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3 transphobic arguments to be aware of (so you don't go down the alt right pipeline)

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Easily one of the most important videos I've seen since the election.

an ode to testosterone weight gain

To any trans man who needs to hear this: When they say they “hate all men” or want to “kill all men,” you don’t have to just accept that. It’s okay to feel hurt, it’s okay to feel unsafe. It’s okay to recognize that they are either othering your manhood or demonizing you for it, and to call them out for it if you’re in a position to. If they have trauma around men, they can work on that in private instead of expressing harmful sentiments around their marginalized male friends. You deserve love and safety. I love you and I hope I can help you feel safe.

Devil on my shoulder

If you have a medical kink and are really into musk/smell like me, try using nitrile or latex gloves and Hibiclens antiseptic skin cleanser on you and/or your playmate. Hand sanitizer and citrus scents can also pair nicely with these two. If you're already on injectable medicine, congratulations, you've likely got dozens of alcohol cleansing wipes already in your cabinet.

Your bedroom will smell like a doctor's office. You're welcome.

Vent comic abt being autistic and a therian

there is a judge in Seattle who does the weekly name change hearings, and who says it's her favorite part of the week. she says she doesn't read out previous names, or ask about the reasons why people want to change them. she says it's a beautiful moment, and a celebration; a claiming of a new identity, or a reclamation of an old identity. she encourages the room to clap for folks. then she welcomes everyone up, one by one, by last name and with warmth; she shows them the court order where nobody else can see, asks them to double check the spelling, and then they're done! do they want a picture? do they want their friends and loved ones who came with them to be in it too? do they want the court order in the photo? she helps everyone pose, shakes hands and stands with them for as long as they need to take it, recruits the clerk for help taking photos of the folks who came alone. then she tells them where to go next, congratulates them, and claps along with the rest of the room.

probably three quarters of the people there were trans, and she centered their experience quietly, with love and joy.

I think I'll be thinking about her a lot this January, and for a long time after. it's good to know she's there.

trans men are awesome because you know that opening in boxers where cis men pull their dick out? yeah it’s also perfect for sticking my hand into and playing with their tcock until they can’t breathe

we need more T4T furry yaoi in this cold world