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It's just a phase!
Is it? Then let the phase go.
If you never let a phase start it won't ever end. Pushing someone you know, no matter what the statis is, into a corner of being what they don't want to be at that moment they'll only try more and more. If it really IS a phase, let them go through it. If it starts, it'll eventually fade, because that's what phases do.
If it really ISN'T a phase? Don't make them change something about THEMSELVES for YOUR comfort. It's THEIR body. They won't be in your life forever. Don't leave them with a scar once you're out of it.
If it really isn't a phase, love them. If you don't love them because your Christian, that isn't loving thy neighbor. Your god Jesus wants you to love unconditionally, not to love "unconditionally" until it's something you don't like.
Support the people around you, phase or not. They deserve the same care you do. No need to make what's already such a hard world to live in a harder one.
-Hyunjin