Letting U Know I Wasn't Able To Respond Then But This Was Very Important For Me When I First Saw It Cuz

ITS A GOOD DAY TO BE A LOSER WITH A JUNE BIRTHDAY HOLY SHIT??

from now on your tumblr nickname is whatever you get from this sexual identity generator  ☆

do you want a relationship or do you just want to be happy(ier)?

hear me out.

sometimes when i hear ppl around me complain about how much they want a bf/gf/partner in general i often want to ask, "why exactly?"

because a lot of the time, at the core, people want a s/o to address some other thing in their life they want fulfilled. like it's more of just wanting companionship, someone to connect to, wishing to feel less lonely etc

i feel like this is worth thinking about bc often people will get into a relationship thinking it will solve this core issue they have, and when it doesn't it catches them off guard. like ur s/o is there to improve your overall quality of life, not solve your life problems for u--that's smth u need to work on urself. yes it will suck. but it will be worth it bc ull be a more well-rounded person!

i used to kinda wish i had a relationship myself, but as i met more ppl and made more friends that feeling went away and i realised i was really content with just my platonic relationships. bc at the root i really just wanted people i could truly connect to, people i could chat up whenever. and i got that when i built a good network of friends.

you don't need a romantic relationship to be happy. it's better to try to address these needs first instead of throwing it all upon the hypothetical partner to solve.

i think about this whenever i have that "i want a relationship" feeling again.

Art by qiaofu

@onehundredgar this is so scary

This is from Thisisnotawebsitedotcom and there are only 3 days left. At May 9th the 9 month are over.

thats so true though... my #1 requirement is cuteness.. time to whip out my favorite pokemon google slide list

i have a common theme with my favorite pokemon (small)

fighting a god with the odd bird lady I picked up along the way, wish me luck 💪

OC INTRO POST - TAMARUK

I'm back with this! this design is less developed, honestly, and it will change as the story goes!

extra notes:

his clothes are meant to somewhat resemble a school uniform. he's young and learning! the shorts are funny to me.

the grey in his hair is meant to remind the viewer of grey wolves' fur.

his greatest weakness would be his black-and-white view of the world and morality, so his palette is monochrome.

the hero complex goes hard on this one!!

So when my niece wore dog ears to school it was "cute" and "quirky" but when I wear them to work