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y’know, i’ve been wondering. is it still considered trans if i use they/it/he? like, i am absolutely more masculine than feminine, but i wouldn’t really call myself trans. i identify as blankboy, but also lean a little more towards genderblank and genderfree, hence why he/him is my third preference. i’m genuinely curious about the technicalities, so if someone has any answers… :)
Okay you got me lying on my back… what comes next… 🥺😍
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Growing up both neurodivergent, and a trans girl (though I didn't know that part at the time) while also being athletic was a very weird experience.
I could gain social capital through being good at sports. People would see this weirdo kid that they would otherwise call a freak, but I threw a ball really good. So they didn't.
The better my stats were, the more of myself I was allowed to be.
It's a weird experience having a quantifiable measure of your social capital.
It's even weirder when it's gone and you don't know where you stand anymore.
I don't think anyone could have fully prepared me for how life changing it is to be interacting with people who genuinely see me as a woman. Not as a woman* or a feminine man or anything like that, just a girl.
The people I feel safest around are those who treat my existence as wonderfully unremarkable. I'm just a girl to them. A trans woman, not a transwoman type of deal.
Having experienced this really opened my eyes to just how much I had internalized that while I may be a woman, I'll never be woman. Which is some stuff that I still have to try hard to combat.
I wonder how many people were buried with the wrong names. Not due to their parents disrespecting their identity, but because they themselves didn't know that it was wrong.
They never got to learn who they were. They never got to see what life could have been like. Who they could have been. What they could have done if only the world had allowed them to explore.
How many more of us could there be. How many more of us are out there. Numb to the fact that they aren't truly living. How many will never realize.