Wren Answers - Blog Posts

Hey, I saw you reblogged that post about Canada gifting the US an LGBT+ suicide hotline? Just want to let you know that that post is misinformation. The org that runs the hotline - Trans Lifeline - is asking people to corrrect the info; it's interfering with their ability to help trans people. (Their website is translifeline dot org - post is halfway down the page. There's also some stuff in the post's replies and reblogs.)

thank you for telling me! I’ll delete the rb

edit: rb has been deleted

Where could I have seen you before? I feel like I've seen your tag before now

Discord?

my tag is something completely different on discord but I have a really similar tag on c.ai if that helps

Ok so I think this is the person who drew ur pfp https://twitter.com/PeecoA

They deleted the post as far as I'm aware but the artstyle is quite similar and they're a DSMP/QSMP artist so that checks out

I’ll add that tysm

People saying “not the Wilbur support talking” like it makes any fucking difference to spread awareness of the situation is actually annoying.

A woman can dislike like wearing heals, that doesn’t mean she can’t see a good pair.

A person can have a bad experience with a pet, and recognize when a pet doesn’t have something wrong with it.

A child can recognize when their parents are playing favorites or not loving them enough or doing something wrong.

But GOD FORBID someone with a different opinion on a situation that should have been taken to court speaks up about something.

exactly

not the wilbur soot stan talking, you’re fucking pathetic

says the user hiding behind being an anon. c’mon. insulting someone as an anon? a bit pathetic imo. don’t be a coward.

(/hj)

leandra posted a story on her art instagram @/leandrart1 yesterday that all her main social media was hacked and everything posted on those accounts isn’t her. and besides tubbo’s literally gay.

I think she only mentioned her main insta being hacked. and yes, I'm aware Tubbo's gay, but we don't know these people personally. I'm taking her claims with a grain of salt like I do with all claims like this, but I think it's important to share in case this is true. this is still an unravelling situation.

Psst the Leandra stuff is 100% something you need to add tags to for the wider mcyt community to see. If it’s then that’s huge

will do. but what tags? I should probably tag it so tubbo's community sees it, I know that much

edit: i added a few tags, and other tags I should add?

Honestly all this Rue thing is stressing me out painfully, and seeing people throw the "groomer" label so lightly over, literally anyone they hate, feels invalidating (speaking as a grooming victim). It's sad when these talks started to be less about spreading awareness and more about internet fights, this is real people and your words have real consequences

I agree. I’m tired of seeing people throw the term around. And it infuriates me to no end when I see people using the situation just to cause arguments online. Like you said, these are real people and words have consequences.

I think it’s a lesson both sides need to learn. I’ve seen some really insensitive things from all sides. I try to handle the situation delicately when talking about it, so please correct me if I ever word anything in an insensitive manner.

I don't care about Wilbur or Rue, but I do think it's a very harmful idea that a victim should have a specific way they act, and if they are giggling, making jokes or calm, then it means they are lying about everything. I believe, that wasn't your intension, but it's still a bad thing to have your mind go to first. Laugher is a common answer to stress in humans, and if someone already went to therapy and were able to heal some of their trauma, letting them be more jokey and calm about it, they shouldn't be immediately labeled liars. There are a lot of other factors you can point to, like facts and words of other witnesses, not focus on emotions, which people (especially neurogivergent people) express very differently

Yeah, I really could’ve worded that better. I still hold my stance, but I do agree I could’ve worded my reasoning better.