when the blood does finally come back.
Whumpee trying to run only to weaken immediately, realizing how much their muscle has deteriorated over months of being stagnant.
Legs bound together.
Legs bound open.
The rope patterns etched into Whumpee’s skin when Whumpee finally removes the binding.
Rug burn ripping up their calves and thighs as Whumpee is dragged away (bonus points if they’d dragged by their hair or one arm).
Whumpee watching as their thighs get smaller and smaller, wondering how much of them can waste away before their heart gives up on life.
“Try to kick me again and those lovely legs of yours will be covered in blood.”
Whumpee embarrassed as they have to clutch on to Whumper to keep from falling when their legs are to exhausted to stand on. How Whumper is suddenly so kind, holding them close and safe as their legs tremble.
Whumper’s blade peeling thin, long strips of skin up from Whumper’s thighs.
Whumpee’s hands shaking around a knife Whumper left plunged in their thigh. Trying to work up the courage to pull it out, not knowing how they will stop the blood or if they should leave it in until Whumepr returns.
Lukewarm water scalding frost bitten legs as Whumpee is forced into the tub. Whumpee screaming as they try to thrash away, splashing more of it across their body.
Legs going numb when Whumper leaves Whumpee tied to a chair for too long.
Warmth spreading down Whunpee’s leg as fear consumes them and their bladder lets go.
Hammers. Kneecaps.
“The Achilles’ tendon is vital for walking. If I were to cut right here- No no, stop fighting me. Squirming won’t get you out of those ropes, you’ll just piss me off more.”
Grit biting into Whunpee’s knees as they try to crawl away.
A prompt from my hidden injuries post got me thinking about this dynamic ✨ (using FC for forceful caretaker)
Content: Forceful/bad caretaker, forced medical treatment, defiant whumpee, restraints, gags, caretaker turned whumper, manhandling, forced stripping (nonsexual), humiliation my beloved
A whumpee for whom mysterious injuries are a chronic problem—a regular occurrence—they keep dodging their friends questions, they start hiding their injuries, albeit poorly sometimes, until one day they come in so incredibly injured, with blood seeping through their clothes and dark bruises on their skin, poorly hidden beneath a layer of concealer that does little to mask the deep patches of dark purple and red.
Eventually, FC is fed up. They’re all just trying to help and whumpee doesn’t even appreciate it. They keep brushing them off. How insulting. How ungrateful.
One day FC finally snaps and they shove whumpee back against the wall, making them wince and gasp sharply with the pain of the movement.
FC pins them there with a vice grip around their throat— “Oh, you’re fine, are you? Then what the hell was that, hm?””
“N-nothing I—“ FC jabs a finger into the side of their ribcage, and whumpee hisses in pain, their eyes squeeze shut tightly— they’re shaking between wincing, panted breaths.
They can’t hide their reactions any better than they can hide the limp in their step, the way they wince and grab their side when they think no ones looking. But now FC has proved it in front of the whole group, and whumpee is not getting away that easily.
Another forced exposure: Whumpee wincing at something one too many times— maybe someone just lightly bumps into them— and their pained reaction has FC grabbing their wrist and hauling them off like—“Thats it I knew it, I fucking knew it. WHAT have I told you. Get in the car NOW.”
And whumpee is pulling back against their grip, “I’m sorry im sorry! Just please don’t—“ — “Shut. Up. Now get in. We’re going to the fucking hospital.”
Czytaj dalej
narcaro - a romantic orientation on the aro spectrum where NPD affects how you experience romantic attraction. for example, you may only be attracted to people who prioritize you over others or praise you consistently, or people you view as an equal. it could also mean pursuing romantic interests as a way of seeking validation through being desired, without necessarily actually being in love. anyone with npd or who suspects they may have npd or its symptoms can use this label regardless of how they feel they identify with it
colors are the browns from the npd flag and the greens from the aro flag
[ID: a horizontal flag with 6 stripes. from top to bottom: dark reddish brown, light brown, dark mossy green, a medium yellow-green, light yellowish gray and eggshell. end ID]
flag id: a flag with 7 stripes, which are medium dark indigo, faded blue, light sky blue, white, light yellow, soft orange, and red-pink. end id.
banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.
[pt: binatranonbin: identifying as a binary gender in an inherently nonbinary way due to being trans. end pt]
for anon! the purple and yellow are adjusted from the nonbinary flag and the blue and pink and adjusted from the trans flag. i made the nonbinary and binary trans colors fade into each other to represent the inherent nonbinarity of one's binary gender. the term is 'bina' from 'binary', 'tran' from 'trans', + 'nonbin' from 'nonbinary'!
tags: @radiomogai | dni link
reblog only, do not perceive me. Used to be a whump blog but I kinda reused it to be a flag/label hoard now. pfp by warriorsproject.
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