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'ritual for passage into manhood for a new man' via ftm international, issue 41 (june 1998)
If you’re intersex and your relationship to being trans and/or cis is complicated, that’s okay.
Perisex people, trans or cis, have no say in how an intersex person experiences their intersex variation in context with their sex and gender identity.
So many intersex people have complicated and nuanced relationships to sex and gender.
Many of us will go from having experiences that are close to trans ones to having experiences that are closer to cis ones. Or vice versa, or transmasc experiences to transfem, or literally any other combination. And these experiences may impact identity. I’ve spoken to intersex people who have stopped identifying as trans, who have gone from identifying as transfem to transmasc, who have begun identifying as transfemmasc, who have stopped identify as transfemmasc and started identifying exclusively as transfem.
A perisex person screaming that you can only be a woman or a man, trans or cis, if you have X, Y, or Z trait is a bigot.
You’re allowed to be yourself and use the words that best describe your own life.
My gym instructor accidentally became a forcemasc tool for me. Giving me instructions like “Stick out your chest! Grow yourself!”
Oh mamma, the thrills hearing that while lifting some weights.
"t has dangerous side effects" yeah it'll turn you into a slutty incubus that has to fuck for energy or else you'll die
i'm just tired of seeing misandrist ideas and slogans everywhere. the solution to a supremacist structure existing is not to invert the supremacist structure, the solution is to eliminate the supremacist structure entirely. if you political movement harbors supremacist ideas, it will get co-opted by supremacists. if you don't want your spaces to be infested by terfs and other supremacists, stop parroting supremacist slogans and ideals. don't let them feel comfortable with you. ever.
your community will thank you for it, your life will be better because of it, and you'll feel better. thinking that a group of people are fundamentally inferior to you is not good for your soul. do it for yourself, do it for your loved ones.
trans men/mascs are NOT the enemy of trans women/fems transmisogyny is
trans women/fems are NOT the enemy of trans men/mascs transandrophobia is
ascribing bigotry to an entire demographic is what is causing this divide in the community
everyone needs to start understanding how to separate the demographic from the bigotry because otherwise you are going to be extremely susceptible to radicalization
anyone is capable of being transmisogynistic, even trans women/fems
anyone is capable of being transandrophobic, even trans men/mascs
and people are not inherently [insert bad thing here] based only on their identity
A non-conventional queer individual, especially those who are seen as "cringe" by others. This can includes aspecs, microlabel users, xenine ppl, nonbinary ppl, alternative queer ppl, contradictory queers, polyamorous ppl, mspecs, label collectors, nondysphoric ppl, nonhuman queers, loud queers, etc etc etc.
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☆ he/him ☆ trans man ☆ 23 y.o. ☆ gay ☆ furry ☆ wolf therian ☆ autistic ☆ polyam ☆ forcemasc enjoyer ☆ discourse reposter ☆ reclaimed LGBTQ+ terms used on this blog ☆ I block everyone who denies trans experiences or is a TERF ☆ gatekeepers fuck off ☆
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