Thoughts - Blog Posts

biggest lesson learnt this year is probably to not give so much of yourself to people who will not do the same for you

hmu if u wanna stroke my hair and rub my back and genuinely care about my well being

ppl who think that saying “I love you” to someone a lot makes it lose it’s meaning are so boring literally what could make you think that? if someone tells you they love you like 3 times in an hour it means that 3 separate times they were sitting there and thinking about you and how wonderful you are like. smh. say I love you to everyone that you love as often as possible bc sometimes it’s easy to forget that there are people who love you

i’m kissable and tired and i can’t stop thinking of you

I think it really sucks when you realise how alone you are because you only really talk to 1 maybe 2 people and when neither of them are available you kind of just lay there in bed hoping your phone will buzz with a text from them or something so you continuously check it and you try to distract yourself and then you get sad about how alone you really are

for someone who is fully content hanging out alone I have a huge want of being someone’s most favorite person in their life. 

*uses lol and lmfao to make embarrassing and sad truths about myself seem like a joke*

im actually really afraid that no one will fall in love with me

you deserve someone who isn’t embarrassed to love you & tells all their friends about u & saves your selfies, & tells u they love & miss you

im lacking vitamin A (attention)

do i take up as much space in your head as you take in mine?

I'm gay and lacking kisses

reblog if ur gay and lacking kisses

Love without Sex

I’m doing a Philosophy paper on Asexuality. Please reblog if you think Love without Sex is possible! I really need the data. Like if you think love has to have sex.

my mom might’ve raised an emotionally vacant child with severe depression and anxiety but she didn’t raise a quitter

I just wanna wear your sweatshirts and hold your hand

When somebody comes out to you about their orientation, “I don’t care who you date/fuck/whatever” is the woooorst thing to say.

When I tell you I’m queer, I’m not purely telling you “oh, I am attracted to people regardless of gender”. I am also saying “hey, I grew up surrounded by homophobia that affected me” and “oh, I worry a lot about my rights being taken away” and even “oh, I’ve been subjected to harrassment and violence”.

I am telling you something about my whole life, not just my love life.

Hell, that even extends to if I follow it up with “I’m also asexual”. It doesn’t just mean “I don’t have sex”, it also means “I grew up without the expectation of a long term romantic relationship being likely for me”, and “My expectations for and the reality of my romantic life are very different and complicated”, and more. It’s the reason I have never dated anyone, and that is a part of my life beyond “doesn’t enjoy sex”!

Our orientations help position us in society whether we like it or not, they impact how we relate to ourselves and others, they impact our likely life experiences. I don’t care that you don’t care that I’d date girls boys and everyone else too, or that I don’t look for sex in a relationship. That’s not what I’m mentioning when I say I’m a queer ace.

straight women, if you really want to pride yourselves on being Great Allies, i implore you to consider the following:

stop using the term ‘girlfriend’ to refer to your lady friends. it’s confusing for us and makes it that much harder for our relationships to be taken seriously

stop joking that you and your best friend are Totally Lesbians. our relationships are not yours to make some cutesy little joke with your friends

yes, this totally includes using the  👭 emoji on pictures of you and your straight friends on instagram. why do you do that

stop using the term ‘girl/woman crush’

stop making out with your straight friends to get guys off

stop fetishizing our relationships

stop assuming that the one lesbian or bi girl you know at school is going to hit on you. chances are, they want absolutely nothing to do with you

and stop assuming it’d be the end of the world if she did

Look at you. You’ve come so far. You may not realize it but you really have. You’re alive right? Isn’t that a celebration? I’m so proud if you. You’re doing great. I love you.

pumpkin spice candles soon

pumpkin lattes soon

pumpkin everything

ok shoutout to my people with imperfect skin !! i’m talking any kind of imperfections u all rock and you are beautiful

as a general rule, if you’re seriously asking yourself “but what if I’m faking?” then odds are you’re not faking.

It wasn’t meant to be. You’re not missing out. Your life has different plans for you.

Ah yes, because the princesses have been such terrible role models. They have taught such horrific lessons such as…

Stop pitting female characters against each other. 

A dress is not a weakness.

personal reminder: stop being so fucking hard on yourself

Teen Wolf Thoughts

I don't normally post my musings, but I can't stop thinking about last nights teen wolf and the ending. Obviously spoilers.

Because I think they may be going with a redo on the kanima story/legend with her? The shapshifter who has something holding them back from being a wolf, usually resembling a panther, etc?  It would explain her odd coloring and would make sense with the legend as previously mentioned, but does this also mean she has a master? Although I'm still confused about how she got out of the coffin. Like did someone take her out before the coffin was closed, or is this another mystery to be lost to poor planing....Anyways....Just a thought/question.

Feelin real green.

The Tumblr green text shade is a pretty good representation of me, I think. It's just toxic enough for me to think of Fallout and radioactive sludge.

The orange is good too. It isn't super bright, which I appreciate. More Halloween. Like, if I bottled up the original Halloween Town movie or a Spirit Halloween? It would be this orange.

Good shit