My Sister In Christ Trans Men Are Constantly Infantilized And Forcibly Feminized And Being Masculine

My Sister In Christ Trans Men Are Constantly Infantilized And Forcibly Feminized And Being Masculine

My sister in Christ trans men are constantly infantilized and forcibly feminized and being masculine is punished by our peers because inside queer spaces it’s always ‘men yucky’ or ‘men evil’ like friendly reminder that not all masculinity is praised and not all femininity is punished

Most trans people were forced into a role they didnt want. Forcemasc is directed to transmascs and butches, not trans women. Same way around with forcefem.

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5 months ago

When a mass shooter is known to be a cis man: damn we need to care more about mental health in this country 😔

When a mass shooter is suspected of being a trans man, regardless of whether that’s true and without knowing anything about transition status: and this is why we can’t let biological females get testosterone even if it improves their mental health

5 months ago

A brief lesson on why relying on generative AI for sex ed is harmful:

A screenshot of a Google query showing the following search: do cis women like trans men

The search results read as follows: Yes, some cisgender men are attracted to transgender women, with a significant minority of heterosexual men experiencing sexual interest in trans women, though it's important to remember that attraction is individual and not all cis men will be attracted to trans women; some may even hold negative views about trans women due to societal biases. 

Key points to consider:

Individual variation:
Just like with any population, individual preferences vary greatly, and not all cisgender men will be attracted to trans women. 

Perceived femininity:
Some cis men might be attracted to trans women because they present with feminine characteristics that align with their personal preferences. 


Social stigma:
Some men might be hesitant to express attraction to trans women due to social stigma or misunderstanding about transgender identities. 

Misogyny concerns:
Research suggests that in some cases, attraction to trans women can be linked to misogynistic attitudes, where men may objectify or disrespect cisgender women while claiming attraction to trans women.

Okay Google, what the fuck is this?

This is so concerning... The Google Gemini AI overview is clearly so confused by the existence of trans men.

A screenshot of a Google query: "can transgender men have relationships with women"

Google's returned result is "An AI Overview is not available for this search"

I'm not sure if it's better or worse that Gemini isn't even trying to answer the same question, but rephrased.

A Google search query for: "Who do transgender men date?"

The AI generated overview is as follows: 

Trans men can date a variety of people, including women, men, and queer people, and their sexual orientation can vary: 

Women
Some trans men date heterosexual women. However, dating can be difficult for trans men, and some straight women may be looking for something they don't have. 

Men
Some trans men identify as gay and are primarily attracted to other men. However, trans men may have less success integrating socially within cisgender gay men's communities. 

Queer people
Some trans men date queer women, who may be less invested in a person's gender and sexual anatomy when choosing a partner. 

Lesbian community
Some trans men have histories with the lesbian community or feel they identify better with it. Many trans men have previously identified as lesbian, often as a "butch lesbian". 

Trans men can have any sexual orientation, including queer, pansexual, bisexual, or gay/same-gender loving. A 2015 survey of about 2,000 American trans men found that 23% identified as heterosexual or straight.

The phrasing "some straight women may be looking for something they don't have" rubs me the wrong way. Also, separating queer women from women in general is upsetting.

I'm conflicted on whether or not we should help Google with training Gemini, but considering how many people rely on Google for information, I've come to the conclusion that--for now--it is worth it to always hit the "thumbs down" icon underneath the generations that turn up poorly and describe in detail what's wrong with the result. 👎

After all, when we tell people not to ask offensive questions to transgender people, the usual advice is "Go Google it!"

As distrustful as I am of Gemini's results, most people that I've met are more than willing to accept its responses at face value. At the very least, the average user seems to accept it for a quick and easy surface level response.

The HRC and PFLAG have much better resources on LGBTQIA+ identity and how to support your loved ones.


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5 months ago

my partner pinned me down pulled my shorts down and forced my legs open then started teasing me for how wet i got...... then got up and left me there

Absolute fucker

5 months ago
They Are Rattling In My Brain Forever FOREVER!!!!!
They Are Rattling In My Brain Forever FOREVER!!!!!
They Are Rattling In My Brain Forever FOREVER!!!!!

they are rattling in my brain forever FOREVER!!!!!

2 months ago
This Is A Remake Of An Old Episode Of My Webtoon (episode 63 -evolve)
This Is A Remake Of An Old Episode Of My Webtoon (episode 63 -evolve)
This Is A Remake Of An Old Episode Of My Webtoon (episode 63 -evolve)
This Is A Remake Of An Old Episode Of My Webtoon (episode 63 -evolve)

This is a remake of an old episode of my webtoon (episode 63 -evolve)

7 months ago

i feel like more people would realize they might be xenogender and/or alterhuman if "cringe culture" and the concept of whats "socially acceptable" didnt exist.

because i was talking to someone and they were describing how their behaviors relate to vampires and how connected they feel to them and its like. DUDE.. CMON. OTHERKIN. ITS RIGHT THERE. YOU **ARE** A VAMPIRE.

it took me forEVER to realize im zombiekin, zombiepupkin, plushyzombiepupkin, and sharkpupkin and i literally could not be happier.

(i literally realized im the aformentioned kins like a week ago)

anyway. cringe culture isnt real. societal expectations/standards arent real. we shouldnt let either be defining factors of how we live our lives or how we identify. each person is unique; with their own beautifully unique identity. why should we place limits on identity when its such a beautiful and limitless thing? normalize being yourself and unapologetically expressing your identity because no one deserves any less than that if our identities arent harmful and they make us happy.

5 months ago

"trans men have no culture" "trans men really are the men of the trans community" "trans men don't experience unique oppression" "trans men cling to being afab" hi have you considered that maybe you have some sort of bias which is why you don't talk to us or know anything about us

5 months ago

Without hrt, Christmas is just cismas.

5 months ago
'ritual For Passage Into Manhood For A New Man' Via Ftm International, Issue 41 (june 1998)
'ritual For Passage Into Manhood For A New Man' Via Ftm International, Issue 41 (june 1998)

'ritual for passage into manhood for a new man' via ftm international, issue 41 (june 1998)

5 months ago

yall I love kinky trans sex but I alsoooo love soft trans sex. loving trans sex. vulnerable trans sex. trans sex with giggles and kisses and massaging and hands gently wandering all over. trans sex that last for hours and has conversation or comfortable silence in between. trans sex with scar kissing or body worship or affirmations throughout. trans sex where you don't have to wonder if they see your body as yours. to be fully seen and cherished and taken as you are. we deserve that

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