Requisplatonic / Requiesplatonic 

Tips about how to write a character living with trauma

Sometimes you forget what you’ve been through isn’t normal, so you slip up about a traumatic thing that happened and only realize it’s weird when people look at you, disgusted

You always have nightmares. Even if it’s not about the traumatic thing (more about PTSD nightmares here)

Everyone breaks differently and trauma changes you entirely. You may become unrecognizable once people break through your facade

You’re still you, tho, but you’ve just changed so much

You ask yourself constantly if it really happened. If it really was that bad. You only have memories of memories, the more time passes, the less you remember the moment it actually happened

Leaving the house becomes a daily challenge. It’s hard and scary, and who knows what’s waiting for you out there

You may become paranoid. There’s cameras in your room, there’s people in your house, there’s people waiting for you to go out so they can kidnap you, etc

Everyone seems different to you

Every little joke, every little comment people pass on something related to your trauma feels like a bullet in your stomach

Triggers are weird. Coffee tables can become a trigger. Blue eyes. White jacket. Such small meaningless things can send you spiraling down a panic attack and wishing for death

People rarely try to understand. People don’t ask questions. They just wait for you to get over it. But you don’t

Everyone becomes impatient with you. Even professionals. Your therapist might fire you, your friends might call you annoying for flinching, etc

There’s always people that will mock your triggers and trigger you on purpose. Always

Being free is extremely weird when you’re not used to it. You don’t know what to do with yourself

There’s a lot of chances you will develop a personality disorder when going through intense trauma

A lot of people will pressure you to forgive. It only makes things worse

PTSD never goes away. You can work on it, conquer some of your triggers, but it still stays. It doesn’t magically go away once you get cared for

You never believe anyone that says that they’re in love with you. It’s definitely a joke, a cruel cruel joke

You don’t trust anyone. You second guess each of their words

People that are overly happy are suspicious

You’re always tense, though you may not realize it anymore

You’re terrified of relaxing or just not being constantly anxious. What if something bad happens once my guard is down?

Every social interaction is terrifying. You don’t know how to read people, you don’t understand hidden meanings, you don’t dare to assume anything anymore

You might become materialistic. Clinging to every object you find. You can’t let go of anything

You’re terrified of appearing weak

You might develop a superiority complex or even a god complex as a way to cope with having felt inferior for so long

You will be blamed for your trauma. You will be asked why you talk about it so much, why didn’t you do anything to save yourself, why you didn’t fight back, etc

Some people like to make you flinch. It makes them feel stronger than you

You will trigger yourself on purpose to get used to it (reading things with your triggers, watching movies/videos, etc)

You will make your pain worse to get used to it (hitting yourself on bruises you already had, pinching a cut to make more blood flow, etc)

You don’t care if you live or die anymore

You can’t cry, but you always feel like crying. Tears just never come out

You might punish yourself without even realizing it (forcing yourself to take cold showers, burning yourself, etc)

You don’t realize you’re being self destructive and when people mention it you get mad because it’s just how you are now and they should just leave you be

Flashbacks can happen really randomly. You can just be vibing and the boom you remember something horrible that happened

I wrote as much as I could remember at the time, if you have anything else don’t be shy to add it! I you have corrections or other perspectives please share them! Those are all from personal experience so of course they’re biaised, but I made them as neutral as possible!

Sleep Paralysis Whump

I watched Haunting of Hill House and I realised I haven't seen much sleep paralysis whump before, especially from an outside/caretaker's perspective so yippee

Situation/setting:

During a sleepover

At camp

In a hotel

On holiday

During a nap (in a public place/outside)

On a honeymoon

After a one night stand

Whumpee:

Trying to scream but just whimpering instead

Desperately trying to wake up anyone else in the room

They want to look away but they can't

Trying to get their breathing under control

Feeling like they're suffocating

Caretaker:

Waking to the sound of whumpee whimpering

Guiding whumpee's breathing

Trying to help whumpee clench their fist or move their fingers

Holding whumpee when it's over

Restrained so they can't help whumpee and have to just sit and watch

"I need you to breath with me, okay?"

"It's not real, I promise it's not real."

"It's over. You're okay."

Whump Prompts: Punishments

Content: Suffocation/asphyxiation, stress positions, restraints, wounds/injuries, collars, [implied] pet whump, force feeding, starvation, forced to hurt, [forced] self harm.

Forcing them to hold their arms out in front or beside them.

^^ Giving them something weighted to hold while they do that.

Cutting up the bottoms of their feet with a knife or a whip so they can't walk.

Sprinkling some salt into their open wounds.

Reopening old wounds.

Hanging them upside down from the ceiling by their feet.

Putting a reverse gag in their mouth so they're constantly gagging/struggling to breathe.

Keeping their collar too tight.

Giving them a good ole' beating.

Feeding them something that is going to give them food poisoning.

Not feeding them at all!

Feeding them too much, to the point of discomfort.

Crushing them under something heavy (mattresses, bricks, etc.)

Using them as a pin cushion.

Forcing them to drink their own blood.

Forcing them to hurt someone else, whether that be a stranger or someone they love.

Forcing them to hurt themself!

Forcing them to prepare everything for their punishment.

"Look at you, getting all excited before I've even started."

Whumpee whimpered, resisting the urge to close their legs as Whumper chained them to their bed. It wasn't worth it. Not if they were going to be forced back open anyway.

"Sir..."

"Hush," their master murmured, pressing a few open-mouthed kisses along Whumpee's neck as they palmed them through the fabric of their underwear. "Fighting will only make it hurt more, my dear. You know that."

Whump Prompts: Lines that work for Whumper AND Caretaker

Exactly what the title says. Sometimes there are lines that feel like they could work both in a whumpy context, and in a caring, loving context. This list is that intersection.

This is a collaboration with our darling @painsandconfusion, who's finally convinced me to play an active role in the community, so here you all go:

"Drink this."

"Don't move."

"I won't lie to you, this is going to hurt."

"Does that feel better?"

"Do you like that?"

"Oh honey, you're trembling."

"Shh....don't talk."

"You can cry, it's okay."

"What you need is a nice, long rest."

"Hold still and this will hurt less."

"Let me see."

"Don't think about that right now."

"They're not here."

"Are you going to tell me where you got that?"

"I'm gonna lock the door now."

"I'm right here."

"There's no shame in asking for help."

"Does that hurt?"

"Shh...I know it hurts."

"This should warm you up."

"I don't mind the blood"

"You aren't squeamish are you?"

"Do you want me to come over there?"

"Wait right here."

"Is that too hot?"

"We're gonna take it nice and slow, alright?"

"I think that's enough for today."

"Take a deep breath."

"Look at me - hey, look at me."

"How about I kiss it better?"

"Take it easy, you aren't going anywhere for a while."

"Oh, is that too tight?"

"I'm just trying to help."

"Trust me, you don't want to do that."

"You can never go wrong with a nice, hot cup of tea."

"Here, this will help you sleep."

"Now close your eyes."

Feel free to use these, and please tag myself and/or @painsandconfusion so we can read your wonderful whumpy writing!

And as always, if you think anything else needs to be tagged, just let me know :)

Day 4. Four Calling Birds - Hosted By @amonthofwhump

Muzzled | Memories/Flashbacks | Favorite Holiday Memories

(TW: anxiety mentions, muzzle/bit, intimidation, threatening dialogue, implied past abuse, pet whump, kennel/caging)

They didn't know why they did it in the first place. They were stupid, stupid to think that he wouldn't hear when they'd said it so loudly to him. They even tried to hide it in their sobs but he'd tormented them so badly, they couldn't control the single word that might cost them their tongue.

In all their years with Whumper, they didn't utter such damning protest. Whumpee had never gone as far as to tell him 'no'. Especially not as loudly and as demanding as they had en route to a direct question of his. But now the damage was done and hours later, they laid in wait for him to punish them.

When the door creaked open and Whumper's shoes tapped at the flooring, each step made their heart skip the beat he aligned with. It was agonizing but they listened for his arrival and kept their head low in their kennel.

Nothing was said but Whumper opened their cage and left the door wide, insinuating he wanted them to come out. They crawled through the opening and sat just outside, waiting obediently for command.

"I know you remember what you did," Whumper spoke in an easy voice, intentionally trying not to startle them yet.

"Y-Yes, sir.." They saw the edge of something leather bulging from their pocket and they already knew it wouldn't be fun for them.

"I think you've been too spoiled if you're losing control from a little pain." He announced and took out the item they had been living in anxiety from. A muzzle with an internal bit.

They wanted to beg, to plead again but they swallowed it back, they wouldn't allow themselves to speak out. They couldn't earn something worse, he was indeed being gracious when they themselves thought they deserved to be muted. Their Master must have really been thoughtful with his punishment.

"Open your mouth pet, for telling your Master 'no'." He ordered lowly, intending to give no room for question.

They merely complied. They dropped their jaw and refused to look at him as he placed the bit between their teeth and strapped the first buckle to the back of their head. A second strap latched a small external cage over their parted lips and crossed behind their ears. It wasn't too bad until he tightened it.

He pulled the tension as far as it could go and shoved the center nail into the shortest latching hole to secure it. He heard them gag and sputter, fighting for a moment against the metal shoving against their tongue. They wheezed and fought for breath with panic but forced themselves calm at the risk of passing out.

"There there, surely this is better than a clipped tongue, right?" When he raked a hand through their hair, it didn't comfort them and they stifled another gag. They couldn't bear the thought of how long they would be left in the torturous device.

"I know if you could thank me, you would."

ANOTHER ROUND OF NSFW PROMPTS PLEASE AND THANKS!!!🗣️🗯️📣🔞

30 Nsfwhump Dialogue Prompts

(TW: explicit noncon implied through dialogue, dirty talk, noncon dialogue, implied abuse, implied gagging, implied torture, implied forced threesome/multiples, blood, violence, manipulation, gaslighting)

"Your attitude is going to decide whether or not I lube you up or not."

"Stop fighting, it's going in either way."

"Kiss me like you mean it Whumpee, or this will last longer if you turn me off."

"Please, you can do whatever you want to me just please be gentle.."

"What makes you think you've earned my kindness? You're a living cock sleeve and that's all you'll ever be."

"Look at you, what a fucking mess. I didn't give you permission to cum but you're too untrained to control yourself."

"There you go, hold my cock in your throat... Longer, you'll never get to thirty seconds at this rate if you keep choking."

"I know you're stuffed too full but if you're good, I'll pull one of the balls out. But you have to earn it, first."

"Oh you can take two cocks at once... Might bleed a little bit but we don't mind some extra room."

"Are you playing shy? Just pretend it's me underneath you and show them how you really ride."

"Spread yourself open for me, show me what's mine, and prove you're going to submit to me. I might just take it easy on you if you do."

"If that mouth doesn't have a cock in it, it's making too much noise."

"Still tight after all I've put your hole through, you should be proud of that slutty body of yours."

"Bend over and take your punishment or I'll give you pain instead."

"Would you rather have the whip against your back or the handle inside you? Your choice."

"You don't have the right to say 'no' to me, I own your fucking body and all your holes, am I understood?"

"Since you won't act right for me, maybe someone else can break you in. I already told him not to hold back, so you'd better get ready."

"Either you sit on my cock or I'll make sure you can't sit at all."

"Come on, give me a kiss and use your tongue this time, I can tell when you're too scared."

"You can get in the mood or not, I don't care Whumpee, I'll fuck your throat regardless."

"Do those fingers feel nice? You went from crying to moaning pretty fast, Whumpee.. Be honest."

"Once they're all done cumming inside you, this pretty little plug is going to keep you full until you've learned your lesson."

"Have you learned your lesson? Or should I crank it higher and leave you alone with your toys for another hour?"

"You said you hated me so I thought I'd let someone else have you, see if you like them better."

"I haven't even moved and you're already crying about it hurting? Ngh.. You're gonna love when I start pounding you into the mattress."

"Suck my cock if you want a meal tonight and this time make it convincing."

"Let me see that pretty crying face, makes me cum every time."

"Oh pretty baby, you can take it a little deeper, don't close your legs."

"That's it, just a little faster and I'll cum- You can take it, shh, just keep clenching down on me.."

"I know it hurts.. but don't you want to make me feel good? Don't you want to be a good pet?"

Content: Rape/non-con, asphyxiation/suffocation.

"Yeah, that's right," Whumper grunted, thrusting their cock a little deeper into Whumpee's throat as they gagged around them. "Keep tightening that throat around my dick. I bet you're just aching to breathe, aren't you?"

They smiled something wicked. Whumpee's eyes were wet with tears, staring up at them pleadingly as if they hadn't been around long enough to know that Whumper didn't care about what happened to them.

Could you do some more NSFW prompts please? 👀🔞

Oh lawd, here we go again. Thank you for the ask!

(Tags/TW: noncon, intimate whumper, heavily implied abuse, 18+ dialogue, nsfwhump, threatening, implied force, gagging, begging, conditioning, reprogramming, injury, mind-breaking (ish), profanity and vulgar slang for body parts.)

"You’d better shut your fucking mouth if you wanna walk in the next few days."

"P-Please- Too d-deep! I-It hurts!” “Oh but you’re taking it so well, Whumpee.” 

“I-It feels good W-Whumper..” “I told you it would, kitten, I’ll make you feel even better soon.” 

“P-Please W-Whumper! I was s-so close..! P-Please just let me c-cum!” “It’s only been three hours... You haven’t been punished enough yet.” 

“Ask me nicely, pet. And I might give you want you want.” “C-Can Pet make Master f-feel good..? Pet wants to feel good too.” 

“Pretty hard to say ‘no’ like this, huh? Eyes rolled back, mindlessly grinding your hips for more.” 

“Since it’s your first time, I’ll be gentle. The moment you start fighting me, I’ll fuck you how I please.” 

“Only half-way and you’re already gagging, you’ll never talk me out of your punishment at this rate.” 

“Every time I whip you, you get a little tighter around me, does it turn you on that much?” 

“You don’t even know what you’re begging for anymore, do you? Should I thrust a little faster to help you choose?” 

“Open your mouth and kneel, Whumpee. I’m about to use you for what you were really made for.” 

“Just the sound of my belt buckle and you’re hard.. You’re a perfect slut for me now, aren’t you?” 

“You can either swallow your pride and spread your legs for me or I’ll fill you so full of cum you’ll taste me.” 

“Hmm... Which hole should I use tonight, Whumpee? You already know what my favorite is, so choose.” 

“M-Master I’ve been good, c-can I c-cum tonight?” 

“Repeat after me: My body is for Master’s pleasure. I do not deserve pleasure unless Master gives it to me.” 

“Will you keep your legs open this time? Or should I get the spreader bar?” 

“If I take the gag off, you’re getting something else in your mouth, pet.” 

“Master’s friend here is going to teach Whumpee the difference between how I touch you and how you deserve to be treated. Maybe you’ll be grateful when they split you in two.” 

“Are you crying? When you’re already covered in your own cum? Something is amiss, Whumpee. You must not be as afraid as you lead on.” 

“Pretty tight for someone else’s toy. They must not fuck you properly but- ngh.. I-I’ll change that, I’ll pound you stupid every night and break that little ass of yours.” 

“See? Your body found a way to lube up after all, Whumpee. But you’d better start riding, blood dries out pretty fast with friction.” 

creative things to restrain your whumpees with: a thread

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